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Beyond Words

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Seder night is a night when miracles happen, which the Torah refers to as the night God watches over the Jewish People:

לֵיל שִׁמֻּרִים הוּא לַה’ לְהוֹצִיאָם מֵאֶרֶץ מִצְרָיִם הוּא־הַלַּיְלָה הַזֶּה לַה’ שִׁמֻּרִים לְכל־בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל לְדֹרֹתָם – It is a night of vigil for the Lord to bring them out of the land of Egypt; this is a night of vigil for the Lord for all the children of Israel throughout the ages.

But before this declaration, the Torah narrates the Jewish People’s experience in Egypt, echoed by the Haggada at the Seder, and describes the turning point, when the people groaned from their backbreaking labor:

וַנִּצְעַק אֶל־ה’ אֱלֹהֵי אֲבֹתֵינוּ, וַיִּשְׁמַע ה’ אֶת־קֹלֵנוּ, וַיַּרְא אֶת־עָנְיֵנוּ וְאֶת-עֲמָלֵנוּ וְאֶת-לַחֲצֵנוּ… וַנִּצְעַק אֶל־ה’ אֱלֹהֵי אֲבֹתֵינוּ – כְּמָה שֶּׁנֶּאֱמַר: וַיְהִי בַיָּמִים הָרַבִּים הָהֵם וַיָּמָת מֶלֶךְ מִצְרַיִם, וַיֵּאָנְחוּ בְנֵי־יִשְׂרָאֵל מִן־הָעֲבוֹדָה וַיִּזְעָקוּ, וַתַּעַל שַׁוְעָתָם אֶל־הָאֱלֹהִים מִן הָעֲבֹדָה – And we cried out to the Lord, the God of our ancestors, and the Lord heard our voice, and He saw our affliction, and our toil and our duress…  as it is stated; “And it was in those great days that the king of Egypt died and the Children of Israel sighed from the work and yelled out, and their supplication went up to God from the work.”

The Torah describes what they did – they groaned – and what happened as a result: their cries rose to Heaven, and God heard them, considering these cries as stirring prayers.

When you hear something, it is external and may or may not resonate deeply; however, when someone truly listens, their internal desire extends beyond the self and draws the external inward. God actively listened to their cries, which spurred action and led to redemption; the responsiveness of a Creator, who not only hears but listens, signifies a deep, personal involvement in the life of Creation.

But notice how they didn’t pray in any conventional sense at all; there were no gatherings, campaigns, fasts, or prayer lists. They simply cried out from pain and misery, yet these cries were sufficient; they were the worthy and pivotal prayers upon which the story turns.

Rather than perceiving time as a simple linear progression, we can understand time as cyclical, where events repeat in patterns, with recurring seasons and cycles. When we celebrate a birthday or anniversary, we experience a sense of renewal, a revived manifestation of the original event. Your birth occurred on a specific day years ago, yet the energy or force that gave life to you remains special, and we commemorate it annually, creating a temporal loop.

Every birthday signifies a new beginning, a fresh tally of your life, which aligns with the notion that time is not strictly linear but contains pockets of cyclical or even spiral-shaped significance.

Even the fundamental building block of life, DNA, isn’t linear—it’s a double helix, an interlocking spiral.

Life is replete with cycles, not lines—a spiral galaxy forever rotating, never returning to the exact same point. Seder night is not merely a commemoration of the Exodus; it reinvokes the redemptive energy and forces that give rise to redemption, endowing our existence with renewal and possibility.

The turning point of the Seder is the moment the Jewish People cried for help, not as structured formal prayers, but as raw, heartfelt cries.

The Apter Rav explains that when we read the part of the Haggada about our ancestors crying out, the very same primal energies and forces are accessible to us then and there. R’ Meilich Biderman and many others recount stories of individuals who, during this moment at the Seder, uttered the same prayer as our ancestors and subsequently experienced salvation, whether for children, healing, finances, a marriage, or what – וַנִּצְעַק אֶל־ה’ אֱלֹהֵי אֲבֹתֵינוּ וַיִּשְׁמַע ה’ אֶת־קֹלֵנוּ.

Our sages conclude from the stories of our ancestors that God loves righteous prayers; you don’t have to be righteous to generate a righteous prayer. Our daily prayers affirm that God is close to the people who call on Him in truth – קרוב ה’ לכל קוראיו, לכל אשר יקראוהו באמת.

When rain gets cold, it turns to snow, but if it gets too cold, it won’t snow at all.

There are times we can pray. But there are times when words are not enough, and we’re not praying; we’re crying, or maybe not even that, because it is too hard, and we are so tired of running on empty.

As R’ Ahron of Karlin points out, this is not a night of remembering past redemptions; it is explicitly a night of future redemptions for all generations, including ours – לֵיל שִׁמֻּרִים הוּא לַה’ לְהוֹצִיאָם מֵאֶרֶץ מִצְרָיִם הוּא־הַלַּיְלָה הַזֶּה לַה’ שִׁמֻּרִים לְכל־בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל לְדֹרֹתָם.

The Ohr HaChaim highlights how redemption is promised as something ongoing, not something in the past tense – לְהוֹצִיאָם / לְדֹרֹתָם.

Take a moment to think deeply about yourself, the people you love, and the things you need. Be vulnerable and sincere; when it hurts, you cry. An analysis of the adequacy of our intention and prayers is misplaced; a heartfelt sigh and an honest tear have the power to move the heavens.

Although it isn’t a conventional prayer, and although it isn’t directed at Heaven or anywhere in particular, just know that it happens to be a perfectly faithful reenactment of our ancestor’s great prayer, and that was more than enough – וַנִּצְעַק אֶל־ה’ אֱלֹהֵי אֲבֹתֵינוּ, וַיִּשְׁמַע ה’ אֶת־קֹלֵנוּ.

On all other nights, the Creator accepts our prayers holistically, from the outermost words to the innermost thoughts and feelings, our deepest desires that we are not consciously aware of and cannot begin to articulate.

There is no mystical meditation here, no magic words.

But on this night, there is magic in the air; this is a night when miracles happen.

One Step At a Time

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Gratitude and thanksgiving are foundational sentiments of the Jewish People; we are named after Yehuda, which derives from the Hebrew word for “thank you” – תודה. We’re not just the people of the book; we could more accurately be described as the grateful people, the thankful people.

Among the many expressions of gratitude in our Tradition is the beautiful Seder night Dayenu song, which divides the Exodus into fifteen distinct stages, deeming that each would have been enough on its own – Dayenu!

If the Creator had just taken us out of Egypt and left our enemies alone – Dayenu!

If the Creator had split the Sea but not given us safe passage – Dayenu!

If the Creator had given us safe passage but not given us food and water for forty years – Dayenu!

If the Creator had sustained us but not given us the Torah – Dayenu!

And so on.

It’s a fun song, we love it, it’s great.

However, it harbors a fundamental flaw at its core; without the entire story taken together, the Jewish People’s redemption ultimately fails.

If the Creator had taken us out of Egypt without dealing with our enemies, they would have prevented our escape.

If the Creator had split the Sea and not given us safe passage, our enemies would have overtaken and killed us.

If the Creator had given us safe passage but hadn’t provided logistical support in the form of food and water for forty years, we would have perished from thirst and hunger.

And if the Creator had sustained us for all that time without giving us the Torah, then what exactly would have been the point of everything?

None of these scenarios would have truly been sufficient on their own; each was critically and independently necessary. That’s why they had to happen!

But if they would not have been enough, why say Dayenu?

Understanding this paradox is revealing; while it’s true that each step might not have been enough for comprehensive and total victory, that’s not the point of the song.

The song is about how each step of redemption is enough to earn our undying thanks and earn our song of Dayenu; we will recognize and be thankful for the good we have been graced with, even when it is not quite sufficient for our goals and purposes.

Too often, we zoom out to view the big picture, moving on to the next goal, the next project, and the next win. It’s easy to forget that the goal we just achieved was one we were desperate for not so long ago.

We have good news. We are happy for five seconds. And then we start thinking about all the next steps, and we have moved on. We get the promotion and plan the next career move. We close the deal and plan the next one. We pass this test and focus on the next one.

This song corrects that mistaken perspective. Leaving Egypt and focusing on the Promised Land would not have been enough; you would have missed the whole thing.

Each win is a building block to something else. No win is big enough; there is no ultimate victory. The chase never ends, and there is no finish line, so each win is sacred in itself – Dayenu.

The milestone is not the end goal but deserves a moment of celebration and thanks – Dayenu.

The Sfas Emes points out that we hide part of the Matzah for the later stages of the Seder – Tzafun means Hidden; redemption was not fully revealed at the Exodus, but was concealed and only unfolds in small steps over time. We sing the song and break down each step because it unpacks what redemption looked like once but also so that we can recognize it on an ongoing basis – Dayenu.

By appreciating the process rather than just the outcomes and focusing on each small victory, we build momentum and create an identity of recognition and positivity.

Each step is leading somewhere – הַמֵּכִין מִצְעֲדֵי גָבֶר.

Critically, celebrating a small win isn’t a premature celebration of a big win. The orientation to counting small wins grounds expectations in the present; you don’t count chickens before they hatch. Counting small wins focuses on what is being achieved now without the pressure of expectation of what might or might not happen in the future.

Don’t wait for a complete resolution to acknowledge the significance of each phase of the journey. Each step is a victory, and each accomplishment is a cause for celebration – Dayenu!

Count small wins; the big wins only happen one step at a time.

Creative Corrective

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Shabbos is one of the defining features of observant Judaism. With its community prayers, family meals, and adherence to intricate laws, Shabbos is a foundational pillar of observant Judaism. These practices define the day of rest and embody a complex system of values and teachings that guide ethical and spiritual life.

The Torah itself is pretty sparse in terms of the laws of Shabbos. Don’t light fires, don’t gather firewood. Yet the Torah consistently associates the Mishkan’s construction with Shabbos and emphasizes that Shabbos has priority. Our sages take this to mean that any creative work or activity that demonstrates mastery over one’s environment that was part of the construction project constitutes a primary category of activity forbidden on Shabbos – מלאכה.

One of these is the category of erasing.

The Mishkan walls were made of wooden boards that had to be assembled in a particular order – that’s why building is a primary category of forbidden activity. Much like how you’d put together flat-pack shelving, they were labeled: A connects to B, connects to C, and so on. It won’t click together when you build it in the wrong order!

So, the designers marked the boards with letters, which is why writing is a primary forbidden activity.

And if someone on the design team wrote the wrong letter, smudged it, duplicated a letter, inscribed it in the wrong spot, or it wasn’t legible enough, they would erase it, the source of erasing as a primary category of forbidden activity.

However, erasing is very different from the other primary categories. One of the fundamental principles of Shabbos is that only creative work is forbidden.

Building and assembling are creative. Writing is creative. Even demolition and deconstruction are creative; the Mishkan was portable and part of its design was taking it apart and reassembling it. But erasing is corrective; at no point in the construction or design process did anyone have to erase anything for the purpose of making anything!

So why is erasing a primary category of creative activity?

There is a fundamental lesson to orient ourselves around.

While it’s true that you only erase something when you make a mistake, making mistakes is part of building; you cannot build something and not expect mistakes, in which case undoing mistakes is an integral part of the creative process.

In categorizing erasing as an independent primary creative activity, our sages acknowledge the inevitability of errors and the necessity of correcting them Erasing is not an after-the-fact error remedy; it is a crucial phase of the creative process. All forms of building are inherently accompanied by missteps, and correcting these errors is inseparable from the act of building.

Our sages teach that, apart from seven exceptions, every righteous person has made mistakes since the dawn of time; this means that the capacity for mistakes is fully compatible with the category of righteousness, and mistakes are intrinsic to life.

Creators deepen their understanding of their work by recognizing and rectifying errors, gaining insights that guide them toward a more refined and effective creation.

Erasing is far from a simple act of correction; it is a fundamental component of creation. It is part of the essential process and interplay of making and remaking that defines our human experience and spiritual endeavors.

Our sages were wise to understand that the journey towards any form of creation is inherently paved with trial and error and that each misstep is itself a crucial step forward.

Our sages’ categorization of labor is not legal scholasticism; it prompts us to consider our approach to life’s inevitable errors and how we correct them.

Next time you find yourself reaching for the metaphorical eraser, remember that each mistake and each act of correction is a conscious and creative step towards something greater, a constructive act of masterful refinement.

Look beyond the surface of your mistakes.

Embrace the beauty in the process of correcting mistakes; in our mistakes lies our growth and creativity.

Erasing is building.

Can you embrace your missteps as much as your milestones?

Permissionless

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The Mishkan was the focal point of spirituality and connection, and its inauguration was a cause for celebration marked by a seven-day ceremony, but the celebration was marred by tragedy. Ahron’s eldest sons, Nadav and Avihu, broke protocol and presented sacrificial offerings of their own; they died instantly.

Their loss was devastating far beyond their immediate family; they were more than the beloved children of Ahron, who was the heart and soul of the Jewish People. Our sages suggest that they were perhaps even greater than Moshe and Aaron in some regards; they were primed to lead the next generation but never got their chance.

The Torah doesn’t shy away from criticism; its silence about why they deserved to die is deafening, and our sages suggest possible explanations to fill the gap.

In one such teaching, Nadav and Avihu were liable because they would wonder when the old men would die; then, they could finally take Moshe and Ahron’s place and lead the Jewish People.

R’ Noach Weinberg teaches that their fatal flaw was not in speculating about the great men’s deaths but in their waiting and not acting sooner.

They saw opportunities to make a difference, and rather than act, they waited, squandering all the time and opportunities they had along the way. In touch with the young people in a way the older generation could never be, they perceived a sense of deficiency or lack that they never took ownership of or stepped in to solve; they just sat back and waited for their turn. Their fundamental error was the mistaken belief that you are only responsible for fixing a problem once you have permission or authority.

The correct approach is to understand that responsibility begins the moment you become aware of the problem’s existence. In other words, there is no hierarchy to responsibility; you don’t need anyone’s permission. Take ownership of the issues you perceive around you and confront them regardless of your position, resources, or abilities.

R’ Noach Weinberg encourages us to live with and take to heart our sages’ teaching that the world was created for us. Each of us is obligated to view the world as our personal responsibility, which requires no permission to step in and save; when something is your responsibility, the notion of waiting for permission is absurd.

As R’ Shlomo Farhi teaches, the questioning self-doubt of who you are to step up is mistaken; instead, ask who you are not to share whatever gifts you have been entrusted with because your resources and abilities aren’t yours to withhold from the world.

Our sages implore us not to wait for the perfect moment that might never come – שֶׁמָּא לֹא תִפָּנֶה.

Take responsibility for the world you see.

If you have something to share with the world, share it. If you can build, build. If you can lead, lead.

Everyone has something to share with others, and the bar for making a positive difference in people’s lives is not high.

What’s doubly sad about the incident with Nadav and Avihu is that the Torah’s narratives don’t even support their error. We know that Yisro initiated a judicial overhaul that Moshe adopted without debate because it was a good idea on its merits. In a later incident, Yehoshua was alarmed when Eldad and Medad prophesied in the camp, but Moshe was secure with their greatness and wished for more like them. He regularly complained about being exhausted and overwhelmed with his leadership position and needed more help. He was the most humble of all men; we have every indication that, in all likelihood, Nadav and Avihu’s initiatives would have been welcomed and celebrated, but they kept to themselves and didn’t share.

Knowledge must be shared. If we waited until we knew everything, no one teach. As our morning prayers affirm, part of learning is teaching – לִלְמֹד וּלְלַמֵּד.

The Lubavitcher Rebbe famously built a distributed worldwide network of teachers empowered by the lesson that if all you knew was the letter Aleph, find all the people who don’t yet know it and teach them.

If the universe has made you aware of something others have missed, that is permission enough to at least attempt to make a difference. People out there need your help; the clock is ticking.

Nadav and Avihu waited their turn; their turn never came.

Don’t wait.

Unmasking Power

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Intermediate

The Purim story revolves around a mighty empire that extends across the known world in the royal court of a king who is ostensibly the embodiment of power and authority. It presents a fascinating commentary on the nature of power and where we think it lies.

In the story, this mighty empire uses its reach to send and recall conflicting and contradictory messages, and the great king cannot make his own decisions; he relies heavily on the counsel of others and never makes a decision on his own.

The story opens with the king’s grandeur and luxury, with his lavish parties and extravagant display of wealth serving as a testament to his power and greatness in the eyes of his subjects. Machiavelli suggests that perceptions of a ruler’s greatness can significantly influence their hold on power, as people are more swayed by what they see than by the ruler’s intrinsic qualities or moral standing.

Power has two components: a physical and enforceable element and a subjective belief, and beliefs are much stronger. When everyone believes something, it can be as real as hitting a wall. Correspondingly, physical enforcement of power may be weak or non-existent, but no one knows until cracks in the wall of belief appear, and the illusion quickly disappears.

Consensus reality and accepted truths are ironic; you can be tangibly right about something in the real world, but until subjective belief comes around, it doesn’t matter. You might as well be wrong. This applies to so much in human society, including negative and positive perceptions, cultural norms, the stock market, leadership, brand recognition, credibility, and accepted truth.

Power resides where men believe it resides. It’s a trick, a shadow on the wall.

The king’s insecurity is revealed to all when Queen Vashti refuses to appear before his guests, and he executes her. While seemingly assertive, this act is transparently a desperate attempt by Achashverosh to save face and reassert his power, a power that is continually undermined by his own ineffectiveness.

His entire rule was characterized by rashness and indecision, like hastily executing his first wife but flip-flopping on the state genocide policy. Instilling fear among people in this way led to instability and unpredictability, undermining his authority and failing to secure loyalty or respect in a meaningful way, as is borne out in the rest of the story.

Throughout the story, the king is portrayed as spineless, underscoring the illusory nature of his power, which, though vast, is hollow at its core. This kind of power is illusory, a paper tiger, something that appears threatening but is, in reality, ineffectual and unable to withstand challenge; the king was incredibly powerful politically yet fundamentally weak.

In stark contrast to the power of the Persian empire, Mordechai is completely powerless, and yet he is by far the strongest character in the story, upright and unshakeable. He bravely stands alone, helping others find their courage, first Esther and then his people.

Initially seen as a minor figure, Mordechai derives strength from his moral conviction and unwavering faith. His refusal to bow to Haman challenged the empire’s power structure; his seemingly small act began to crack the wall of subjective belief that upheld the existing order. Esther’s journey also sees her evolve from a passive queen to a proactive savior, finding belief in her own power to the point of becoming the catalyst for redemption and helping her people find the power to fight for survival.

The Purim story challenges conventional notions of power, presenting a world where the seemingly strong are weak, and the ostensibly weak possess true strength. Victory does not go to the mighty empire but to the brave people united by courage and moral conviction, inspired by Mordechai and Esther.

The empire, with its grandeur and vastness, is a facade masking the emptiness of his leadership. In contrast, the real power lies in the moral integrity and bravery of individuals like Mordechai and Esther.

The Purim story is a timeless and relevant reminder that in our value system, respect will not be found in the flashy and superficial displays of grandeur and wealth or the empty and meaningless flexes of power and politics.

Respectable authority and capability are not found in titles or thrones but in our character, integrity, and ability to help and inspire others.

Sources and Uses

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In a finite universe, resource allocation matters, and the headlines often reveal negligence. Trillions of taxpayer funds are spent on healthcare and defense in the public sector with no accountability for where they go. Corporate executives implement cost-cutting measures to increase margins; a few months later, a critical component fails, and a plane crashes. The lack of accountability is how you get lead in toys, carcinogens in baby food, and low-quality materials holding planes and buildings together; numbers tell a story.

In our daily lives, whenever someone wants an investment, one of the most important things investors should consider is the sources and uses, the story the numbers tell. How much money do they need, and where is it going? Will it make the business more profitable, or are you sponsoring the guy’s next vacation? The same analysis applies to charitable giving: what ratio of the fundraising budget goes to the administration’s salaries, travel, and dinners, and how much of your charity actually goes towards helping the cause?

When handling other people’s money, there can be no room for moral hazard; as our sages acknowledge, money makes people act weird.

The Torah dedicates an entire section to a detailed account of how the donations to the building of the Mishkan were used, a public accounting for posterity.

The Torah’s space is a precious commodity; what makes the cut and what doesn’t is noteworthy. What are we supposed to make of this accounting, verifying that, by the way, Moshe didn’t mess with the money, and just so you know, Bezalel didn’t burgle some bars; might have we suspected otherwise?

Firstly, our sages note that no matter how sacred the project or how pure the builder’s intentions are, you are always guaranteed to have some clowns; there were actually people who suspected Moshe of skimming off the top and getting rich off the project!

Secondly, the essential principle isn’t in the specific line items of how much of this or that there was; maybe that part doesn’t matter today. However, the broader concept is dynamite; there must be transparency and accountability regarding public funds, even if the people involved have impeccable reputations. Leaders should eliminate the need for people to trust them, even if you’re Moshe and even for the Mishkan.

As R’ Jonathan Sacks highlights, the prophets regularly lambasted corrupt judges who had undermined their integrity and eroded the public trust in justice. A community and nation that suspects its leaders of corruption is dysfunctional. It is the mark of a society in good health when public leadership is seen as a form of service rather than a means to power, which is all too easily abused.

Our sages interpret a remark from Moshe as a way of acting in public life so as to be beyond reproach:

וִהְיִיתֶם נְקִיִים מֵה’ וּמִיִּשְׂרָאֵל – And you shall be clear before the Lord and before Israel… (32:22)

As such, at least two people must be in charge of administering public finances; Moshe was the treasurer, and Itamar independently audited, which is how Moshe could verifiably claim at Korach’s revolt never to have taken anything from anyone. When the Beis Hamikdash was operational, treasurers could only exchange treasury coins with a third party, not their own. They were not allowed to enter the treasury wearing tight clothes or anything with linings or pockets in which it might be possible to hide and steal.

Contemporary governance and leadership experts reinforce what the Torah stated plainly long ago: accountability is a prerequisite to leadership and is not just a matter of personal integrity but of a systemic design that distributes responsibility and ensures oversight. Leaders are tasked with doing right and being seen to do right, establishing a culture of integrity that underpins a healthy, functioning society.

While authorities differ on whether this is a legal obligation or best practice, there can be no question that the Torah’s detailed accounting of the sources and uses of public contributions is a precedent that public trust in leadership is built on openness and accountability. It is healthy for leadership to be accountable to the community it serves, especially when it comes to the stewardship of public resources.

It is the mark of good leadership to take proactive measures to eliminate the need for trust by replacing it with verifiable transparency, creating a culture of accountability and openness.

Accountability and integrity are everything; when you are transparent, you’ll never need people to trust you.

Gevuros – Divine Might and Strength

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אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם אֲדֹנָי מְחַיֶּה מֵתִים אַתָּה רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ: מוֹרִיד הַטָּל / מַשִּׁיב הָרוּחַ וּמוֹרִיד הַגֶּשֶׁם: מְכַלְכֵּל חַיִּים בְּחֶסֶד מְחַיֵּה מֵתִים בְּרַחֲמִים רַבִּים סוֹמֵךְ נוֹפְלִים וְרוֹפֵא חוֹלִים וּמַתִּיר אֲסוּרִים וּמְקַיֵּם אֱמוּנָתוֹ לִישֵׁנֵי עָפָר, מִי כָמוֹךָ בַּעַל גְּבוּרוֹת וּמִי דּוֹמֶה לָּךְ מֶלֶךְ מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה וּמַצְמִיחַ יְשׁוּעָה: וְנֶאֱמָן אַתָּה לְהַחֲיוֹת מֵתִים: בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה’ מְחַיֵּה הַמֵּתִים – You are mighty forever, my Master; You are the Resurrector of the dead the Powerful One to deliver us.
He causes the dew to descend / Causer of the wind to blow and of the rain to fall.
Sustainer of the living with kindliness, Resurrector of the dead with great mercy, Supporter of the fallen, and Healer of the sick, and Releaser of the imprisoned, and Fulfiller of His faithfulness to those who sleep in the dust. Who is like You, Master of mighty deeds, and who can be compared to You? King Who causes death and restores life, and causes deliverance to sprout forth.
And You are faithful to restore the dead to life. Blessed are You, Hashem, Resurrector of the dead.

Might and Strength

This blessing invites us to consider the capacity of divine might and its relevance to our lived experience. It speaks of God’s eternal strength, the power to bring dew and rain, the resurrection of the dead, the cyclical journey of life and death, and all kinds of revival, challenging us to find relatability in difficult concepts.

The perspective this blessing takes is that omnipotence is not abstract; it manifests in the very fabric of creation and life. Intimately connected to Yitzchak, the avatar of might and severity, Yitzchak’s narrative is also associated with strength and the resurrection of the dead. Our sages teach that allowing Avraham to stand over him with the knife was an act of strength and that his soul departed that moment but was restored to life and, in that moment, perfected the archetype of strength for his descendants.
yitzchsak is ketz chai
and vayiketz

Strength not kindness

This raises an intriguing question, though. We would naturally assume that life-giving is more associated with kindness than strength; why does the power of life feature so prominently in a blessing praising God’s strength?

Perhaps the answer lies in the notion that a life worth living is won through strength, sacrifice, and willingness to give of oneself. Yitzchak earns resurrection and eternity through his demonstration of ultimate strength: not with physical power but with deep courage and determination, spiritual steel, and a mentality of unshakeable resolve that made him ready to give his life for a higher purpose. In this reading, strength is a force that brings life and defies the finality of death; divine might is life-affirming.

Might is seen in the world.

God’s might can be experienced but in the foundational principles that govern existence; it is in the world that God’s strength is made evident in the ability to imbue creation with life, order, and purpose – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם.

Strength is most commonly perceived as physical prowess. However, our sages teach a more nuanced understanding of strength, emphasizing strength as mastery over oneself, over one’s impulses and desires. Especially in the context of the Creator, divine might is not about overpowering adversaries, for none exist, but is about the inherent sovereignty and self-sufficiency of the Divine will.

In giving life and blessings to the wicked, we see God’s boundless capacity, might at play, the attribute of overcoming or prevailing, the source of our fundamental belief in the potential for transformation and redemption irrespective of past actions. In sharing the righteous with us, the people who make our world better, we see God’s might in sharing them with us.

With no counterpart, God can not do anything for another. Humans fail and make mistakes in a world that operates within the framework of free will and moral choice. Against the limitations and imperfections inherent in creation itself, we experience the Creator’s might in commitment to sustaining creation, guiding it towards fulfillment, and perfecting it from within – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם.

Forever

We live in a temporal universe with laws of thermodynamics, where energy and power wane. As this blessing states, God’s strength is not subject to time or decay, something entirely outside our frame of reference. Eternal might is not a function of enduring strength but an expression of God’s immutable essence.

Even a magical fountain of youth or elixir of life would still only represent a weak attempt to escape the ravages of time; God’s might is eternal, not because it lasts forever in a temporal sense, but because it transcends time itself – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם.

 לְעוֹלָם אֲדֹנָי – Eternal Master

This phrase captures the concept of God as Master and First Cause, predating all existence. This idea delves deep into the philosophical and mystical dimensions of Jewish thought, particularly exploring the significance of the Hebrew alphabet in articulating the nature of the Divine.

The first letter of the Hebrew alphabet, Aleph, symbolizes the primordial aspect of the Divine, indicating that God precedes all creation, which starts with Beis – Bereishis. Aleph before Beisunderscores the concept of God as the ultimate origin, the Alpha or First Cause that exists beyond the confines of time and space, the unity behind the universe. More cryptically, the composition of the letter Aleph is a diagonal Vav and two Yuds, totaling 26, the numerical value of the name emphasizing God’s eternal nature as what is, was, and will be.

Yud is the first letter that combines all preceding elements in the divine hierarchy and signifies the concentration of Divine energy and potential. It represents the principle that the entirety of creation, with all its complexity and diversity, originates from a singular, unified source. This underscores the belief that all existence flows from a small thing or singular point. This concept resonates with the Kabbalistic understanding of the emanation of the divine light and the Big Bang theory of creation.

The name of God as Master further enriches our understanding of God’s relationship with the world. The combination of the letters Aleph, Yud, and the Hebrew word for judgment encapsulates the dual aspects of God’s mastery over creation: as both the compassionate sustainer and the righteous judge. This duality reflects the complex nature of Divine governance, which encompasses mercy and judgment, guiding the unfolding of creation according to the principles of justice and benevolence.

Judge the long-term

The Divine role as Master and Judge of all creation entails making hard choices, balancing kindness with strength, and navigating the intricacies of justice in a world characterized by moral and existential challenges; it is difficult when people suffer. This Divine balancing act is not predicated on the moment’s immediacy but is oriented toward the long-term fulfillment of creation’s potential.

We praise God for taking the long-term view, guided by an eternal perspective and transcending the limitations of the present – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם

God’s actions are guided by an eternal perspective, transcending the limitations of the present and envisioning the ultimate good that emerges from the divine plan.

The next world

Taking the long view and extrapolating it further, when considered in a spiritual and eschatological context, God acts not just for eternity, and not just in the world of here and now, but also the next world – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם

This teaching suggests God’s might transcends linear time as an expression of the Divine promise and presence that encompasses all realms of existence and suggests continuity between this world and the next.

Our sages teach that this world, this plane of existence, is the arena for action, challenge, and growth, where human beings can exercise free will, with Torah and mitzvos as our guiding stars. The next world, or the World to come, is understood as the realm of ultimate reward, spiritual fulfillment, and the realization of the Divine plan in its most complete form.

This blessing affirms that the two are linked and that our lives and spiritual endeavors are not isolated or ephemeral but deeply interconnected with the eternal flow of Divine purpose; we are being guided – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם.

Understanding God’s might as encompassing both this world and the next enriches our appreciation of the Divine attributes of justice, mercy, and redemption. It assures us that this world’s complexities and apparent injustices are part of a larger, divine narrative that will find resolution in the world to come.

Power in silence

The Roman general Titus, a military commander serving in the Land of Israel, besieged and captured Jerusalem and destroyed the city and the Second Beis Hamikdash. Our sages teach that Titus blasphemed and desecrated the hallowed place, taking a prostitute over a Torah scroll, then drawing his sword and piercing the veil that separated the sanctuary from the Holy of Holies, and miraculously, blood appeared. Seeing the blood, he took it as a sign that he had succeeded in killing God.

In response to this outrageous, shocking offense, the sages reinterpreted praise from the famous Song of the Sea: not who is like you among the mighty, Hashem? But instead, who is like you among mute and silent? מִי כָמֹֽכָה בָּאֵלִם/ בָּאלמִם.

This reinterpretation suggests that might can also manifest as silence, a concept that challenges conventional understandings of power and response. R’ Yosef Chaim Sonnenfeld suggests that this is precisely why our sages used the victory song at the Red Sea as their proof text. People can be silent in the face of degradation for many reasons: fear, inability, weakness, or counterintuitively, a deliberate choice rooted in strength. There are few better historical examples of God’s strength on display than the Red Sea when God destroyed the military power of the greatest empire in the world with a gust of wind.

God’s power is not in question; silence in the face of Titus’s blasphemy was an act of strength, not an absence of power.

Silence is a form of might; restraint can be more powerful than action or retaliation. When someone insults your loved ones or takes a cheap shot, it’s easy to respond with violence, and, especially if you’re capable, very hard not to; choosing not to act can require greater strength – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם.

Hidden

Moreover, as finite beings bound by time, our existence is limited from one moment to the next; everyone worries about the future. We believe that the Creator acts for eternity, for the future, and for the world to come – לְעוֹלָם.

But fundamentally, while we can grapple with the grander picture, those are things we cannot see, know, or hope to understand. By definition, those things are not here; they are obscured from us definitionally—he’elam.

God is informed by a perspective that transcends our temporal limitations, a view we cannot access and could never hope to share; the prophets could never hope to understand. Human comprehension is inherently incapable of adopting the God’s eye view on things. Some frustrating books suggest that you negate yourself; you only feel bad because you have thoughts and feelings and want things, and if you could be objective, you would let go of those attachments and be happy. However, our subjective experience is as humans living in bodies; it makes no sense to invalidate the entire lived experience for a perspective we cannot have.

The conceptual gap is exemplified in this prayer, which traditionally consists of 49 words, symbolizing the levels of purity, impurity, understanding, and elements of creation, reflecting the complexity and depth of Divine governance over the universe.

Knowledge

For humans, knowledge of something is distinct from the thing itself. A computer, for instance, operates based on instructions; it possesses instructions but is separate from the knowledge embedded within those instructions. In contrast, to know something for God is to be one with that knowledge. This unity suggests that, from the Divine perspective, everything exists as pure information; the distinction between the knower and the known collapses, illustrating a profound level of omniscience and omnipotence.

Fascinatingly, in the hierarchy of what explains the universe, there is a small but growing voice among cutting-edge physicists arguing that causality in the universe doesn’t start with matter but with information, that the universe is a physical system that contains and processes information, that all changes in the universe are computations of different variables.

Imagine a child seeing a plane in the sky; the child can certainly understand aspects of their experience. Both simple and magical, the child sees the shape of the aircraft, its impressive size diminished by distance, and hears the distant roar of its engines. The child understands this machine flies, carrying people across vast distances faster than a car or train.

The child is oblivious to the intricate physics of aerodynamics, the principles of lift, drag, thrust, and weight that allow the plane to soar. The child has no clue about the sophisticated engineering behind the aircraft’s design, the advanced mathematical calculations that ensure its structural integrity, or the materials science that goes into its construction. The child does not see the complexities of piloting the aircraft, the vast array of instruments and lights in the cockpit, the training and skill required to navigate and communicate, or the global air traffic control network that coordinates the safe passage of flights worldwide. The child has no concept of the logistics involved in commercial aviation, route planning, flight scheduling, fleet management, and ground services support and maintenance, let alone the knock-on effects like economic and environmental considerations that influence the aviation industry, from fuel efficiency and emissions to market demand and regulatory compliance.

The child’s experience is valid. Look! There’s a plane in the sky.

Knowledge is power

Our sages teach that the Torah is the blueprint for Creation and all existence. This analogy suggests a deep relationship between the Torah and the world. At a basic level, one might differentiate between the instructions and the creation, perceiving them as distinct entities where the Torah might guide our navigation in the world. However, a deeper insight reveals that reality itself is an expression of the Torah, where the utterance “Let there be light” is not just a command that has a separate existence from reality but is the emanation of Divine wisdom that materializes and is experienced as light. Because in the realm of the Divine, there is no distinction between access to and control of information; they merge into a single reality, where the deepest knowledge of a thing is the thing itself.

The most profound understanding dissolves the separation between knowledge and existence, where the deepest knowledge of something is to be that thing. In this perspective, God’s knowledge of the universe is not external or additional to the universe; rather, the universe exists as a direct manifestation of God’s knowledge. This understanding challenges our conventional distinctions between creator and creation, suggesting an intrinsic unity where Divine will and the fabric of reality are one and the same.

Thought experiment

If you imagine a child in the park, the child is a construct or idea that exists purely within the four corners of your mind, intangible, invisible to others, yet vivid and clear to you. If you want to manipulate the environment, the weather, hair color, or anything, it’s as simple as thinking about it; access to and control of the information are the same, merged into a single reality.

When God creates, it is akin to divine imagination manifesting into reality. For God, to imagine is to create; the knowledge of the thing is the thing itself, highlighting a fundamental aspect of Divine omniscience and omnipotence – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם.

The unfolding of the world, and by extension, the trajectory of our individual lives, can be understood as a direct manifestation of God’s knowledge. Every challenge and obstacle we encounter, every moment that shapes our existence, is part of a divine projection of how the universe unfolds, meticulously aligned with God’s profound understanding and purpose – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם.

Everything in our lives, from the seemingly mundane to the profoundly significant, are not random occurrences but are intricately designed within the context of the depth and longevity of God’s eternal plan, taking the long-term view, taking into account the world to come and everything concealed and hidden, extending far beyond our immediate perception and understanding – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם.

Acknowledging that every occurrence in our lives requires an enormous amount of God’s might to configure, align, and arrange the universe accordingly offers a humbling perspective on our place within creation. It invites us to recognize the intricate web of causality and divine will that underpins every aspect of existence. This recognition not only deepens our appreciation for the complexity and beauty of the world but also encourages us to trust in the divine process, understanding that our lives are guided by a wisdom far more significant than our own – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם.

In this context, navigating life’s challenges and embracing opportunities become acts of faith and alignment with the divine will. We are called to engage with our lives and the world around us with purpose and trust, knowing that our paths are part of a larger, divine tapestry. This perspective fosters a profound sense of connection to the Divine, empowering us to face the uncertainties of life with courage and confidence, secure in the knowledge that we are part of God’s eternal and mightful unfolding of the universe.

The complexities of health and illness, well-being and suffering, reflect a nuanced aspect of Divine orchestration in the world. When we consider the multifaceted factors leading to someone’s illness — the intricate interplay of genetics, environment, lifestyle, and beyond — it becomes evident that many conditions and events must align for health to be disrupted. This perspective invites us to recognize not only the Divine might inherent in the process of healing but also the might involved in the unfolding of illness itself.

Life happens. People get sick and have all sorts of issues. But taking a step back, a lot has to happen for someone to get sick, considering the intricate interplay of genetics, environment, lifestyle, and beyond. There is a might inherent in the process of healing, but also recognize the might involved in the unfolding of the illness itself, on both sides of the equation, a reoccurrence of the concept of supreme power – אֵל עֶלְיוֹן.

As the supreme power with sovereignty over all aspects of creation, the Creator’s might is manifest in the very fabric of existence, in the ordering of the cosmos, and the detailed specifics of our lives, encompassing both the positive and negative experiences we encounter, whatever the outcome – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם

Reflecting on the Creator’s track record as reflected in the Torah and stories of our sages and ancestors amid the broader tapestry of Jewish history, we encounter a recurring theme of Divine intervention that reveals profound lessons about justice, strength, and purpose. From the Exodus through today, it is a safe bet that the Creator has a plan; it might not be the path that suits us best in the short run, and it might be a path that ends well for any particular person, but it always goes somewhere constructive – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם

In the early years of the Soviet Union, the regime was brutalizing and suppressing religious activity. The Lubavitcher Rebbe was arrested and interrogated at gunpoint with a smirk. “This toy has a way of making people cooperate.” The rebbe heroically replied: “That toy is persuasive to one who has many gods and only one world; I have One G‑d and two worlds.”

In a variant form, it has been said that someone who fears One fears none, but one who fears many fears any.

A person with moral clarity navigates life with an unwavering sense of purpose and direction. This clarity is not merely an intellectual understanding of right and wrong but a deep, internalized conviction that shapes every decision and action. Such individuals are characterized by their resolve and courage, standing firm in their principles even in the face of adversity or danger. Even the fear of death shrinks in the light of their convictions; there is no confusion when confronting matters of moral significance.

Yitzchak is the archetype of this conviction, the epitome of might and strength. He fearlessly faces off with death out of perfect moral clarity and faith. He freely walks with his father and allows himself to be bound and offered as a sacrifice, highlighting his deep understanding and acceptance of what is right according to his faith.

His readiness to walk towards what might have been his death without fear stems not just from obedience but from a profound belief in the continuity of existence beyond this world. Yitzchak’s conduct reveals his acknowledgment of a reality more significant than this life, anchored in the belief in something beyond and in his absolute certainty in the existence of one God, which provided him with a clear moral compass.

Forever

If these perspectives of God’s might are meaningful, then they might be particularly profound in the context of creation and free will. When we imagine something, that creation depends entirely on our will; it has no autonomy and cannot defy our intentions. The creatures of your imagination are slaves to your thoughts; they cannot hurt you and will never disappoint you. However, God’s creation of human beings is fundamentally different. By granting humans free will, God imbues creation with the capacity for independence for choice, which includes the possibility of rejecting or failing to recognize the Creator.

There is supreme might and power in creating beings capable of choosing or denying their creator. Humans can choose to trust or distrust, follow or reject God. This potential for rebellion or disbelief is what makes the gift of life and free will so profound. It underscores a might that is willing to risk vulnerability for the sake of genuine relationship and love – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם

The allowance for this choice, the possibility of turning away from God, underscores the eternal aspect of God’s might. If God had not provided this option, all creation would operate on a short-term, deterministic basis, lacking the depth and potential for growth, relationship, and moral development. The opportunity to choose God, align one’s will with the Divine, emulate God’s attributes, and participate in the ongoing act of creation and redemption gives life its ultimate meaning and purpose.

Divine might and strength are more than the power to create and sustain; they are also the freedom of creation to choose. Strength is not just about control or dominance but also about the capacity to love, to grant autonomy, and to invite relationship despite the inherent risks – אַתָּה גִבּוֹר לְעוֹלָם.

מְחַיֶּה מֵתִים אַתָּה רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ – You are the Resurrector of the dead the Powerful One to deliver us.

One of Judaism’s articles of faith is that God has ultimate power over life and death and that one day, God will resurrect the dead; people who are long dead and gone will be reanimated to live and breathe once again.

Beyond the obvious and distinct idea focused solely on the miraculous restoration of life to the deceased, this phrase also serves as a nexus for a variety of themes within Judaism that affirm God as Creator, Sustainer, and Renewer of life, demonstrating how multiple ideas merge into an integrated understanding of Divine might and purpose.

What is it

In the mainstream consensus view, the arrival of Mashiach will herald an age of ultimate redemption and transformation, including supernatural events culminating in the resurrection of the dead. In this view, this period will see the revival of all Jews who have lived throughout history and who did not squander the merit to be resurrected. This belief in resurrection is more than a miraculous reversal of death; it represents a profound rectification of the world’s imperfections. It signifies the ultimate vindication of faith and virtue, a time when humanity’s spiritual and moral development reaches its culmination. The resurrection of the dead is seen as the terminal fulfillment of God’s promises to His people, a testament to His unwavering commitment and the eternal covenant between God and the Jewish people.

The waking of the deceased and their return to life is not merely a restoration of what was but a leap into a profoundly redeemed existence. In this redeemed world, the spiritual and material realms are harmonized, and the physical bodies of the resurrected are said to be free from the limitations and sufferings that characterize mortal life. This era is characterized by a direct and unmediated relationship between humanity and the Divine, with knowledge of God permeating every aspect of existence.

The resurrection thus serves as a powerful symbol of hope and faith, emphasizing that the trials and tribulations of this world are but a prelude to a future of perfect justice, peace, and spiritual fulfillment. It encourages individuals to live lives of righteousness, holding onto the belief that their actions contribute to the unfolding of this ultimate redemption. The promise of resurrection inspires a vision of the world as it could be, aligned with the will and wisdom of the Creator, where the bonds of death are broken, and life in its most exalted form is reclaimed.

Simple examples

Some examples are straightforward. The prophet Elijah prays and raises a young boy from death; his student Elisha resurrects another boy after prophesying his birth to a woman who had been kind to him. Years later, a funeral procession was interrupted by a band of raiders, and they dropped the dead man’s body into the dead Elisha’s tomb and ran for safety; when the dead man’s body touched Elisha’s grave, he came to life once again.

Our sages teach that the Jewish People at Sinai experienced revelation so intense and profound that it transcended human capacity to endure. Their souls left their bodies and had to be revived.

These resurrections preserve everything intact: the same people, in the same bodies, with the same souls, without any addition or subtraction.

Reincarnation

Jewish mysticism suggests an esoteric notion of reincarnation, the idea of souls cycling and recycling through lives or incarnations, being attached to or associated with different bodies over time, depending on their particular task in the physical world.

The notion of reincarnation introduces complex nuances to understanding the soul and its ultimate destiny in the context of resurrection and the World to Come. Some aspects of the literature and discourse seem to focus more on the soulful aspect of the World to Come, whereas Resurrection of the Dead appears to be grounded very much in the embodied existence of this world, this body. Mystical teachings suggest that there are no new souls; all souls are pre-owned or pre-loved and return to the world in different bodies across generations, raising intriguing questions about the resurrection of the dead and which incarnation of a soul would be revived.

Would you come back as yourself from the lifetime you consciously know? Or as the woodcutter from the Middle Ages?

This question touches on whether our soul is synonymous with our consciousness, especially in the context of reincarnation and resurrection, and delves into profound philosophical and theological territories. The distinction between soul and consciousness becomes particularly pronounced when considering the concept of reincarnation, where a soul may inhabit multiple bodies across different lifetimes without a continuous memory of its past incarnations.

The lack of memory from one life to the next suggests a lack of continuity of identity; if you do not remember past lives, the notion of “you” in the context of subsequent incarnations becomes complex and perhaps meaningless. This suggests that the soul may be constant, traversing through time and bodies. Still, the consciousness, what we experience as personal identity, memories, and experiences, is specific to each lifetime and not the same.

Mysticism teaches that the soul has an anatomy, each with its unique role and function. The root of the soul, or its most essential part, experiences various lifetimes, gathering experiences and fulfilling its corrections – Tikkunim.

A reincarnation is not a copy and paste of the soul’s experiences across lifetimes, but rather that each incarnation, each iteration consciousness associated with a soul’s fragment, root, source, or spark, has its own unique significance and merit. Perhaps it’s something like another instance of software running on standard hardware; it’s not the same program but runs on similar tooling. Everybody, every consciousness, every individual, is still unique from person to person, even within a framework of reincarnation, and a simple yet profound explanation is that all expressions of the soul’s journey are acknowledged and resurrected. Revival of the dead is the restoration of all lifetimes of the soul without pretending to understand how the transfer or restoration of consciousness might work – מְחַיֶּה מֵתִים אַתָּה רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ.

Example

Within the parameters of reincarnation, particularly through the lens of fixing specific aspects of the soul across lifetimes, each lifetime is viewed as an opportunity for the soul to address and rectify different facets of its imperfections or to fulfill its unique mission.

If Reuven lives a wholesome and high-quality life filled with good deeds but neglects one specific spiritual task or fails to correct the one misdeed he was supposed to, an aspect of Reuven’s soul returns as Shimon. If Shimon also lives a wholesome and high-quality life filled with good deeds but, like Reuven, misses that one particular aspect, the soul is still incomplete and imperfect, illustrating reincarnation’s complexity.

Reuven and Shimon’s lifetimes are not worthless; they are not write-offs. On the contrary, they are wholesome and high-quality, precious and essential. The association and overlap between them are remote; their identities branch off early on in what constitutes the individual self and identity, moving beyond the idea of the soul as a singular, unchanging entity across lifetimes. They may share a root or spark, a common foundation that overlaps, but little else; each lifetime is an independent and separate manifesting of the soul’s essence with its own unique identity expressed by personality, circumstances, and challenges faced specific to each incarnation.

Practical

The idea that each individual has a unique mission in life sounds good, but there are a limited amount of virtues, so at face value, at least, they would appear to be commoditized. Everyone has to work on their anger and patience, after all.

While the mission may be shared, the objectives are unique; only you can achieve what is expected within the parameters of your life. The context in which we are called to develop these virtues and how we achieve them are deeply individual.

The uniqueness of one’s mission in life is not merely about the end goal but the journey and the methods employed to reach that goal. For one person, cultivating patience might involve learning to navigate the challenges of a demanding career without losing composure. For another, it might mean facing personal adversity or illness with grace and resilience.

Each individual’s mission unfolds within the unique parameters of life they are given. This includes their specific circumstances, challenges, personality, and the particular set of relationships and roles they occupy. The way one person is expected to exhibit patience will differ from another, not because the virtue itself is different but because the life situations calling for patience are unique to each person.

What this means, then, is that every person’s life is specific and non-fungible, meaning it cannot be exchanged or replicated in the life of another. The combination of soul, situation, and circumstances creates a unique path that only that individual can walk. This perspective emphasizes the intrinsic value and irreplaceability of each person’s contributions to the world.

You alone can do it; no one can do it for you.

Do-overs

Our sages suggest that Moshe was a reincarnation of an aspect of Noah. God warned Noah about the Flood, and Noah didn’t take the opportunity to argue with God. He didn’t try to save his world or give humanity a chance; he just left them to their fates without taking responsibility for anyone other than his family; everyone else wasn’t his problem.

Moshe grew up in the palace; he was a prince of Egypt, and a life of luxury and pleasure was his if he wanted. To distance himself from their struggles and remain in the comfort of Pharaoh’s palace, all he had to do was do nothing, but that was too difficult. He walked away from it all, chose to engage deeply with the Jewish People, and permanently tied his fate to theirs.

Moshe did Noach’s job, fixing what Noach could not.

Making amends perfectly, as described by Maimonides, occurs when an individual is confronted with the same scenario, circumstances, outlook, and condition as a previous failure but makes a different, positive choice. With the same building blocks and inputs, a person generates a different outcome; this concept emphasizes the power of free will and the capacity for human beings to change their course, embodying the essence of repentance and spiritual growth.

The function of reincarnation is to make amends on a particular element; souls are given opportunities across lifetimes to encounter similar challenges and make different choices, making amends for past misdeeds or failures, encompassing the collective destiny of the people and the world. It provides a mechanism for addressing and rectifying the spiritual shortcomings of the past.

Strong and mighty

Reviving the dead transcends the natural order, confronting and overcoming the most immutable law of the natural world: the finality of death. Reversing the ultimate limitation of the most irresistible force breaks the natural orders and showcases Divine might.

But it can also be understood metaphorically, extending the concept of reviving the dead to encompass a broader spectrum of human experiences of renewal and recovery.

Particularly for people who have worked in a medical setting, people can return to life from a state of cardiac arrest or cessation of breathing, literal and dramatic manifestations of a resurrection of the dead. Athletes have died on the field of globally televised sporting events, to be brought back from the brink of death through medical intervention, serving as powerful, tangible examples of life being renewed in the face of seemingly irreversible cessation – מְחַיֶּה מֵתִים אַתָּה רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ

In the context of individuals and families incapacitated by illness, people unable to lead a fulfilling life due to their physical conditions, there are instances of complete and miraculous recoveries, the return to a life of activity and engagement, often against all odds. This interpretation celebrates the Divine might in facilitating healing and restoration from a life of living, not only from the brink of death but also from conditions that severely limit one’s ability to live fully – מְחַיֶּה מֵתִים אַתָּה רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ

Moreover, there are moments in life when a person can be alive and breathing but feels spiritually or emotionally dead, empty, and hollow. The capacity exists for these people to find strength and life once again, and in particular, through the power of prayer, discovering renewed life they thought was lost; realizing the transformative power of faith and divine assistance in reviving one’s spirit, providing a path out of despair and into a renewed sense of purpose and vitality – a resurrection from the dead.

Even more broadly, the morning prayers thank God for returning our souls upon waking because sleeping is a little bit like death, or perhaps death is a little bit like sleeping. This suggests death extends beyond a physical state and encompasses the spiritual and existential dimensions. It suggests that life is characterized not merely by physical signs of life, such as breathing and brain activity, but by the presence of a soul fully engaged in purposeful action and choice.

It is possible to be in a form of waking death, meaninglessly existing without engaging in purposeful action, choice, or exercising one’s freedom of choice, even if biologically alive; the person’s soul is not engaging in its potential through action, growth, and decision-making.

As the Torah encourages us, we must choose life; a life without freedom is a form of death – ובחרת בחיים. Without making a choice, we have denied ourselves life. This principle suggests that the essence of life is found in our capacity to make choices that reflect our values, aspirations, and commitments. The act of choosing is what differentiates a life fully lived from mere existence. Through choice, we exercise our freedom, shape our destiny, and express the divine spark within us.

If sleeping and not doing anything is a form of death, then not choosing is also a form of death, highlighting the existential consequence of inaction and passivity. A life devoid of choice and active engagement is presented as a diminished form of existence, lacking the vitality and purpose that define true life. This perspective challenges us to consider how we might be living passively without making conscious choices that align with our deepest values and purpose.

Every moment in life must be intentional and implies a conscious engagement with our lives, where we are not merely drifting along with the flow of events but are actively shaping our journey according to our values and aspirations. It suggests a life lived with purpose, where each decision reflects a deliberate choice toward a desired future rather than being a passive reaction to circumstances.

The stagnation that comes from allowing yesterday’s decisions to dictate today’s actions without reflection or reassessment can be a circular path that leads nowhere new, stifling growth and preventing meaningful progress. It is essential to choose, to break free from the inertia of past choices, and to forge a new path reflective of our current understanding and aspirations.

Axis of choice

While free will is granted, it isn’t equal between people. The point of choice, the axis of our decision-making, varies from person to person. How many choices do we make from habit, convenience, or genuine reflection and discernment?

Not taking action can also be an incredible choice as well; restraint and submission are also forms of exercising free will, such as when Yitzchak cooperates with his father at Mount Moriah, and when Ahron remains silent when his two eldest sons die in a tragic accident. Both are examples of supreme acceptance and trust in God’s judgment in the face of profound challenges.

If you choose to do something a million times, it becomes the default; the true test of free will lies in decisions that push us beyond our comfort zones. In Jewish thought, reward is often associated with this struggle, with choosing to do good, especially when it is difficult or counterintuitive.

Actions that become automatic or are performed without conscious engagement rarely represent the pinnacle of spiritual achievement. For instance, choosing not to assault or rob the elderly today does not reflect a significant exercise of free will for most people, as these actions fall well outside the acceptable moral framework for society, that is not a point of choice or axis of decision-making for decent people.

Making different choices

Our sages teach that the righteous are still considered alive even in death, while the wicked are considered dead even during their lifetimes. This teaching suggests a more nuanced understanding of what it means to be alive based on spiritual vitality, ethical conduct, and the capacity for choice.

According to this perspective, true life is characterized not merely by biological functions but by the quality of one’s choices and their alignment with one’s higher self and divine will. In this context, the capacity to make choices rooted in awareness, morality, and spirituality is what imbues an individual’s existence with life; life and death are not binary but exist on a spectrum.

A newborn baby has never made a choice, and Jewish life cycle events celebrate the attainment of milestones along this spectrum, a fuller sense of life and maturity at Bar and Bas Mitzvah, emphasizing the role of conscious choice in defining spiritual vitality. As individuals mature and navigate the moral landscape of their lives, their series of choices can either enhance their alignment with their spiritual essence or lead them away from it.

When people make negative choices repeatedly until such actions become second nature, the capacity to choose differently gets smaller and smaller until it vanishes, and vice versa. Habitual actions can create spiritual inertia, distancing individuals from their ability to choose freely and align with their true nature.

A person smoking a pack of cigarettes a day for fifty years will need a cigarette in the morning. They can decide to quit and throw them all away, but will suffer severe withdrawal and will need help and interventions; the further away a person gets from natural choices where body and soul are aligned and in sync, the less alive a person is. Entrenched habits can dominate the ability to make free choices, reflecting a state of existence that is increasingly dead in the spiritual sense.

This dissonance between one’s actions and essence leads to a diminished state of being, where the capacity for meaningful choice and spiritual growth is compromised. Conversely, striving to make choices that reflect our higher selves, even in the face of difficulty or temptation, represents a movement towards greater spiritual vitality and life.

Connection is life

In Moshe’s parting speech to the Jewish People, he taught the concept that life is defined by the connection between the body and the soul and, more fundamentally, by the soul’s connection to God – Atem Hadveikim B’Hashem Elokeichem Chaim Kulchem Hayom (Devarim 4:4).

This teaching emphasizes the importance of nurturing the soul’s connection to its Divine source as the essence of true life. This connection sustains us, providing strength, guidance, and purpose. Through this divine attachment, individuals can experience a life that is fully alive and imbued with spiritual vitality and meaning.

In light of this teaching, death is the disintegration of the connection between body, soul, and God; the body returns to the earth, and the soul returns to the ether.

In our lives

Life occasionally presents us with wake-up calls, intense, pivotal experiences or realizations that reveal who we are, where we see ourselves truly for a moment, the course our lives are taking, all the things we have done, and the people we have hurt.

These can be near-death experiences or some other trigger for deep introspection that strips away the superficial layers of our existence, compelling us to face the core of who we are and what we value most. These moments can be jarring, exposing our shortcomings and misdirections with objective clarity. Yet, within this discomfort lies a powerful opportunity for growth, personal awakening, and transformation.

These moments of stark vulnerability can be a breath of life, with the power to bring profound self-realization and change into our lives, fixing our shortcomings and righting our wrongs, paving the way for true healing and renewal.

That is deliverance, a moment of resurrection of the dead – מְחַיֶּה מֵתִים אַתָּה רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ.

רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ

The universe is a big place; the Creator saves lots of people all the time.

Life is just a series of moments, each offering the possibility for change, growth, and revival; Divine grace extends to us continuously, providing opportunities for awakening and transformation at every turn – רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ.

Life and death, and everything in between, happen in a moment. It happens to others, and it happens to everyone; it will happen to you. Every second of life is another renewal, another chance, highlighting the constant presence of Divine might in the world, in the subtle, everyday moments where we shift from disconnection or despair towards vitality and purpose. In this way, God’s power is manifest in every point along the spectrum of life and death, inviting us to recognize and embrace the potential for transformation inherent in our existence.

There are times most people have been depressed, dead, and buried; times people have been ill; times people have been paralyzed physically or metaphorically; and sleeping, including spiritually. Each of these has its own continuum as well: severely depressed, melancholy, feeling blue, and just a little sad. The moments we’ve felt energized, eager, switched, and excited, looking forward with anticipation, and everything in between.

These are the forces of life and death at play in our lives, manifest in our lives every moment, and it’s in God’s hands entirely. They serve as a reminder of the ever-present opportunity for renewal and the potential for transformation – מְחַיֶּה מֵתִים אַתָּה רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ.

Acting on it

Recognizing the potential for transformation is essential, especially during periods when we need it most, moments of anxiety, depression, and frustration, and moments when we find ourselves retreating from the realm of active choice. Periods characterized by emotional or spiritual stagnation can feel like a form of living death, where the vibrancy of life seems dimmed, and our capacity to engage with the world and make choices feels severely limited.

Acknowledging these transformative moments within ourselves involves a deep awareness and acceptance of our fluctuating states. Emerging from these depths, turning around from states of depression and frustration, embodies the essence of renewal and resurrecting the dead – מְחַיֶּה מֵתִים אַתָּה רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ.

When the darkness ends, when that phase turns around, bringing life to what once seemed lifeless, these turning points are often marked by a renewed sense of energy, clarity, and the re-emergence of choices that previously felt unattainable – מְחַיֶּה מֵתִים אַתָּה רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ.

Frequently, this resurgence is not just a return to a baseline mode of existence but often involves a profound breakthrough, a leap into a more engaged, vibrant, and purposeful way of living, breaking through a glass ceiling and reaching heights of personal development, and engagement with life that were once unimaginable.

It’s unilateral

One of the most profound aspects of the resurrection of the dead is that the act is unilateral and occurs independently of human effort, driven solely by divine initiative. This emphasizes the Divine might and omnipotence, capable of reviving the dead without any prerequisites such as human action, desire, or preparation.

This power showcases the Divine might like little else because even with nothing to work with, the Jewish souls that were burnt at the stake and whose bodies were desecrated in crematoria will also be reanimated.

God unilaterally brings life to the dead, to people who don’t want it, aren’t trying hard enough, or aren’t trying at all. God gives second, third, and fourth chances and brings us around, bringing us back to life at full strength; it is a comforting thought that even in our passivity or moments of spiritual lethargy, there is hope for renewal and revival.

At this point, the blessing references God’s power to bring dew and rain – מוֹרִיד הַטָּל

Our sages suggest that dew is the tool that contains the latent power to resurrect the dead at the End of Days. Dew is ordinary and unremarkable, abundant and ubiquitous. The simple function of a cold object in a warm environment is everywhere. As the object’s exposed surface cools by radiating heat, atmospheric moisture condenses faster than it evaporates, forming water droplets on the surface.

Things can look up once again; when we’re running cold, God saves us, bringing the dew everywhere, masterfully – רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ.

Like bringing the dew, God has been doing this for a long time and is the master of it. There are no surprises; everyone makes mistakes, and some people make many mistakes. There’s room for complete sinners to make amends, and everyone else, too.

Death is not the end.

As scientists continue to search for life in the universe, it seems like life is more of an exception than the norm. In this regard, death is not a departure but a return from a spiritual and philosophical perspective. The ultimate journey of the soul is not toward something unknown or alien but rather a return to its origin, to a state of unity with the Divine.

Death as a return rather than a departure shifts the focus from loss and finality to continuity and reunion, implying that our time in this world is temporary, a passage through which we gather experiences, learn, and grow, with the ultimate goal of returning enriched to our spiritual home. This perspective aligns with the belief that the soul pre-exists in its physical embodiment and that its earthly journey is a phase in its broader, eternal existence.

The ultimate closeness to the Divine, which is earned in this world through good deeds, finds its complete expression in Olam Haba, envisioned as a realm of reward, a state of existence where the soul experiences the fullness of its return to the Divine. It is here that the true purpose of creation is fulfilled in the soul’s reunion with its source. This eschatological belief underscores the idea that life in this world serves as a preparation, a series of choices and actions through which we strive to align ourselves with divine will and draw closer to God.

Our sages explain that it would be a degrading handout for souls to remain in Heaven basking in the ethereal light for eternity—the bread of shame. Unearned rewards can be inherently empty and meaningless, unsatisfying and even humiliating for the soul; our souls are placed into bodies so we can earn our piece of Heaven.

The Ramchal posits that real Divine might is manifested not in the mere act of creation or in bestowing blessings upon creations but in the intentional forcing of distance between God and humanity. This separation is a profound act of kindness, providing us with the space and opportunity to overcome challenges, make moral choices, and grow spiritually, thereby earning our closeness to the Divine. This journey, filled with trials and opportunities for growth, allows us to achieve a sense of accomplishment and worthiness that could never be attained through gifts alone.

Our souls can make mistakes across countless lifetimes without draining the infinite patience and kindness of the Divine. Our spiritual development is not confined to a single lifetime but spans numerous incarnations; reincarnated across time, learning to be a better human being as another human being, and another, and another, one more act of kindness, one less hurtful remark.

We are supported not only by the tangible presence of our ancestors but also by the collective experiences and hopes of past lives on deeply interconnected spiritual journeys across generations and lifetimes. Each iteration of our soul’s journey contributes to a larger tapestry of growth, learning, and aspiration towards fulfillment.

That chain of ancestors, spiritual forebears, souls, and reincarnations is cheering and rooting for you. We celebrate and welcome a baby into the world before it understands its own existence; we are perceived and supported by the Divine and our spiritual predecessors at every step of our journey, and our growth and efforts are acknowledged and valued, even when we might not fully comprehend their significance.

God gives us another go each lifetime, each day, and each second, speaking to the infinite patience and generosity of the Divine. Each moment is a series of opportunities for renewal and redemption, a chance to align more closely with our spiritual purpose.

The Creator continuously breathes life into situations and souls that might seem lost or lifeless, a cause for celebration, highlighting the endless capacity for revival and transformation and the boundless compassion of the Divine, highlighting continual presence and support in our lives, offering us countless chances to return, improve, and progress – מְחַיֶּה מֵתִים אַתָּה רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ.

מְכַלְכֵּל חַיִּים בְּחֶסֶד מְחַיֵּה מֵתִים בְּרַחֲמִים רַבִּים

This blessing is frequently associated with might and severity within the context of Yitzchak, but God’s might is characterized by a quality that differentiates it from human expressions of might. One crucial aspect of this difference is that God’s might manifests in kindness מְכַלְכֵּל חַיִּים בְּחֶסֶד.

In the Darwinian view, the natural world is a competitive place where every creature is in an existential struggle to survive that operates largely on the principle of survival of the fittest, where the strong survive at the expense of the weak. This framework values might and dominance, often leading to a cycle of competition and exploitation.

In contrast, the Divine approach is rooted in loving-kindness, not superiority. Where there might have been the ultimate vulnerability of death and nothingness, instead, we find the most profound expressions of kindness in life and existence – מְכַלְכֵּל חַיִּים בְּחֶסֶד.

This suggests a leadership, strength, and power model that prioritizes care, support, and the promotion of life and well-being over the exploitation of others.

מְכַלְכֵּל חַיִּים בְּחֶסֶד מְחַיֵּה מֵתִים בְּרַחֲמִים רַבִּים

Kindness and compassion are benevolent emotions but are distinct and manifest differently with separate underlying motivations.

The phrase opens with kindness, just as the Amida and Creation do, highlighting the intrinsic nature of God’s kindness as proactive and unconditional. Kindness is God’s predominant aspect, the mode through which God initiates everything else, and is inherent and flows from the Divine essence, independent of any external stimulus or precondition. God’s sustaining of life with kindness underscores a fundamental generosity and benevolence that seeks to give, nurture, and maintain the universe out of sheer goodness. It is an expression of love that does not await recognition or need but exists as a constant, underlining the nature of the Divine as eternally giving.

In contrast, compassion is somewhat more responsive and conditional and implies a reaction to a situation of lack, suffering, vulnerability, or need; you cannot feel bad for someone who doesn’t need help.

This distinction is crucial in understanding the dynamics of divine benevolence; while compassion addresses the gaps and heals the wounds within creation, kindness is the force that brings creation into being and sustains it, independent of its state.

Why is life kindness and revival compassion

This blessing attributes sustaining life to kindness and reviving the dead to compassion.

The act of sustaining life can be seen as an extension of Divine kindness because it is part of the ongoing process of the proactive act of Creation that nurtures and supports existence without prerequisite conditions. This continuous provision for all living beings, from the most basic needs to the complexities of growth and development, is considered an expression of kindness because it is given freely and generously, independent of the recipients’ merits or actions.

A child is born unable to learn or understand much about the world but possesses all the biological adaptations and instincts required for the rest of its life. Creation has instilled the child with the innate knowledge and capabilities to nurse, and the skills to learn how to walk and talk, and everything else. These capabilities are hardcoded into the human being, preceding our conscious efforts and achievements, underscoring proactive Divine kindness in all the unconditional aspects of care and preparation that go into our basic reality, without our having done anything to earn anything – מְכַלְכֵּל חַיִּים בְּחֶסֶד.

מְחַיֵּה מֵתִים בְּרַחֲמִים רַבִּים

Resurrecting the dead isn’t like that; it’s not for everyone, and it’s not freely given. It is contingent on certain merits, introducing a dimension of selectivity and conditionality, in contrast to kindness, which is proactive and unconditional benevolence. If the resurrection of the dead is based on the divine judgment of an individual’s merits, then it aligns more closely with the concept of compassion, which is inherently responsive and contingent.

Our sages record a profound exchange between the Egyptian Queen Cleopatra and Rabbi Meir. Sharing a belief in the resurrection of the dead, she asked Rabbi Meir whether individuals are resurrected, clothed, or naked.

Rabbi Meir responded with an allegory. A kernel of wheat grain is buried bare, and when it sprouts into its new phase of life, it emerges covered with leaves and stalks; it follows that a human being buried clothed in shrouds will be resurrected with clothes.

This exchange initially seems to concern the superficial aspects of resurrection but captures considerations about human dignity and a powerful blend of deep wisdom and insight.

What’s a body

There is a view that if a person dies ill or with their body broken, they will be resurrected in that exact way for a split second, after which their body transforms, instantly healed and rejuvenated to maximum strength and capacity, with a perfect, celestial, mythological body.

The Torah’s origin story of humanity describes the relationship between Noah’s sons; Noah blesses Japheth and asks him to associate with Shem. This understood to be a blessing that the world of aesthetics, physical and intellectual beauty are the domain of Yefet, traditionally associated with Greek culture; and for that to be associated with the spiritual legacy of Shem, from whom the Jewish People are descended.

In this reading, the world of physical and intellectual beauty are good things, not bad. The remarkable contributions of Greek civilization to art, philosophy, and science have shaped the world we know. Greek culture celebrated the human form and mind, laying the foundations for Western aesthetics, philosophy, and scientific inquiry.

However, the shortcoming in the world of beauty is when it severed from its association with spirituality; the Greeks emphasized beauty and intellect as ends in themselves. When beauty and intellect are pursued in isolation from moral and spiritual values, they can lead to a hollowing of the human experience, where depth of purpose and meaning is lost.

The holistic approach taken by the Torah integrates the domains of beauty, intellect, and spirituality. A healthy attitude to human development recognizes the value of each of these dimensions, seeking to harmonize them in a way that enhances personal and collective well-being. Beauty and intellect, when aligned with ethical and spiritual principles, have the potential to enrich human life and contribute to the flourishing of society.

BIG IDEA (dualism)
We often miscategorize the human body as a mundane physical thing, but spirituality is relative. Compared to the soul, sure, it’s true, the body is a low, physical thing; the second floor is lower than the third floor.

When the body is manipulated or treated as an end in itself, detached from its spiritual context and purpose. This approach reduces the body to a mere object of physical enhancement or pleasure, divorced from its deeper significance and potential for spiritual expression. When physicality is prioritized to the exclusion of spiritual values, we risk losing sight of the holistic nature of our existence and the interdependence of body and soul.

But in reality, the physicality of our bodies does not preclude their spiritual significance but, rather, is an integral aspect of our spiritual being, challening our conventional hierarchies and dichotomies.

While the body is often contrasted with the soul, categorizing the former as physical and the latter as spiritual, this dichotomy oversimplifies the complex nature of human beings. The body, rather than being merely a vessel or counterpoint to the soul, is an expression of our spiritual essence in the physical world. It is through our bodies that we interact with our environment, engage in acts of kindness and creativity, and experience growth and transformation. In this sense, the body can be viewed as a bridge between the physical and spiritual, capable of manifesting spiritual truths in tangible forms.

A Chassidic rebbe and his student were sitting together outside one day, and they both took an apple. Each said the blessing, answered the other, and began to eat. When they were finished, the teacher said to his student: “Do you know what just happened? You were hungry, so you made a blessing to eat the fruit. I was admiring the view and enjoying this beautiful day, and I picked up the apple so I could say a blessing.”

There is a way to live and move in the physical world that is completely spiritual.

The conventional understanding of blessings as a prerequisite or permission to engage with the physical world. In this view, the bracha serves as a spiritual gateway that sanctifies the act of consumption, making it permissible and meaningful within a religious framework. The primary objective is to enjoy the fruit, with the blessing facilitating this enjoyment in a manner aligned with Jewish law and tradition.

In the advanced perspective, the act of blessing is the primary goal of the interaction with the physical world. This approach suggests a life lived in devotion to fulfilling spiritual obligations and expressing gratitude to the Divine, with physical pleasures and needs serving as opportunities to fulfill these higher purposes. Here, the physical act of eating becomes a means to a spiritual end, transforming even mundane activities into acts of worship and connection with God.

Clothes

Our sages teach that our innermost being, our true essence, and spiritual identity, is the soul, which is encased in an outer layer in the form of a body, physical manifestation, which enables the soul to interact with the material world. In this sense, the body can be seen as clothing for the soul, a necessary layer that both protects and expresses the soul’s intangible qualities in a tangible form, a metaphor our sages use prominently – beged / levush

Expanding outward, our bodies also need clothes, which serve several functions: they offer physical protection and comfort, adhere to societal norms and expectations, and significantly act as a form of communication. Our sages view clothing as a form of dignity and honor, underscoring the idea that what we wear can elevate our respect for ourselves and others and signal aspects of our identity and status.

Clothing reveals something about the individual within; how we dress is more than superficial. It’s a selective unveiling of our personality, values, or mood. Properly dressed up, an individual is seen more completely by others. Conversely, when a person undresses in a public setting, people don’t see a person at all, just a body. Clothing, in this context, becomes a bridge between the inner self and the external world, offering cues to the character and essence of the person beneath.

The Hebrew word for nakedness is the same word the Torah uses to describe the archetypal snake in Eden in the sense of cunning deception – AROM CITE. This linguistic duality captures the complex interplay between appearance and essence, highlighting how outward manifestations can reveal or conceal the inner realities of an individual.

Being naked suggests being honest, exposed, and unadorned. Nakedness, in this sense, symbolizes vulnerability and authenticity, where nothing is hidden from view, and the individual stands bare, both physically and metaphorically.

However, this interpretation recognizes the idea of deceptive transparency, where the appearance of openness and honesty is employed as the tactic for manipulation or concealment. In this context, cunning is the strategic use of apparent vulnerability or honesty to achieve hidden aims, tricking others into believing they are seeing their true self when, in reality, they are being misled.

Are we resurrected in clothes?

Cleopatra wondered if resurrected bodies would be wearing clothes; beyond the literal and immediate concerns about the state of the body, this is a question about the nature of the resurrected body and its similarities and differences compared to our current physical forms.

On a deeper level, the question poses a broader inquiry about the nature of post-resurrection existence and whether it retains physical aspects that necessitate covering. Will a post-resurrection world retain some physical elements and social conventions?

Rabbi Meir’s answer was that when you plan a seed, a whole plant emerges; there is something fundamentally integral to Creation that generates clothing and covering. The soul is unable to operate in the physical world without a body; the body serves a critical role as the vehicle and interface for the soul’s expression and fulfillment of the divine in this world. Clothing extends this concept further, serving as a protective and dignifying extension of the body, which, by extension, honors the soul within.

As the proverb states, God’s honor is in being somewhat hidden; there is value in concealment and subtlety in revealing divine wisdom and presence. Just as the wheat kernel grows coverings to protect itself, symbolizing the natural order’s alignment with divine wisdom, the human body and the clothing it necessitates serve similar protective and dignifying functions, beautifully illustrating the balance between revelation and concealment inherent in creation and divine interaction with the world.

Humans are born naked; that is an act of kindness. When the dead are resurrected, their bodies will also be restored, healed, and covered, capturing God’s profound compassion and mercy for Creation, acknowledging human vulnerability and the intrinsic dignity and honor of the individual.

The question of how a spiritual God could create a physical world has intrigued theologians, philosophers, and believers across the ages. One answer propounded by Kabbala is the concept of Divine contraction or retraction, the space or vacuum God separates from God’s fullness so that the finite, physical world could have an independent existence and reality – Tzimtzum. This act of divine self-limitation is seen as a necessary precondition for creation, allowing for the emergence of a reality distinct from God’s all-encompassing Presence. Without Tzimtzum, the intensity of Divine Infinity would leave no room for the existence of a world of matter, evil, and free will.

The universe is clothing; an exterior of physicality that cloaks an inner soul and spirit, a manifestation of divine wisdom and intention. Clothing conceals and protects the body while also expressing aspects of an individual’s identity and status; the physical universe conceals the underlying spiritual realities while simultaneously expressing the Divine will. The material world is not devoid of spirituality at all but is imbued with deep purpose and meaning.

There is a sanctity and interconnectedness to all Creation; everything in the world, from the grandest cosmic phenomena to the smallest particles, reflects a spark of Divine light. The physical world is a place for reverence and curiosity, a place we can uncover the spiritual dimensions underlying our existence.

Making a blessing before using physical items is a key practice in Judaism that encapsulates the idea of engaging spiritual energy in the material world. By reciting a blessing, one acknowledges the Divine source of the item and its spiritual significance, transforming the act of consumption or use from a mundane activity into a religious activity that serves as a conduit for spiritual elevation and connection with God.

Kindness
(!ed Shlomo I don’t understand this)
More than we need oxygen, we need the kindness that sustains all existence.
god sustains life with chessed
hashem allows existence with kindness
our essence is fuled by kindness, powered by kindness
but resuscitation of the dead will be with mercy

more than we need oxygen, we need chessed
god acts mida kneged mida
if we get chessed, we must act with chessed
his chessed is because of ours
(shlomo – we said chessed is non reactive)

מְחַיֵּה מֵתִים בְּרַחֲמִים רַבִּים
god compassion will mirror ours
we need to practice compassion

the person comes back with a broken body that gets fixed
for whatever reason, the body had the sickness will carry over to revival
and will then be erased

if you cant run but go to the moon and can run, the place is different
(shlomo – i don’t understand this, needs work)

Later

The age of Mashiach is a time of redemption, characterized by unprecedented peace, understanding, and divine closeness. Central to this period is the profound expression of Divine compassion that permeates all aspects of existence, transforming not only the world’s spiritual and physical state but also the hearts and minds of its inhabitants.

If individuals were to be instantly restored to a state of health and wholeness without witnessing the transition from brokenness to healing, the profound depth of Divine compassion might be overlooked or taken for granted.

Understanding the extent of God’s kindness and compassion toward humanity should encourage a reciprocal awakening within ourselves. Recognizing our own profound need for compassion and kindness in every aspect of life should serve as a powerful catalyst for cultivating similar qualities toward others, with a deep sense of empathy, humility, and compassion for others in the same spirit with which it has been extended to us.

We are built to depend on God, to be attuned to others, and to recognize other people’s needs for kindness and compassion. Knowing how badly we need God’s kindness, the power of empathy helps us recognize the needs of others in a mirror fashion and respond with support.

Empathy is a mitzvah; the Torah commands the Jewish People to remember our collective experience as slaves in Egypt, reminding us of our own vulnerability and suffering and redirecting that memory into action by extending kindness to the convert, the stranger, and anyone else who might be marginalized or vulnerable. If kindness and compassion are the fabric of Creation and key tools to observe the Torah, it only follows that the formative experience of the Jewish People is a masterpiece in empathy.

Fragile

The realization that life is fragile and inherently dependent on kindness should lead to a profound awareness of our responsibility to be kind to ourselves and to others. It starts at home, what our sages called the local needy; it is essential to prioritize the needs of those closest to us before extending our efforts outward, beginning with immediate relationships, spouses, children, parents, siblings, extended family, and so on.

Our families serve as one of the primary arenas for practicing and refining our capacity for kindness. These intimate relationships, given to us, present unique challenges and opportunities for growth, teaching us the nuances of empathy, sacrifice, and unconditional love.

Sustainer – everything

The idea that God is the Provider or Sustainer captures the essence of God’s all-encompassing kindness – KOL KOL. It extends far beyond a simple material sense and captures the concept that the Creator sees to all our needs, both physical and spiritual; everything within everything, layers deep.

There is so much life and detail in Creation, far in excess of the basic functionality of life in either a physical or spiritual sense; the canvas is too big, with goodness, beauty, richness, and diversity of the world from the vast array of foods to the sensory experiences of aesthetics, taste, and smell. All point towards a Creator who delights in providing a tapestry of experiences that enrich life beyond the basic needs for survival.

The act of creation originates in a desire to give comprehensively. This desire is not limited to fulfilling basic needs but extends to offering a fullness of existence that allows for the appreciation of beauty, the experience of pleasure, and the possibility of personal and relational depth. The creation is not a utilitarian exercise but an expression of Divine generosity, seeking to share the boundless goodness inherent in the Divine essence.

It’s tailor-made: our families, health, finances, relationships, and what have you. Everything within everything is made just for us.

There is a phrase in Grace After Meals that is deeply intertwined with the blessings given to the Patriarchs and encapsulates profound themes of gratitude, Divine provision, and the acknowledgment of a holistic perfection in life – BAKOL MIKOL KOL. It reflects a comprehensive appreciation for the blessings received, attributing them to the Divine generosity that sustains all aspects of existence.

Their lives weren’t perfect; nothing is, and no one is. But there is an element of perfection in everything; our ancestors felt like they had everything, even with the trials they faced. The challenge is in being able to see it.

The body and soul are fundamentally different; plenty of things are far from perfect. Life is nowhere near as enjoyable as it could be; it’s nowhere near as meaningful as it could be. But in the union of body and soul, that’s as perfect as it gets; they are not separate entities but components of a unified whole. What once appeared as imperfections can be understood as parts of a perfect fit for the individual’s journey.

If you try on a pair of shoes without socks, they might fit great, but when you wear them with socks, they’re not going to fit. Life’s difficulties, seen through the lens of the body-soul union, can enable us to see these challenges as perfect opportunities for growth, precisely tailored to the unique combination of our physical and spiritual selves.

Broadening the lens

There is room in this prayer for a broader and more compassionate view of the range of existential and spiritual afflictions that individuals experience in the course of life. It includes those experiencing chronic illness, depression, and grief. Our sages also consider that certain categories of people have what might be considered a living death: people in poverty, the blind, the childless, and individuals with a skin condition called tzaraas.

When a person is officially diagnosed with tzaraas, the Torah imposes a mandatory seven-day quarantine; the person must leave town and live in solitary isolation. Anyone who lived through COVID has primary experience of isolation and quarantine. However difficult and unpleasant, it has the valuable function of attempting to stop contagion and transmission, saving lives in the aggregate.

Our sages tell of Choni HaMagel, who fell asleep for seventy years and woke to a world that no longer recognized him. He prayed for death in the absence of a friend. People need connection and belonging; ostracism from the community is one of the very worst tools in our sages’ arsenal. People aren’t meant to be alone; we need healthy relationships and community for a fulfilling life.

Prayers for revival include all these categories, including the couples desperate for a child, the poor who do not know how they will get by tomorrow, and it includes lonely people who lack social skills and annoy you.

When Yakov was on the run from Esau with nothing at all, he prayed for God to save him and provide him with clothing; he prayed for dignity, and a means to engage with the world confidently, and that was Rabbi Meir’s answer to Cleopatra. We live in a world of clothes, where our souls have an avatar in our body, and where socially awkward people need some help, and the divine promise of resurrection is seen as providing whatever is necessary for individuals to fully participate in and contribute to the life of the community.

R’ Moshe Cordovero teaches that, in fact, the soul prays for the body, suggesting a symbiotic connection where the soul, even in a state of separation from the physical form, hopes for and wishes the best for its future counterpart, illustrating the interdependence of body and soul, rather than viewing them as independent or antagonistic elements.

The Vilna Gaon was on his deathbed, and he began to cry. His students asked why he crying; he had lived well and had nothing to fear. The Gaon of Vilna weakly gathered his Tzitzis and gently kissed them. He explained that in this world, he could purchase Tzitzis for a few pennies and do the mitzvah every moment he wore them. But in death, he would not be able to serve his Creator with all the time and money in the world!

At all times and places, people have complained about young people wasting time; but it’s a universal truth applicable to all. Time is irreplaceable, as R’ Ahron of Karlin points out, each moment of existence is incomparably unique, never existing before in the history of Creation, and never to be repeated before becoming irretrievably lost forever.

Seize every moment, grab every second. Recognize the great kindnesses and aspects of perfection in your life that exist alongside and sometimes perhaps even within challenges, difficulties, and problems.

(!ed shlomo how does this link?
The concept of modesty in Judaism encompasses much more than the superficial aspects of dress and appearance; it is a profound expression of dignity, self-respect, and an understanding of one’s inherent value. Judaism does not advocate for self-negation, it encourages a harmonious balance where one can express beauty and elegance in ways that align with refined values, presenting oneself respectfully and thoughtfully.

There is no mitzvah or stringency in being unattractive; modesty is not antithetical to beauty or aesthetics and is fully compatible. It’s not about prohibitions or restrictions but an approach to life that elevates the ordinary. It is about cultivating elevated normalcy where everyday living without necessitating a departure from normal social interactions and personal expression in dress, speech, and behavior reflects a deep-seated respect for the sanctity of the individual and the relationships between people.

The principle of balance is essential for life and all things. An imbalance, whether excess or deficiency, can lead to a physical, spiritual, or moral tipping point, undermining integrity and stability.

Wrap up

BIG IDEA MAYBE
The Ramchal teaches that the World to Come is a reality similar to our current world but with no evil inclination, presenting a vision of perfected physicality, where every aspect of the world serves as a conduit for spirituality. The absence of evil fundamentally transforms the nature of existence. Without the impulse towards evil, the world no longer harbors malice, suffering, or moral failings. This change doesn’t merely imply a world devoid of negative experiences but signifies a reality where the physical and the spiritual are harmoniously integrated, allowing for a perfected form of physical existence that fully reflects and embodies spiritual values.

The eradication of sickness, aging, and exhaustion in the World to Come underscores the notion of a perfected physicality. In this state, the limitations and vulnerabilities that characterize our current existence are removed, not for the sake of mere physical perfection but to enable the fullest expression of the soul’s potential. The soul’s influence over the body is complete, leading to a newly spiritualized form of existence where the material world no longer constrains spiritual growth but enhances and facilitates it.

The age of Mashiach will close with the eventual return of souls to the Garden of Eden, representing the culmination of the redemptive process and the conclusion of the creation cycle, a return to the original state of harmony between humanity and the Divine, yet at a higher level of spiritual and moral development. It is a return not to the naiveté of the first humans but to a state of enlightened unity with God, achieved through the history of struggle, choice, and growth, a second naivete.

God could have created happy robots; God couldn’t create happy, free-willed humans. Our capacity for choice, including the potential to make bad choices, is essential to the concept of moral and spiritual growth. Paradoxically, bad choices or no choices are the system working as intended; it is through the exercise of choice, with all its risks and possibilities for error, that we engage in the process of refinement and elevation, the process that allows for genuine growth, transformation, and the eventual realization of a perfected world.

סוֹמֵךְ נוֹפְלִים וְרוֹפֵא חוֹלִים וּמַתִּיר אֲסוּרִים – Supporter of the fallen, and Healer of the sick, and Releaser of the trapped

Supporter of the fallen, Healer of the sick, and Releaser of the trapped; these capture the different stages and aspects of divine benevolence and intervention in the types of struggles we face in life. These titles emphasize Divine responsiveness to human vulnerability and also offer a framework for understanding the nature of our trials and the avenues through which assistance and redemption are provided.

To fall or to have fallen symbolizes moments of vulnerability, whether due to external circumstances or internal struggles. Falling represents the process of losing or having lost balance in life—be it emotional, spiritual, or moral equilibrium, a moment where we are about to or have already given up. This can manifest in moments of doubt, temptation, or when facing obstacles that seem to push us beyond our limits. During these precarious times, we can turn to the Creator for strength and stability to regain balance and stand firm in the face of adversity. It’s an acknowledgment that before the full impact of a fall, there is divine support ready to catch and uphold us – סוֹמֵךְ נוֹפְלִים.

Illness and sickness, whether physical, emotional, or spiritual, represent conditions that have manifested after a fall—after an imbalance has taken its toll on our well-being and is defined by reality. We affirm the restorative power that mends what has been broken and heals what has been afflicted that encompasses not only the physical healing of diseases but also the mending of a spirit wearied by trials and the soothing of a heart wounded by life’s hardships – וְרוֹפֵא חוֹלִים

Unlike healing or releasing, which denote decisive actions directed towards changing a condition, support suggests providing assistance or backing that allows individuals to find their own feet; supporting is very different from lifting or picking up.

The Amida isn’t about other people; it’s about all people, including all parts of ourselves. Everyone has experienced falling, illness, and feeling tied up; these are universal aspects of human struggle.

Sanctify yourself in what is permitted

Beyond the Torah’s explicit laws, one of our sages’ great ethical teachings emphasizes the importance of elevating our moral and spiritual conduct beyond mere adherence to the letter of the law; as the Ramban memorably notes, you can be a Torah-sanctioned glutton!

There is no shortage of technically permitted exploits, but don’t lose sight of the bigger picture. Living within the bounds of what is technically permitted yet striving for a higher moral standard speaks to the heart of ethical and spiritual growth. It acknowledges that while certain actions may not be forbidden, indulging in them without restraint or sensitivity can lead to a degradation of one’s character and spiritual state.

Spending all your money on sports cars is not forbidden anywhere, but it may reflect and reinforce values that conflict with the ideals of modesty, stewardship, and concern for the well-being of others.

There is more to Judaism than avoiding prohibition. There is a flavor, tone, and style to Jewish law and tradition, one that encourages a lifestyle and mindset that honor the Divine and the inherent dignity of life with restraint, moderation, and sensitivity even in lawful pursuits; most respectable people in our communities tend to look and act a certain way for a reason.

An attitude that seeks to justify actions based solely on their technical permissibility can lead to a lowering of moral and spiritual boundaries and standards. It leads to compromising in ways that diminish and restrict one’s aspirations to the bare minimum or less rather than striving for excellence; it represents a form of falling סוֹמֵךְ נוֹפְלִים.

Having that kind of attitude, or any bad attitude or poor outlook, is a form of sickness, a bodily malfunction. Cynicism, insensitivity, and a predisposition to see the worst in people and situations are forms of spiritual and ethical malaise, expecting relationships to fail and sabotaging them so they do is a sickness. When your mind or body isn’t right, it won’t work the way it’s supposed to, obstructing the ability to form healthy relationships, appreciate goodness, and contribute positively to the world – רוֹפֵא חוֹלִים.

The state of being bound reflects a condition where one’s freedom and ability to act are severely restricted, literally or metaphorically locked up, their spiritual or emotional capacity for growth, action, and prayer can feel entirely constrained. This state represents a deep level of helplessness and limitation, where divine intervention seems the only avenue for liberation.

Falling captures the moments of vulnerability and imbalance before, where one is in danger of succumbing to spiritual, moral, or physical decline but has not yet reached a point of complete failure or collapse. It is a critical juncture where the potential for recovery and steadying oneself still exists, perhaps with divine support, yet without necessitating total divine rescue.

God can pick us up, God can support us, reflecting different levels of divine intervention and human agency. God can fully rectify our fallen state, essentially doing the work for us, but we’d rather have some more subtle support earlier on, the necessary encouragement or push that helps us regain our balance and stand tall. This type of support honors human autonomy and the value of overcoming challenges through personal effort.

(melech ozer umoshia umagen – we dont want god to do the work given to us)
We have a spiritual and ethical preference for engaging with life’s challenges using our capacities, with God’s help seen as a form of empowerment rather than a substitute for personal action. It reflects a commitment to growth, resilience, and the development of spiritual and moral strength, recognizing that the journey, with its trials and victories, is integral to our development.

Better to ask for a helping hand, something to hold on to, a stick for support, a push for momentum; if you fall down, God will have to do it all for you,

BIG IDEA

The Proverb teaches that the righteous stumble multiple times and rise, and wicked people stumble just once and are done for. This captures how falling, both literally and metaphorically, is an integral part of the human experience, particularly on the path to righteousness and spiritual maturity. This concept underscores the intrinsic value in the act of rising after a fall, highlighting the importance of growth and resilience to a life of righteousness.

Gravity is a thing; everybody falls down. That’s not an obstacle to growth but the source of it. As R’ Hutner teaches, only fools believe that the righteous rise is in spite of the fall; the truth is that the rise is because of the fall.

If someone lifted them up every time they fell, they’d learn and gain nothing, never growing into anything more, never becoming righteous at all! Support is what we need, the best of God’s might, the best of God’s kindness.

When a father is teaching his kid to ride a bicycle, there comes a moment when he lets go of the bike, and the kid falls; that’s part of it. But a great dad watches the child and leaps into action as they start to fall, catching and steadying the bike before anything else happens.

The experience of feeling down, inadequate, incompetent, unimportant, unhappy, or not enough is a universal human condition that can deeply affect one’s sense of self-worth and purpose. These feelings often stem from a perceived lack of clarity or certainty in one’s abilities, direction, or the meaningfulness of one’s endeavors.

If you’re an Egyptologist, you might think it’s really important for you to know if Tutankhamen was before Ramses; everyone needs clarity and competence in their professional and personal lives, and lack of clarity makes people feel depressed because it makes them feel incapable of doing what they’re supposed to be doing.

A lack of clarity, whether in understanding one’s role, goals, or the path to achieving them, can lead to feelings of being overwhelmed and inadequate. This confusion can be paralyzing, making individuals feel incapable of fulfilling their responsibilities or achieving their aspirations. It’s not merely the absence of information that distresses the spirit but the implications of that absence for one’s ability to function effectively and find fulfillment in one’s actions.

In those moments of self-doubt, uncertainty, and fear of inadequacy, it feels like falling, like you need something to lean on just so you can stand – סוֹמֵךְ נוֹפְלִים.

It’s good to admit that we are the kind of people who fall; it’s a design feature, not a personal failing. A corresponding feature of Creation is that there is a power that gives us confidence and proficiency, and to rediscover it in times it feels like it’s missing: the support we need amidst life’s uncertainties and our own limitations – סוֹמֵךְ נוֹפְלִים.

Sometimes, people are incapacitated, but sometimes, they are self-imposed limitations we often place on ourselves. Our abilities are vast, yet frequently undermined by our doubts and fears; highlighting the importance of self-awareness and the need for a supportive framework that enables us to realize our potential. we knock ourselves down; and anything unsteady needs support – סוֹמֵךְ נוֹפְלִים.

Wallowing in the unsteadiness of doubt and uncertainty soon becomes sickness; which gradually but directly leads to a sense of feeling stuck. The progression from an initial failure to address our needs or challenges to a state of feeling bound highlights a critical dynamic in human psychology and spiritual well-being; neglecting our emotional, mental, or spiritual health can lead to more profound issues. This cascades into other things in life, with a severe risk of contagion. When you’re frustrated or annoyed about something in your life, and then you snap at someone you care about, that negative feeling has spread from one area to another, from one person to another.

The Sukkos prayers ask for the restoration of the fallen line of David; falling isn’t just something that happens physically to individuals; it happens spiritually to the world as well. A world of spiritual zombies, plagued by disconnection and disorientation, meaninglessness, and nihilism, is a world that is incapacitated and incapable, a world that is falling, sick, and bound. We pray for a restoration and renewal that touches every aspect of existence on personal, spiritual, and global levels and expresses a profound hope for healing and renewal – סוֹמֵךְ נוֹפְלִים וְרוֹפֵא חוֹלִים וּמַתִּיר אֲסוּרִים

In the context of addiction, substance use disorders statistics suggest that more and more people are turning to substances to fill a void. The transformation of desire, the natural human emotion to want something, into addiction, where the object of desire exerts control, highlights a critical shift from autonomy to compulsion; a sickness is disrupting the intended harmony and function of human beings – רוֹפֵא חוֹלִים.

Moreover, unlike diseases that can be treated with conventional medicines, mental illness or addiction are treated under a more holistic framework; the professional consensus suggests that recovery involves the whole person, engaging with the spiritual, emotional, and psychological dimensions – רופא כל בשר ומפליא לעשות.

Not all people

Sometimes, there isn’t a happy ending. Sometimes, there isn’t the complete and speedy recovery that everyone hopes and prays for. It’s brutal, and there is nothing to say in those moments, but it happens sometimes.

But even in those times, there are fleeting moments to ask for and receive healing, even if a happy ending is off the table. Whether it’s stealing some last precious quality time with loved ones, the comfort found in final moments of pure connection and love, and the relief from pain and suffering, however temporary, there are moments of healing there, however far that entire scenario is from what anyone would ever dream of choosing.

In the moments when we find ourselves on the edge, wobbling between stability and the void of uncertainty or despair, the presence of people who stand by us becomes not just a comfort but a necessity. Be it a friend, sibling, child, parent, partner, or teacher; our prayers have been answered in the form of support that keeps us from falling too far, a testament to the incredible power of human connection that provides healing in our sickness and release us when we feel stuck.

There are people who are stuck in jail. The justice system is necessary but human, and so, like all things, it is not perfect and makes mistakes. There are people in jail who should not be there or are there for far longer than they deserve. There are soldiers who don’t come home; depending on when you’re reading this, there are hostages we need to bring home מַתִּיר אֲסוּרִים.

If that’s a little remote, everyone can feel trapped by circumstances, past mistakes, or societal expectations, and they deserve empathy and understanding. There are times people lose their money, that’s just something that happens. But in the aftermath, there are people who find themselves unable to make peace with the present reality; they are trapped by the remnants of their pasts. We can become prisoners of our own making, allowing the mistakes everyone makes to define us forever, a life sentence in a personal prison of our own creation from which escape seems impossible – מַתִּיר אֲסוּרִים.

Whatever element is trapped and incapable of seeing itself outside of artificial confines can be free from self-imposed limits based on societal expectations, personal insecurities, or the inability to forgive oneself.

The key is in your pocket – מַתִּיר אֲסוּרִים.

וּמְקַיֵּם אֱמוּנָתוֹ לִישֵׁנֵי עָפָר – Fulfiller of His faithfulness to those who sleep in the dust

In a certain sense, this mirrors the morning blessing upon waking that thanks God for faithfully returning our souls from sleep; our sages teach that sleep is a small taste of death, in which case resurrection would be like waking up.

This phrase is a restatement in variant form of what was plainly said moments ago, that God is the resurrector of the dead – מְחַיֶּה מֵתִים אַתָּה רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ.

It introduces an element of allegory: which sleepers in the dust?

The prophet Daniel predicts the resurrection of the dead with a similar comment: Many of those that sleep in the dust of the earth will awake – וְרַבִּים מִיְּשֵׁנֵי אַדְמַת־עָפָר יָקִיצוּ. Like many things Daniel wrote, this is difficult to understand and reinforces the question: Many will wake up, but not all, so who, then?

When our sages could not resolve difficult questions, the section concludes that the question stands – תיקו. It has been suggested that this is an acronym and that Eliyahu the Tishbi will answer all questions and inquiries – תשבי יתרץ קושיות ובעיות. Although there is a principle that one person is insufficient to establish the truth of a matter, Eliyahu isn’t one person, he is multiple reincarnations, including Pinchas.
(!ed Shlomo – al pi shnayim eidim yakum davar is din of eidus not psak, nevua is something else, also maybe this whole section is redundant)

Our sages teach that the bodies of completely righteous people are incorruptible after death; that they avoid the normal process of decomposition whole or in part. And yet, our sages also teach that the moment before the resurrection, their bodies will turn to dust, fulfilling God’s promise to the first man that from dust he came and to dust he would return – וּמְקַיֵּם אֱמוּנָתוֹ לִישֵׁנֵי עָפָר.

god restores dead
righteous in death are still called alive
Torah definition of life is accomplishment
secular definition sees sleep as an accomplishment – rest is functional
eg hibernation is not death
(!ed Shlomo – i dont understand this)

When you contemplate your self-identity, what you are made of, the source of your existence, the essence of what makes us truly ourselves, there is no room for pride or self-righteousness; what can we take credit for? Our body and intellect are gifts; our outcomes are influenced by forces far beyond us.

The philosopher René Descartes showed that consciousness is self-generative; I think, therefore I am. Your ability to think is what lets you know you exist and perhaps what makes you actually exist and have an independent existence. What truly defines an individual, then, is the exercise of free will; the capacity to make choices is where the essence of a person is most authentically expressed. Unlike our predispositions or instincts, which are inherited or conditioned, the choices we make reflect our moral and spiritual autonomy. Someone operating on instinct is barely alive, but a righteous person’s choices make a lasting impact, and people choose differently as a result even after they’re long gone; their actions live on, and as our sages teach, even in death, they are considered living, or perhaps, sleeping – ישֵׁנֵי עָפָר.

The blessing states that God is trustworthy to fulfill a promise; when we say someone is trustworthy, it means you can believe them in the abstract and count on them in the realm of action. When people die, their bodies reduce to nothing; at Majdanek concentration camp, there is an eerie monument with a huge mound of dust and ashes gathered from heaps found on the premises. It is impossible to imagine quite how, but we trust and believe that from the tiniest particles or less, God will restore them.

In another interpretation, it’s not really about us at all but our ancestors. Our sages suggest that the sleepers in the dust refer to Avraham, Yitzchak, and Yakov; God made many promises to them, and God will uphold those commitments to them – ישֵׁנֵי עָפָר.

In another teaching, Avraham self-described as the dust of the earth, and our sages note that the Jewish People are alternately compared to the dust of the earth and the stars in the sky, capturing a profound duality within Jewish identity and destiny. In this metaphor, the Jewish experience is characterized by low moments of humility and suffering and high times of shining bright in soaring heights with divine closeness. In this reading, then, God can be trusted to fulfill commitments to those who are humble, the ancestors known for their humility, and all those who are downtrodden – ישֵׁנֵי עָפָר.

God keeps His word

The concept that God can be counted on to faithfully fulfill His promises, reviving those who sleep in the dust, either literally, in death, or metaphorically, in despair, appears in similar blessings. As we pray every morning Baruch omer v’oseh, baruch gozer umekayem CITE. As we sing on Seder night, God even protects His word, ensuring the realization of His word when we don’t deserve it – בָּרוּךְ שׁוֹמֵר הַבְטָחָתוֹ. These reassurances are verbs, and they are causative; God revives and picks up those who are down, who feel down, and who put themselves down.

Our sages teach that arrogance, an inflated sense of self-importance and a disregard for others, is depicted as repulsive to the divine presence. In stark contrast, humility, marked by a genuine recognition of one’s limitations and a respectful acknowledgment of others’ value, is shown as creating a welcoming space for the Divine.

Humility is not merely a lack of pride but an accurate self-perception that does not place oneself at the center; instead, one recognizes and honors the central place of the Divine in the world. Moshe was the most humble of all men and merited unparalleled proximity to God as a direct result.

Humble people recognize their origin and destiny within the grand scheme of creation; those who lower themselves for the sake of Heaven are elevated by God, who stands them up and grants them a distinguished place in the world

Elemental
(!ed Shlomo – this whole section is super arcane)

In another reading, the blessing is not about those who sleep in the dust but those who cause the dust to sleep. In classical philosophy and certain aspects of Jewish thought, everything is a combination of earth, water, air, and fire. Water is understood to embody sexual desire and libidinal energy, the water of life.
yesheini – yesheinim
those that cause their dust to sleep
chaim vittal
Earth, fire, water, wind
four elements
all characteristics come from combinations
water is sexual desire – the water of life
water is also Torah – passion for torah
imbalances in character result from imbalance in elements, shore up other elements
one quality of earth is laziness, inaction, standstill, inanimate
the others are in motion
primordial snake fancies chava
convinces her to eat the apple
derived from water
should have invoked Earth and done nothing
punished with earth, tastes nothing
misplaced desire
punished by removing of desire
if a person takes their earth and puts it to bed
they are proactive
god pays back those who push themselves
god rewards them mida kneged mida
reanimates the earth
mirror

מִי כָמוֹךָ בַּעַל גְּבוּרוֹת וּמִי דּוֹמֶה לָּךְ – who is like you, in mighty deeds and who compares

In the realm of fiction, Superman is the archetypal superhero with superhuman strength, speed, stamina, agility, reflexes, longevity, senses, and durability, with heat vision, wind and frost breath, solar energy absorption, X-ray vision, and flight abilities. Even within fiction, these abilities are almost peerless to the extent that Superman as a character has been considered overpowered by fans at times; the usual roster of villains doesn’t cut it. Who compares to Superman?

Imagine Superman was real and kept the world safe; the statue would never begin to reflect Superman’s power in any way whatsoever. Any attempt to be like Superman in any way beyond a symbol will fail. What compares to Superman?

Some of our greats perform incredible and mighty deeds; Moshe splits the Red Sea, and Elisha resurrects the dead Shunamite boy whose birth he predicted. But they were borrowers of might, not masters of it; there is only one Master of might, and all power ultimately originates with God – בַּעַל גְּבוּרוֹת

Despite their elevated spiritual status and their ability to perform miraculous deeds, the prophets do not possess inherent power; it is not their might at all. Instead, they operate through the might granted to them by God, serving His purposes as vessels through which God’s power is manifested in the world.

There is one Master of might, reinforcing the principle at the heart of Jewish faith that there is One God, the singular source of all power, wisdom, and creation, demystifying all human accomplishment, even including the wonders performed by prophets, attributing all to divine providence; even the greatest acts of strength, intelligence, or talent are not pure products of human endeavor but reflections of the divine shared with individuals for a higher purpose.

When people are blessed with riches, smarts, power, talent, or some combination, they are not masters; they are borrowers. Our ownership of these personal attributes and accomplishments is transient; these are ultimately bestowed by a higher power and should be utilized with humility and responsibility. The pursuit and possession of such gifts are full of potential pitfalls and are regularly people’s undoing, especially when people fail to acknowledge the inherent limitations of human effort. When you are blessed with any of these, don’t claim ownership; acknowledge the divine origin of your gifts and utilize them in service of others and the betterment of humanity.

The sheer scale of the universe and its components, from the vastness of galaxies and the intricate systems of solar systems to the dynamic beauty of individual planets, fosters a profound sense of awe that transcends human understanding. Such cosmic magnificence invites us to admire the power in the universe, underscoring the omnipotent presence that not only orchestrates the grandeur of the cosmos but also maintains intimate governance over the laws that dictate its order.

From the macroscopic movements of galaxies to the microscopic interactions within subatomic structures, the power to command the cosmos with precision and care is awe-inspiring, reminding us of the delicate balance and immense complexity that governs our existence.

It’s impossible to understand what the Creator is, and with what we can understand, it’s impossible to adequately describe how thankful we ought to be. But, standing at the precipice, we have peered into the endless void, the boundless vastness, the sheer magnitude of everything. We may not understand it as it is, but we know that we have confronted the Infinite and hopefully come away having grasped the faintest flicker of the incomprehensible power of God. With deep reverence and humility, we have recognized the limitless scope of divine might and acknowledged that we stand before a force that orchestrates the universe’s complexities with precision and grace – בַּעַל גְּבוּרוֹת.

After internalizing the magnitude of this power and the extent of the forces at God’s disposal that influence our lives, we can begin to frame our requests in prayer. The realization of God’s omnipotence transforms the nature of our petitions, grounding them in profound trust and confidence. To imagine and believe in God’s boundless capability is to understand that no request is too small, no concern too trivial, and no plea beyond the realm of possibility. This belief empowers the faithful to approach God with their needs, hopes, and desires, secure in the knowledge that the Master of all Powers listens and has the capacity to respond. The act of prayer becomes not just a petition but a communion with the infinite, a dialogue rooted in awe, respect, and unshakeable faith in the divine will and wisdom – בַּעַל גְּבוּרוֹת.

A common conception people have is that prayer is like going to the local and buying a lottery scratch card; if someone is sick, say a prayer and put it out there because it might work. From this perspective, prayer is a long shot with bad odds, a passive, almost resigned approach without genuine conviction in the outcome.

But in actuality, no request is too big or small. If you ask your mother to cook a five-course feast on a regular Tuesday, that is an outrageous and unreasonable request. But if you’re at the Seder table and ask her to pass a dish, no one thinks that’s an imposition. It’s so easy, it’s expected, why wouldn’t they?

The blessing of Might and Strength illustrates that prayer is not a lottery ticket; it is not a last-ditch effort to sway an uncertain fate but an active engagement with a personal God who is deeply interested in the intricacies of each individual’s life. Prayer, in this light, is not a gamble but a dialogue built on trust and relationship. When no concern is too trivial for God’s attention, it transforms the act of prayer into an act of profound faith and openness; the same power that governs the vast mechanics of the universe is attentive to the personal pleas of every heart. It elevates prayer from a mere shot in the dark to a meaningful exchange with the divine, where every word is heard, and every request is considered with infinite compassion and wisdom.

Our prayers do not hinge on the odds at all, and we can shift the focus from the size or nature of our requests. God’s capacity to intervene, assist, or transform situations is limitless. Our requests, no matter how small or significant they may seem in human eyes, are tiny compared to the infinite scope of God’s power. God might have reasons to act or not act, unrelated to the size of the request, but we can pray with confidence and sincerity and liberate our prayers from our logic or limitations.

God is omnipotent. God can resurrect the dead and reverse the finality of death, create something out of nothing, and create life where there was none. Is it so hard to ask for healing? For some money? For some good luck and happiness?

When Queen Esther approached King Achashverosh, who loved her and was taken by her charm and charisma, she still spoke with grace and respect: “If possible, if it pleases you, if it’s acceptable and favorable, grant my wish and accept my request, and come to my tea party.” A similar stance in prayer is essential; it is not a matter of deserving what we ask for, but simply recognizing and believing in God’s compassionate nature, that God cares deeply for His creation, that God listens, cares, and is actively involved in the minutiae of our lives.

It is essential to recognize that for God, wish fulfillment is trivial, as easy as it gets; to whatever extent you think it’s hard or difficult, it reflects a lack of understanding of the praise and appreciation for the Creator’s unmatched ability to affect change. The difficulty we perceive in our requests often reflects our limitations rather than God’s, highlighting the importance of faith in recognizing God’s sovereignty and generosity.

מֶלֶךְ מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה וּמַצְמִיחַ יְשׁוּעָה – King Who causes death and restores life, and causes deliverance to sprout forth

Although we live in a mostly post-monarchy world, human monarchs are symbols of power, and particularly in a historical context, they actually wield immense power. As the sovereign, their power was perceived as absolute within their territories; they could dictate laws, levy taxes, wage wars, and make decisions that significantly impacted the lives of their subjects.

God as a king is a metaphor; God isn’t human, and humans aren’t God. A human king can execute and save people but can’t create life or revive the dead.

But God is the king in these of being sovereign over domains, the supreme power – מֶלֶךְ מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה

People get sick; people die; that’s not particularly remarkable; it happens every day. Illness leading to death is a natural progression that aligns with our limited human perception of cause and effect. In such cases, death may not surprise us or challenge our understanding of the world. But when otherwise healthy people drop dead from one moment to the next, it presents a stark contrast to our expectations, highlighting the unpredictable and sovereign nature of divine will, and we must acknowledge that life and death are ultimately under God’s command – מֶלֶךְ מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה

If you ever visit a neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) at the hospital, the fragility of life is palpable with newborns fighting for survival. The dedicated medical professionals work tirelessly, employing their knowledge and skills to preserve and enhance life, but a baby that can fit in the palm of your hand is a powerful reminder that ultimately it is God who reigns supreme over life and death, health and illness, and decides the course of each life – מֶלֶךְ מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה.

Chana’s grandmother was diagnosed with cancer when Chana was a little girl, but she always said she wanted to live to see Chana’s wedding. She lived with cancer for eighteen years and died a few months after Chana and I got married.

Prayer and faith are not substitutes for doctors and medicine, but there are many stories of people who live far longer than their medical prognoses predict. There is a reality where God decides a person will live against the odds, against a stacked deck, whatever the situation seems like, and regardless of what the doctors say; and someone with months to live somehow steals years and years powered by the will to live, supported by prayer and hope, and of course, the divine will that transcends the limitations of human understanding and medical statistics.

Because God isn’t a doctor; God is the king Who causes death and restores life – מֶלֶךְ מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה.

As the Chozeh of Lublin quipped, the Torah gives doctors permission to heal; it doesn’t give permission to give up.

Death before life

In this phrasing, death precedes life, suggesting a more interesting relationship than linear birth and death; death serves the purposes of life – מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה.

At Creation, every day and its aspects are labeled as good, with one exception, death, which is very good. Death teaches us the value of life and is the source of the intrinsic relationship between life’s finite nature and our capacity to find meaning and connection within it. Our mortality compels us to contemplate their existence, priorities, and the legacy we wish to leave behind to make a difference and make our lives matter. This urgency is born out of the awareness of life’s impermanence and encourages intentional living, cherishing each moment and fostering connections that transcend the material; and it’s what makes us reach out to the Divine – מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה.

If you plucked an indigenous person from China, transported them to the USA, and left them in the middle of Florida, the communication and language barrier would pose a formidable limitation on his ability to navigate the environment extended to the spiritual realm. Just as language and culture shape our ability to connect and communicate, the physical body and its limitations shape our capacity to fully realize our spiritual potential; our bodies are fully capable of spirituality but in a different language to our souls.

In an earlier teaching, our sages highlighted Moshe’s comment defining life as the soul’s connection to God—Atem Hadveikim B’Hashem Elokeichem Chaim Kulchem Hayom (Devarim 4:4). To be fully alive within that definition, life as an attachment to God would counterintuitively mean that life begins at death – מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה.

Imagine twins gestating during pregnancy, and everything is going fine until one day, one of them suddenly disappears, leaving the remaining twin upset due to the loss. Where’s my twin?!

Everyone outside understands that the baby was born, and he’s next – מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה.

The world we inhabit is like a womb or nest; it is a place of growth, development, and preparation, where the soul is nurtured and readied for what comes next. Today, we understand better than ever the impact of a poor environment or health issues on a pregnancy; spiritual condition and moral growth are equally influenced by the quality of our environments – מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה.

Death enables life and unlocks eternity; the experiences, growth, and development we undergo in the temporal realm imbue eternity with significance.

Our sages teach that when a child is in the womb, an angel teaches the soul the entire Torah, which is subsequently forgotten at birth. This act symbolizes the transition from a state of passive receptivity to active acquisition and personal achievement, the reason life exists at all. Forgetting underscores the fundamental principle that our spiritual and moral achievements, all our knowledge and learning, are valuable when they are the result of personal effort and struggle.

The sequence of death before life in this blessing reflects the reality that life, death, and salvation do not conform to our expectations. It illustrates both the complexity of divine intervention and the nuanced nature of what constitutes salvation.

 מֶלֶךְ מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה וּמַצְמִיחַ יְשׁוּעָה

The Torah’s early narratives about the origins of humanity tell us of Chanoch, one of the very first saints, so perfectly righteous that the Torah attests that he walked with God and then he vanished. Our sages teach that he had a perfect record but was vulnerable to sin, so he was taken to Heaven before his time; he died, and it saved him from blotting his spiritual record.

In a later story, Yitzchak and Rivka had been married for some time, and after years of grappling with the challenge of infertility, they begged, cried, and prayed, and the Creator relented, and they became pregnant with twins. The Torah narrates this story with intensely emotive language connoting earnest desperation and similar language to indicate God’s almost reluctant acquiescence. Rashi notes this friction and explains that it simply wasn’t time for them to have children yet because now Avraham would die five years sooner than he might have, as a kindness to spare him from watching his grandson Esau become a murderer. The sooner Esau was to be born, the sooner Avraham would die. They wanted the right thing at the wrong time.

Sometimes, salvation means not living, and sometimes, salvation kills and has a cascade of second-order effects. Flourishing and saving for one can mean pain and suffering for another; the Divine plan defies simplistic interpretations and does not always align with human expectations.

מַצְמִיחַ יְשׁוּעָה – causes salvation to flourish

Extending our time in this world or ending it, with what we experience as a good outcome or perhaps not, we believe that it’s leading somewhere, always aimed to an ultimate good – מַצְמִיחַ יְשׁוּעָה.

The average life expectancy is around seventy years, perhaps a little more. What’s what compared to a thousand, a million, a billion, or infinity? Compared to the vast stretches of eternity, the fleeting nature of our existence is short. And yet, our little flicker of existence is pivotal, the site in which our eternal destiny is shaped and molded. Our actions, choices, and spiritual growth during this short span have lasting implications, influencing the quality and nature of our existence in the eternal realm.

The verb utilized here means growing in the agricultural sense, like planting a seed. Organic growth is slow and cyclical; plants lose their leaves in the winter and go dormant, experiencing a form of death, but before long, spring will come, and they will blossom once again.

Death, destruction, and decay are necessary parts of life and are prerequisites to a life that matters, as well as the resurrection of the dead; the Angel of Death is not a villain but a valued team member with good standing in Heaven. The experience of death dissolves the limitations imposed by physical existence and allows for spiritual rebirth.

As Rabbeinu Tam teaches, every setback plants the seeds of a comeback; every descent coils the spring of a descent – yerida ltzorech aliya. In the moments of darkness and isolation, of deepest difficulty, despair, and failure, wishing for death, feeling dead and buried, God is planting something –  וּמַצְמִיחַ יְשׁוּעָה.

Our challenges and low points are not final destinations but orchestrated opportunities for significant growth and transformation, preparatory stages for a higher state of being. The moments of darkness and isolation, when we are at our lowest when we are overwhelmed when the desire to give up is most compelling, can paradoxically become the fertile ground for profound personal development.

Every challenge is measured, and every person has the tools to endure and overcome it, even if it seems insurmountable. These tools appear in the form of loved ones, friends, mentors, educational materials, support networks, or internal qualities like independence, optimism, persistence, and resilience.

The effectiveness of our tools is significantly influenced by our perspective and how we utilize them. A positive outlook is generally beneficial but can lead to negative outcomes if applied without mindfulness; I’m so happy with my rickety old house, even though all my neighbors live in gorgeous mansions! Positivity, detached from a framework of gratitude and awareness of others’ circumstances, can morph into ingratitude.

The proverb says that when all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail; there is a common human tendency to approach diverse problems with a fixed mindset and a single, familiar solution. But what if you used the hammer as a paperweight or bookend? The value and utility of a tool are not fixed but can be expanded or transformed based on the context and the needs at hand; our internal tools must be guided by a balanced perspective of their effectiveness, applied with creativity, flexibility, and imagination.

There is a delicately balanced recipe for life and death in the world, just the right combination of both in our lives to craft the conditions necessary to stimulate spiritual growth. The interplay between life’s ending and beginning, its challenges and triumphs, is designed to cultivate an environment conducive to ultimate salvation – מֶלֶךְ מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה וּמַצְמִיחַ יְשׁוּעָה.

There are certain aspects of ourselves that we must allow to die so that we can live: parts of the ego, certain desires, and past mistakes to make way for a more genuine, spiritually aligned existence. The spiritual stagnation of unawakened existence that precedes a conscious life of meaning and purpose can be a kind of living death; the process of death and rebirth is often a prerequisite for true spiritual awakening and growth, death preceding birth.

Despite our efforts and aspirations, ultimate control and the power to save or change circumstances lie solely with the supreme power in the universe, the source of might that controls the forces in the universe. Only God can save us or make anything work; only God has power. All humans can do is what is given to us, our output.

You can try as hard as you can outcome is not tied to our output.
(big idea, talk about effective hishtadlus, base rates)

If you are a fisherman, you have a bunch of rods with lines in the water. If one bends, that’s great! You have a fish hooked; you need to put in some effort and work hard to reel it in. But the line might snap, and the fish might break free. Also, you need to reel the right rod!

Your job is to fish, to go where the fish are supposed to be and do what professional fishermen do. Will the fish come? Will you have supper, be profitable, hire a crew, build a fleet, and build a public company? That’s not up to you – מַצְמִיחַ יְשׁוּעָה.

You must make a genuine attempt and effort to exert yourself in pursuit of your goals. Your efforts must be effective and strategic. If you work a hundred hours a week going door to door trying to sell used disposable cutlery, you have worked very hard but very ineffectively, which undermines the hard work you have done.

If outcomes are supposed to happen, they come with a certain price tag of physical and spiritual inputs. If a person is fated to have a hard time with relationships, there is a universe where he might be the right person and have an on-off relationship for ten years before realizing she was the one all along, or he could date for ten years before meeting her, and the outcome is the same.

The requisite price in effort and sweat must be paid, and our attempts don’t have to be at the thing that ends up happening; success stories rarely come from the places people expect them to and are frequently marked by twists, turns, and serendipities that could not have been anticipated at the outset, highlighting the unpredictable nature of achieving goals.

Life is not linear, with inherent uncertainty and a complex interplay of factors that contribute to achieving goals; therefore, part of the effort includes flexibility, openness to new opportunities, and the ability to adapt to changing circumstances. While focused effort is essential, so too is the capacity to pivot and embrace unexpected pathways that may lead to success.

(meilich biderman yeshiva story)

BIG IDEA

What that means, then, is that there is no such thing as a waste of time. The way we typically view the world, when a person works on a big deal for years, if it closes, then it is worthwhile. If it doesn’t, everyone wasted time and money and should’ve spent that time and money doing anything else, or even nothing!

In the perspective of our prayer, every effort, every challenge, and even every apparent setback is a meaningful component of a larger divine plan. The effort invested in pursuing a goal, regardless of its immediate outcome, serves as the foundation upon which future successes are built. When something good happens that comes easy, it is paid for by failures and doors closed; the experiences of each failure contribute to the eventual achievement in ways that may not be obvious or quantifiable. God is constantly planting – מַצְמִיחַ יְשׁוּעָה.

In times of struggle, when the outcomes of our efforts are not what we hoped for, whether with family, health, finances, or unfulfilled prayers, God is planting something that will grow. Our sages teach that even the frustration you feel when you pull the wrong thing out of your pocket counts and has a redemptive quality; something is growing.

Humanity begins in a state of relative ease in the Garden of Eden, which shifts dramatically after the sin. After that, humans earn their way in the world with sweat and effort. All that is given to us is effort, and we must try. But we cannot control outcomes; God did not tell Adam he must accomplish, and so there is no such thing as wasted effort. We must push ourselves purposefully, intentionally, with thoughtful purpose and direction, but the outcome is God’s alone.

In a world that is fixated on productivity and results, that measures success by outcomes and achievements, this spiritual perspective is alien and offers a profound reorientation towards effort and intention. But it is God’s might and kindness at play; the sincerity and dedication of our efforts define us, not our outcomes. Every act of trying, the exertion of the effort itself, sows the seeds for redemption and salvation, liberating us from the burden of outcome-based validation and encouraging us to focus on the quality and intentionality of our actions. In this framework, the ultimate measure of lacking is not a failure to achieve a specific goal but a failure to try, and even that perceived lack is offset by Divine kindness, where a person doesn’t do enough, and God treats it as sufficient anyway.

If we could truly internalize this, there would be no place for disappointment and getting upset; we’d never give up and be endlessly persistent and resilient. We experience pain and difficulty; those are very real, but there is no death or failure that does not serve the purposes of life, growth, meaning, and purpose.

We still have to do things that make sense. God is the cause of success, not business, but you still have to learn how a business works so you can work in one. Education is not the cause of success, but you still need an education; it’s part of our baseline effort.

Bad things have their place

In a radical teaching, R’ Tzadok Hakohen teaches that punishment is a fulfillment of God’s will as well and that there are consequences for evil. When bad people suffer, it serves the ultimate good, and it’s even good for that person, too. In R’ Tzadok’s analogy, you can serve the king as the minister, butler, or firewood.

In every life, death is the worst thing that can happen, the final ending and ultimate loss. In a moment of grief and pain, It is important to have sensitivity, empathy, and timing in conveying spiritual truths, and it would be completely inappropriate to share, but this prayer affirms that death is also part of the divine cycle of existence, leading to renewal and continued life.

As the legendary psychologist and Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankel showed, people with a why to live for can bear almost any how; people become depressed when their pain is meaningless. Much of the anguish in suffering stems not only from the pain itself but from a sense of meaninglessness or existential despair that can accompany it.

וְנֶאֱמָן אַתָּה

We fundamentally trust in God’s power and benevolence, particularly in His ability to bring life from death, both literally and metaphorically. We see revival in our world and in our lives every day; we regularly experience the cycles of revival and renewal in the natural world, historical and personal experiences of overcoming, and the transformations that emerge from periods of hardship וְנֶאֱמָן אַתָּה לְהַחֲיוֹת מֵתִים.

We know from the stories of our ancestors, from Yitzchak, Pinchas, Yechezkel, and Elisha, the daily miracle of waking up every morning, the miracle of birth, and the origin of life in the universe that the Creator delivers – וְנֶאֱמָן אַתָּה לְהַחֲיוֹת מֵתִים.

Living for a time of Mashiach and an existence in a World to Come that we cannot comprehend, we can question if it’s worthwhile. As this blessing concludes, our people have trusted God, and Creation can trust the Creator. King Louis XIV of France once asked the great philosopher Blaise Pascal to prove the existence of God; Pascal pointed to the existence of the Jews. I am alive, and I choose to believe in life’s value and potential for meaning and that it leads somewhere good – וְנֶאֱמָן אַתָּה לְהַחֲיוֹת מֵתִים.

Mysticism

Jewish mysticism teaches that, like the body, the soul has an anatomy, a spiritual structure with different parts and functions. Deeply complex and nuanced, the familiar ones are Nefesh, Ruach, and Neshama, which we mostly use interchangeably; there are also more esoteric parts called Chaya and Yechida.

Moments of spiritual awakening are moments involving each level of the soul leveling up, reaching higher, and achieving a milestone of spiritual growth and deeper connection with the divine, firing and switching on, an aspect of revival.

Avos – Patriarchs, Fathers, Ancestors

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בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה’ אֱלֹקינוּ וֵאלֹקי אֲבוֹתֵינוּ אֱלֹקי אַבְרָהָם אֱלֹהֵי יִצְחָק וֵאלֹקי יַעֲקֹב הָקל הַגָּדוֹל הַגִּבּוֹר וְהַנּוֹרָא קל עֶלְיוֹן גּוֹמֵל חֲסָדִים טוֹבִים וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל וְזוֹכֵר חַסְדֵי אָבוֹת וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל לִבְנֵי בְנֵיהֶם לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ בְּאַהֲבָה: מֶלֶךְ עוֹזֵר וּמוֹשִׁיעַ וּמָגֵן: בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה מָגֵן אַבְרָהָם – Blessed are You, Hashem, our God, and God of our fathers, God of Avraham, God of Yitzchak, and God of Yakov, the Almighty, the Great, the Powerful, the Awesome, most high Almighty, Who bestows beneficent kindness, Who possesses everything, Who remembers the piety of the Patriarchs, and Who brings a redeemer to their children’s children, for the sake of His Name, with love. King, Helper, and Deliverer and Shield. Blessed are You, Hashem, Shield of Avraham.

Blessing – בָּרוּךְ

A blessing is typically a prayer for God’s favor and protection. When we bless people, it is understood that we wish well upon those we love. When we say a blessing over food, it is understood that we are expressing our thanks to the Creator over fruit. The Hebrew word for blessing doesn’t translate to an analog familiar outside of a religious setting, but you might say that a child or spouse has been a blessing to you, meaning a source of joy and goodness.

In the context of prayer that is both directed to and about the Creator, what it might mean to bless the Creator is unclear. It would be tautological, entirely circular, to bless the Creator; we cannot bless the Creator, and we cannot affect the Creator at all. There is nothing we can say or do to bestow, invoke, or grant any change to the Creator.

And yet, our sages record a vision of R’ Yishmael Kohen Gadol, who entered the Holy of Holies to perform the Yom Kippur service and had a vision, imagining God asking for a blessing, the source of the teaching that even regular people’s blessing hold power. This anecdote sharply illustrates the Creator’s interest in a personal and intimate relationship with creation.

בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה

The Rokeach explains that this formula, which appears in almost if not every single blessing, is not humans blessing the Creator. Noting that the root of the Hebrew word for blessing is cognate to the word for wellspring, this form acknowledges the Creator as the Source of all blessing – BRACHA / BREICHA.

אַתָּה

Most, if not all, languages distinguish between the first, second, and third-person perspectives. The first person is the I/we perspective; the second person is your perspective; and the third person is the he/she/it/they perspective.

In old and early modern English, it was common to speak to superiors in the third person as a form of courtesy, deference, and respect with titles like “sir” or “ma’am.” Today, it is nearly universal to use the second person “you” as you speak to them – “How are you?”, “What would you like?”

In such cultures and settings, speaking directly to someone senior, such as an elder, could be considered disrespectful. Instead, it is expected to use a modified and respectful pronoun, and this practice continues to this day in specific settings such as the military – “Sir, yes sir!”

Navigating the spiritual landscape, we encounter the deep-seated tension between divine immanence and transcendence, a duality that underpins our relationship with the sacred. On one hand, we cherish a profound personal bond and closeness with the Divine, a connection so intimate that addressing God with the familiar “You” feels inherently right, symbolizing our inherited proximity. Yet, this familiarity is juxtaposed with the instinct to approach the Divine with the utmost reverence, acknowledging God’s unfathomable grandeur and mystery through more abstract and respectful references, such as “God.” This distinction encapsulates the paradox of trying to merge our understanding of a God both imminently close yet infinitely beyond our comprehension.

In the final analysis, the essence of our spiritual journey lies in embracing this tension rather than resolving it. God’s presence is a palpable reality in our daily lives, and a source of comfort in times of need; the sacred is not far away. At the same time, God eludes our grasp, existing in unfathomable mystery, distant and indescribable, challenging us to maintain our reverence and awe. Referring to God in the second and third person in our dialogue holds these contradictory truths together; our spirituality is not diminished by complexity and is enriched by learning to live with it, allowing it to guide us toward deeper understanding and connection – ‘אַתָּה ה.

YHVH – ה

God’s name is known as the Shem Havaya, the Tetragrammaton. It refers to timeless and eternal being, a construct of the words for was, is and shall be – היה, הווה, ויהיה. It is related to the way in which God introduced Himself to Moshe for the first time with the idea that God’s being transcends any fixed state that time imposes – אֶהְיֶה אֲשֶׁר אֶהְיֶה.

As an absolute and universal rule, God’s name is never pronounced as written, and instead, we substitute the name that describes mastery and control, and is universally relatable as the master of the forces that govern our lives – ADNY.

While we don’t pronounce the name; we can scan it, think about it, or just understand the concept as we say something else. Perhaps this mirrors the idea expressed by the name itself—that God is beyond physical space and time—so His name doesn’t need to be articulated in space and time. Or perhaps it’s enough to think it, which alone brings it into existence.

It’s not as esoteric as it sounds. In literature, you can always tell the difference between when the characters are talking and when they are thinking. Writing will have “speech marks” and a speech or thought bubble in comics and illustrated books. But while other characters can’t respond to thought, there is no distinction between thought and speech to you, the reader. But that’s exactly how God sees us; our speech and thoughts are identical to God. Citation here that God knows our thoughts.

(!ed pull this and put in intro? couple with r’ chaim brisker that lack of kavanna is lack of tefila see r berkowitz episode 1)

A recurring theme in this series is the emphasis on avoda she’blev; it’s the thought and feeling you invest in the words that transform words into prayers. So, while we don’t pronounce it how it’s written, what we think ultimately determines what it means.

To underscore how central this point is, speaking during the Amida is a prohibited interruption. But as obvious as that may be, the Rashba rules that even thinking off-topic and letting your mind wander constitutes a prohibited interruption. Our thought is the battleground of where prayer is – or is not – taking place. The continuum of each prayer is different, fueled by varying thoughts, even from the same person and even on the same day. There is a common form but a hyper-individualized substance; the thoughts and feelings we inject into the words are what turbocharge words into prayers – tochen / tzura.

The name YHVH represents a timeless being, and it’s the first of the 13 Attributes of Mercy, the prayer God taught Moshe after the Golden Calf. But in some sense, mercy is incompatible with timelessness; mercy is responsive. When you see a homeless person or a child crying, it moves and stirs an emotional response within you, driving you to act in a way you would not have without the stimulus – your compassion is reactive, wholly caused, and constrained by time and change.

Since God is beyond any particular moment, God cannot moved by our need of the moment. Yet ultimately, we can be sure that God is compassionate and merciful, even though nothing motivates God to give, because if we cannot stir God’s mercy, then by necessity, it must exist independently. You cannot be kind in a world with only yourself because there is no one to give to, nothing to react to. If any of us exist, God was kind and merciful to create us.

In the opening of our prayers, it’s essential to understand that God is the Source of blessing, lovingly bringing forth a creation that wasn’t there before. It’s the ultimate act of kindness because we could not deserve it. Before you exist, you cannot do anything to earn any merit! Nahama d’kisufa?

It also ties in with the opening verse and David’s feeling of unworthiness – תִּפְתָּח וּפִי יַגִּיד תְּהִלָּתֶךָ. We aren’t worthy, can’t be, and don’t need to be. Maybe we don’t have any merit; perhaps humans have no claim on God. But there was a time when humans didn’t exist, and before the notion of “deserving” entered the equation, God created humans out of love and kindness. Our moment of prayer is no worse than that moment. We acknowledge our relative position in Creation and humbly bow, but when we say Hashem’s name, we can stand again, lifted by God’s compassionate mercy.

אֱלֹקינוּ

The word that frequently opens the formula for blessings and prayers is Our God – אֱלֹקינוּ.

This word suggests at least two elements: first, there is a God, and second, He is ours. Fascinatingly, this language suggests a possible third element as well, not just that we have chosen to identify with this deity but also that there is possessive ownership – that literally, this God belongs to us.

וֵאלֹקי אֲבוֹתֵֽינוּ אֱלֹקי אַבְרָהָם אֱלֹהֵי יִצְחָק וֵאלֹקי יַעֲקֹב

In a world struggling with an existential lack of identity and purpose, it is deeply meaningful to open our prayers by acknowledging our long history with the Creator; this isn’t a new relationship we have started on our own. We have inherited a deep and rich relationship with roots that go far back and cast wide, the polar opposite of alienation and nihilism.

I am a part of something that has been here since long ago, that has been tested and approved by generation upon generation, something culturally sufficient that I can call my own, something that touches the eternal and transcendent – אֱלֹקינוּ וֵאלֹקי אֲבוֹתֵֽינוּ

Instead of stopping there, our sages specified each patriarch – Avraham, Yitzchak, and Yakov.

Archetypes BIG IDEA

As explained (See Core Idea: Talking about God is hard), God’s qualities are unlike human attributes. While human qualities merge and combine to form individual personalities, they exist in God as pure archetypes, paradoxically separate yet united. It’s impossible to completely grasp because it is conceptually outside our frame of reference, like trying to exist above time.

When a father has a favorite sports team, and his son takes an interest and starts cheering them on, it adds a unique element to the relationship that strengthens the bond; every time the team plays is a touchpoint for a new contact, forever.

That’s a little like what the Patriarchs did, establishing individual access points to these pure archetypes.

The first blessing of the Amida praises God’s kindness, God’s predominant mode of interacting with the universe. When God explains his attributes to Moshe, only one of them is “abundant,” kindness – וְרַב־חֶסֶד.

Avraham was the first prototype of perfection, the avatar of kindness, who embodied the archetype of kindness to all who would follow – חסד. His tent was famously open in all directions, welcoming all the tired and hungry, always ready to share a cold drink, a warm meal, and a kind word. His gentle way influenced a generation; his kindness may even have been excessive to some extent. He prays for Sodom, an evil and immoral city who don’t deserve pity; he is reluctant to send away his son Yishmael, even though he is a negative influence on Yitzchak and despite Sarah’s observations.

Avraham tapped into the archetype of distilled and undiluted kindness even to excess.

3 is stability

As the Maharal notes, there are three Patriarchs; three is significant because it is the minimum amount of support a structure needs to stand independently. Missing any one of Avraham, Yitzchak, or Yakov would erode the stability of the Jewish People.

We pray to our God, the God of our ancestors, the God of our stability. We are here today in their merit, honoring and practicing their qualities. We pray to the God of each ancestor, the embodiment of each archetype –  אֱלֹקי אַבְרָהָם אֱלֹהֵי יִצְחָק וֵאלֹקי יַעֲקֹב

We affirm our heritage, that we will continue the legacy, take up the mantle, and live up to it.

Forces

The Torah uses the word ELKM as a title of divinity that comprehends and unifies all the forces of eternity and infinity, the Master of forces. When we call God our God, it’s not a claim that God is ours by right, but that we are tasked with representing the fulfillment of the Divine will in the world to live in goodness, morality, and sanctity; the forces of the universe are at our disposal, and even manipulated for the Jewish People where necessary.

kol bishvil yisrael

(Shlomo – sounds like we’re saying Hashem needs us)

https://images.shulcloud.com/618/uploads/PDFs/Divrei_Torah/doesgodneedus.pdf

See, getting involved with God

Theirs – and ours

We affirm that God is our God, the God of our Fathers collectively, and then each specifically – Avraham, Yitzchak, and Yaakov. Each alone is sufficient; we are the product of all three, so we, too, get to call God ours.

Our roots anchor and ground us; we are descendants of the heroes of old who walked and talked with the Creator, who would argue and sometimes even win. We open our prayers by affirming who we are and where we come from; remembering is the catalyst of redemption.

HAKEL

This is the most straightforward word for a deity or God and is the root of the earlier word in the blessing – EL / ELKM. It has connotations of might and power and is associated with love and kindness, embodied by Avraham.

In a certain sense, what made the Patriarchs unique and the stuff of legend was that they tapped into pure archetypes, forming human conduits through which God interacts with the world. Bridged once is bridged forever, and we are the inheritors of those pipelines.

From a certain point of view, the basic function and order of the universe is an incredible gift and blessing. From the vast cosmic scale of galaxies to the micro-scale of cells and molecules, every natural process works, and life goes on. The sun rose today and will probably rise tomorrow as well. Every day, people get by despite all their difficulties. There is kindness everywhere you look.

It’s important to relate to our prayers. When you flatter someone and ask for something afterward, everyone sees through the act; it is empty and insincere. Take a moment and imagine God’s greatest kindness to you, something significant that happened to you, something you shouldn’t or couldn’t be, shouldn’t or couldn’t have. That’s kindness.

הַגָּדוֹל הַגִּבּוֹר

We understand that when a person is small, it doesn’t mean they are short; it means they are petty and argumentative. So when we say someone is a big or great person, it means they don’t get caught up in petty things and trivial nonsense – גָּדוֹל.

The Thirteen Attributes prayer on Yom Kippur affirms that God is the definition of bigness, slow to anger and quick to forgive – גָּדוֹל.

When discussing strength, we usually think about functional strength in a competitive setting. Strong enough to lift what, strong enough to beat who? Our sages teach that strength isn’t found in the body but in the mind – אֵיזֶהוּ גִבּוֹר הַכּוֹבֵשׁ אֶת יִצְרוֹ.

Camped at Sinai, having just witnessed the Exodus, the Jewish People dance around a Golden Calf. God tells Moshe that the Jewish People have lost their way and face destruction, which Moshe recognizes as an invitation to pray on their behalf, and God teaches him the Thirteen Attributes. God does not react impulsively; God is mighty and gives us a way out – גִּבּוֹר.

וְהַנּוֹרָא

odd one out

we can participate in הָקל הַגָּדוֹל הַגִּבּוֹר, in kindness severity and balance

we cannot participate in God’s וְהַנּוֹרָא

קל עֶלְיוֹן

God is the supreme power and, more fundamentally, the only power. Whatever kind of power we can conceive of, God’s power is of a higher order. Military power, economic power, political power, nuclear power; any force or power in the universe is the faintest shadow, a borrowed reflection of God’s power – קל עֶלְיוֹן.

Our sages designated these four titles as acceptable references to God, with the express presumption that any other adjective is excluded by definition.

gemara story of brave and bold

adding further limiting

Moshe said these

Tachli hayedia shelo neida

https://www.hashkafacircle.com/journal/R1_RS_Silence.pdf

The word supreme is a preposition that expresses the spatial or temporal relations to something else; it usually means above, on, or over, in the way we might speak of God as lofty or high. It suggests a particular perspective and detachment, as well as control – קל עֶלְיוֹן.

But fundamentally, God is not above us in a geometric sense. Like God’s strength, we understand that the concepts of high and low regarding God are artificial constructs, just ways to speak about things in human terminology.

More than above, perhaps it means beyond, beyond explanation and imagination, incomprehensible; our language is finite, so the language does not exist.

We can invoke the titles spoken by our ancestors, but past that, we run out of words and go into the beyond – קל עֶלְיוֹן.

There are different ways of speaking about something. The engineer who builds it describes the mechanics differently than the salesman who pitches what it can do. The salesman will learn the engineer’s explanation of how it works to incorporate it into his scripts.

But it’s worth asking what the point might be in attempting the impossible. If our words are meaningless and don’t make a dent, per the anecdote with our sages about adding titles and descriptors, why bother with anything?

Some philosophers and sages have taken that position to a certain extent: that the highest praise of God is silence, the acknowledgment that our praise is entirely inadequate. But most, if not all, reject that position as a starting point; R’ Akiva Tatz teaches that some topics are difficult to explain directly, but you can still speak about the topic indirectly. In a roundabout way, without being able to pinpoint the target directly, you can fall right into a kind of understanding by inferring the concept.

If we take it as axiomatic, a fixed presumption, that it is correct and proper to show gratitude and thanks to the Creator, it is also axiomatic that we cannot know the Creator’s true essence; At the same time, there is a large, perhaps unbridgeable gap between the two, that doesn’t absolve us from trying.

While we cannot know the Creator, there is plenty we can know, and the Creator’s unknowability does not reduce that. I may not know the ultimate truth and reality of God’s kindness, but I don’t need anything near that level of knowledge to recognize the goodness and kindness in my life. I have enough awareness and information to understand that the Creator needed nothing and gave us everything and that God’s kindness animates all of Creation.

The extent of it may be beyond me; the depth and definition may be unfathomable, but the fact of it is plain as day. Words may fail ultimately, but that cannot stop us from acknowledging the simple reality that the universe has been good to us.

As one writer put it, two young fish swim along and meet an older fish swimming the other way, who nods at them and says, “Morning, boys. How’s the water?” The two young fish swim on for a bit, and then eventually, one of them turns to the other and goes, “What’s water?”

It is pretty much impossible for a child to fully appreciate the depth and breadth of a parent’s love and sacrifices. They live and thrive within the love, warmth, safety, and security the parent provides, often wholly oblivious and unaware of the comprehensive care and protection surrounding them. It’s the water the fish swim in, the air we breathe; without conscious effort, we may not see the most obvious and important realities around us. But as a child grows more conscientious, sensitive, and thoughtful, they will at least try to thank their parents to a reasonable extent where possible. It would be insulting not to at birthdays, graduations, life cycle events, and happy moments here and there.

As the beautiful Shabbos prayer puts it, if our bodies were loaded with all the energy and power in the universe, it would never be close to enough to adequately thank the Creator – וְאִלּוּ פִינוּ מָלֵא שִׁירָה כַּיָּם. וּלְשׁוֹנֵנוּ רִנָּה כַּהֲמוֹן גַּלָּיו. וְשִׂפְתוֹתֵינוּ שֶׁבַח כְּמֶרְחֲבֵי רָקִיעַ. וְעֵינֵינוּ מְאִירוֹת כַּשֶּׁמֶשׁ וְכַיָּרֵחַ. וְיָדֵינוּ פְרוּשׂוֹת כְּנִשְׁרֵי שָׁמָיִם. וְרַגְלֵינוּ קַלּוֹת כָּאַיָּלוֹת. אֵין אֲנַחְנוּ מַסְפִּיקִים לְהוֹדוֹת לְךָ יְהֹוָה אֱלֹהֵינוּ וֵאלֹהֵי אֲבוֹתֵינוּ. וּלְבָרֵךְ אֶת שִׁמְךָ מַלְכֵּנוּ. עַל אַחַת מֵאָלֶף אֶלֶף אַלְפֵי אֲלָפִים וְרִבֵּי רְבָבוֹת פְּעָמִים. הַטּוֹבוֹת נִסִּים וְנִפְלָאוֹת שֶׁעָשִׂיתָ עִם אֲבוֹתֵינוּ וְעִמָּנוּ

Imagine a speech where someone acknowledges their spouse or parents’ support and says they can’t thank them enough, so they won’t bother – it’s a cop-out! But just because we can’t finish the task doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try.

This is the spirit and title that the whole Amida encompasses, the supreme power – קל עֶלְיוֹן.

(BIG IDEA)

Some literature advocates taking an objective God’s eye view on life and your problems, your subjective experiences, wants, and needs; if you negate your thoughts and feelings, you wouldn’t have wants and needs and wouldn’t feel bad about your problems. You’d be carefree and happy! This view has a significant shortcoming: our whole lived experience is embodied in our subjective experience, the only reality we have ever known. What would life be like not being me or not being human? I am not God, and I cannot be objective. The whole question arises from the human experience within the parameters of subjectivity. For ordinary people, it’s an unhelpful exercise to negate their existence.

As the prophets teach us, God’s thoughts are not just different from ours; they are fundamentally unlike ours; it is impossible to take a God’s eye view of things – KI LO CITE.

Everyone needs things; everyone wants things, including impossible things. But in acknowledging an unfathomable supreme power exists, possibility goes out the window; anything is possible.

Words (!ed could this section belong in Hashem Sefasai or intro?)

Language is a form of technology, perhaps the most powerful in the human arsenal.

We share this planet with thousands of species and trillions of organisms, and none but humans carry a lasting multi-generational record of knowledge of any obvious consequence. And yet, a feral human being left alone in the woods from birth to death, kept separate and alive, would be not much more than an ape; our knowledge isn’t because humans are smart. It’s because we speak.

We communicate and cooperate with others through language, giving us a formidable advantage in forming groups, sharing information, and pooling workloads and specializations. Language is the mechanism by which the aggregated knowledge of human culture is transmitted, actualizing our intelligence and self-awareness, transcending separate biological organisms, and becoming one informational organism. With language, we have formed societies, built civilizations and developed science and medicine, literature, and philosophy.

With language, knowledge does not fade; we can learn from the experiences of others. Without learning everything from scratch, we can use an existing knowledge base built by others to learn new things and make incrementally progressive discoveries. As one writer put it, a reader lives a thousand lives before he dies; the man who never reads lives only once.

Language doesn’t just affect how we relate to each other; it affects how we relate to ourselves. We make important decisions based on thoughts and feelings influenced by words on a page or conversations with others. It has been said that with one glance at a book, you can hear the voice of another person – perhaps someone gone for millennia – speaking across the ages clearly and directly in your mind.

Considering the formidable power of communication, it follows that the Torah holds it in the highest esteem because language is magical. Indeed, it is a building block of Jewish belief that the fabric of Creation is woven with words; in the beginning, the Creator says let there be light, and there is light. בדבר ה שמים נעשו tehilim 33:6

Although speech and language are distinctly human things, the concept of language inherently means communication with a counterpart or an other. The function of a word is to be heard; words that go unheard cannot be said to truly exist. A famous philosophical thought experiment asks us to consider if a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound? In this interpretation, sound can only be said to be sound if a person hears it. The notion of the Creator speaking Creation into existence with primordial speech is the ultimate act of communication with a counterpart.

If thought is abstract and action is reality, speech is the bridge from the inside to the outside, from metaphysical to tangible – תִּפְתָּח וּפִי יַגִּיד תְּהִלָּתֶךָ. It follows from this that although the Amida is recited silently, the words must be whispered just loud enough so you can hear yourself but quiet enough so people standing nearby cannot.

We say words of our own to manifest appreciation in the world; those words must be audible. If words are the bridge between worlds and the bridge goes nowhere, the words have failed.

Elyon

The Creator is supreme, unknowable, elevated, and removed, with perspective and power above all. More than power in terms of magnitude or order, the Creator’s strength originates in that detachment, in being able to take a long-term view and perspective. We all get caught up in the moment from time to time; God never does, an expression of supreme power – קל עֶלְיוֹן.

The supreme power that makes galaxies spin and holds planets and particles together is also making you have a bad day; the supreme power that shuts this door arranges for you to meet that person, to be in the right place at the right time – or not. The supreme power that we label fortune, luck, or mazel, is pervasive, at all times, in all places, across all scales – קל עֶלְיוֹן.

When a kid gets hurt, they know to run to their dad to make it better. Prayer isn’t about words; it’s about ideas; this idea is about connecting to the supreme power that manipulates all things in the universe. Whatever challenge or problem is front and center, whatever is bothering or plaguing you may be based on a correct analysis, but is a function of limited perspective, tunnel vision, and singular focus with a one-track mind. It would be easy to take the overview; it’s just that that’s impossible for us.

BIG IDEA (!ed needs work and sensitive treatment)

Perhaps from the God’s eye view, you aren’t stuck or lost at all; you just need to go somewhere else, and are being redirected. Here, not there, like this, not like that.

Bias, desires, and predispositions burden our hearts; that’s how we were made. Sometimes, that can make us feel like there’s no way out, no alternative, that the situation is untenable. This prayer reminds us that the supreme power in the universe is not immersed in our troubles, with a perspective that is not limited to relinquishing our understanding of the issue – קל עֶלְיוֹן.

As a surgeon prepares to operate, balancing emotional detachment and empathy is crucial. The surgeon cannot treat the patient casually like a stranger or a piece of meat; they must care deeply yet not be overwhelmed by emotions to the point where it impedes their ability to perform surgery. If a surgeon refused to operate on a child because the child was afraid and crying, it would be a failure to maintain professional detachment for the child’s benefit; the child would suffer the consequences of not having the necessary procedure.

That’s quite similar to how we might understand God’s detachment when interacting with us; it’s bad because it hurts, but not bad in the bigger picture. Especially in difficult times, recognizing that God is the supreme power suggests that sometimes, what seems harmful to us might be for our good, much like a surgical procedure that causes immediate pain but ultimately heals, that God can hurt us for our good.

From a divine perspective, what we experience as suffering might be necessary interventions for our long-term well-being. If God were not somewhat removed, possessing a greater perspective, God might not be able to act in our best interest; God’s strength lies in the ability to be removed, to allow us to go through challenges while still being omnipresent, even in our impurity and pain.

The Torah anticipates periods of intense difficulty and distance, moments where God will hide – Anochi Astir Astir CITE. But quite paradoxically, God’s apparent absence is actually an expression of presence. You can only hide when you’re nearby; there would be no need to hide if you’re not there at all. This can be seen as the greatest expression of closeness, a divine surgeon who operates out of love, knowing when to appear distant to facilitate our growth, yet always being intimately close, guiding us through our pain towards a greater good.

Few people welcome the kinds of challenges that shake our world; they come all the same. When the business fails, someone is sick, the relationship is struggling, the thing doesn’t happen, whatever the case may be, it hurts, and nothing else matters. It’s hard to see past the moment.

But years later, on the other side, after the fact, some people are fortunate to have navigated through life’s challenges and emerged stronger, more enlightened, or changed for the better; the trials we encounter are often the cuts necessary for our personal development. For these people, their path is an embodiment of the supreme power influencing our lives, with surgical incisions that truly hurt yet are intended to heal – קל עֶלְיוֹן.

Facing adversity isn’t merely about enduring hardship; it’s about recognizing these moments as opportunities for growth and transformation, divinely designed for our ultimate good.

(!ed important not to sanctify or glorify pain here, talk about local why not global why)

גּוֹמֵל חֲסָדִים טוֹבִים

Not all kindness is good; not every kindness is equal. You can do a favor for someone, and they get annoyed, or you give someone advice, and the tip ends up backfiring or being a dead end. Some kindnesses stifle and stop people from ever figuring things out for themselves, and some kindnesses are embarrassing to receive.

The Creator’s kindness isn’t like that; God’s kindness doesn’t hamstring us; it always works and is never embarrassing; it is objectively good – גּוֹמֵל חֲסָדִים טוֹבִים.

(see Arthur green, monism)

God is throughout all of being, and all of being contains the divine self; God is in and of all, eternal all-encompassing being. God is part of all things – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל – and the entire tapestry comes together in cohesive goodness – גּוֹמֵל חֲסָדִים טוֹבִים.

That perspective is distant and hard to recognize in many moments, if not utterly alien. Some things feel bad, some hurt a lot, sometimes for a long time, sometimes forever. That’s true, that’s valid, but there is also a bigger picture, the supreme power that sees the fullness of all things in goodness – קל עֶלְיוֹן גּוֹמֵל חֲסָדִים טוֹבִים.

When we consider the simple act of giving, especially in contexts like offering money to a homeless person without concern for whether it goes towards a hot meal or something less wholesome. The prayer is precise; the verb here suggests more than simple action and has connotations of reciprocity, in the sense of bestowing, paying back, or redeeming – גּוֹמֵל / oseh.

The essence of true loving-kindness is rooted in consideration of the recipient’s needs over their wants. It’s about providing not what they desire but what truly benefits them, ensuring that the gift is appropriate and meaningful. We believe that God gives the right gifts at the right times, and they are right because God bestows them with an emphasis on interaction.

This teaching is a paradigm shift; it encourages us to see divine benevolence not just in what the Creator provides but also in what the Creator withholds. For instance, a person experiencing poverty might find gratitude, recognizing that their situation, however challenging, may be shielding them from greater harm or leading them to grow in ways they hadn’t anticipated. It suggests that sometimes, the answer to our prayers isn’t to fulfill our current desires but to evolve into individuals for whom those desires would no longer pose a detriment.

This approach shifts the focus from a simplistic petition for needs to a more profound dialogue with the divine, recognizing that God’s wisdom might see that certain things we need might not be suitable for us in our current state. It suggests that we not simply seek the fulfillment of our desires, but aspire to become the kind of person for whom those desires would be appropriate and beneficial.

The answer to your prayers isn’t the answer to all your prayers. Getting everything you ever wanted, as if that were even possible, doesn’t necessarily mean that all our requests, needs, or desires will be fulfilled in the way we expect or desire. Receiving a positive response or a specific outcome, we’ve prayed for highlights the complexity of divine wisdom and the limitations of human understanding because, while some prayers may be answered tangibly and immediately, the broader scope of our wishes and needs might be addressed in ways that are not immediately apparent or in forms we did not anticipate. Making all that money creates a lot of stress and tax headaches. The person you were dying to marry has a difficult family. The dream house has a lot of maintenance issues.

Nothing is perfect, but that also means that it’s not wrong to ask for anything you want, and anything is possible. One mathematician wrote of the butterfly effect, the idea that small things can have non-linear impacts on complex systems; prayer is fundamentally about understanding the status quo and asking for it to change, with all the cascading effects on everything else that follows.

When you overcome a challenge or when you ask for help and succeed, you can be thankful for the failure and stress. With context and clarity, the problems that hold us back can eventually be the trials that level us up, some of the best things that have ever happened. In praying to solve a problem, you might find the strength to work through and overcome it completely.

The Ben Ish Chai highlights how the Torah uses a similar word to describe how Ahron’s staff suddenly bursts with almond blossoms, signifying not just a miraculous event but a revelation of deeper truths and blessings – bigmol shkeidim / גּוֹמֵל CITE. This association suggests that God’s kindnesses reveal and unfolds to help us understand and navigate our challenges. It’s about the unfolding of circumstances in such a way that what initially frustrates us eventually reveals its hidden goodness. Like stubbing your toe only to discover, through the ensuing hospital visit, that an undiagnosed health issue can now be treated, the hidden blessings become apparent, allowing us to see divine providence in ways we previously couldn’t.

It’s okay to be authentic about what you’re experiencing; it might even be ideal, however trivial; you’re glad you caught the train, found a good parking spot, the line was short, paid a reasonable price, got a promotion. If you’re thankful for silly things, say thank you! If you’re not thankful that the poor children in some far corner of the world aren’t hungry today, it serves no purpose to maintain any illusion. It’s perfectly okay to be thankful for having all we need to be the people we are, and nothing is too shallow or small. If the Creator is the supreme power at the smallest scale, the promotion is trivial, but you are not, and the promotion was sent to you, and now you are happy!

Prayer isn’t theatre; it’s not a performance for anybody; no one else is listening. There is no right way to feel other than genuine; it’s about opening up to the Creator. It’s worth more than the empty platitudes we wish people in our morning greetings. How are you? Good, thanks; how are you? All good.

Take those few minutes to recognize the goodness in your life and that they’re things you want and need and things that are ultimately and objectively good. For all the things that make you uniquely you, who you are, and all the things that are leading you to who you need to become, who you are still becoming

Another word linked to this root is camel – גּוֹמֵל / GAMAL. The camel’s defining features are endurance and resilience, renowned for its ability to travel long distances across arid landscapes with limited resources, bearing heavy burdens. In this way, the camel represents the ability to withstand challenging conditions and to continue moving forward despite scarcity or hardship.

In the way a camel’s hump is a biological adaptation specific to its needs and provides required energy in lean times, it is worth considering which features and kindnesses and their functionality and purpose in your environment define and sustain you.

Recognize that the supreme power that guides the universe has shaped you into what makes you uniquely you, not just in external things that happen to people like money and health, but kindness specific to you on the level of intimate and integral parts – גּוֹמֵל חֲסָדִים.

There can be no more authentic, genuine, and unique appreciation than recognizing that the Creator has made you authentically you, with all the constituent parts of your inner life. By definition, no one ever has or will be able to sing that song; they will have theirs, but that one is yours alone.

Take a moment each time you pray, identify some of the things that make you the person you are, and be thankful for those. Your recipe is unique; no one has possessed it before; none will possess it again – גּוֹמֵל חֲסָדִים טוֹבִים.

וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל

Creates, owns, acquires, possesses. While there are different words for “create” in Hebrew, this one has connotations of acquiring and possessing that others do not – borei, yotzeir, osei CITE.

The first blessing of the Amida praises the Creator’s mastery and power over the universe; any desires and requests that follow tie directly into that. We ask for health because of God’s power over our bodies; we ask for prosperity because God controls the forces that move financial markets; we ask for wisdom from the Source of all understanding. God controls and manages all those things; God made them all – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל.

Present not Past

This blessing doesn’t contemplate God as the Creator in the past tense – KANA. It speaks of God as the Creator in the present tense, in an ongoing manner – קוֹנֵה. Our morning prayers affirm that God renews Creation every day, every moment; if there were ever an instant God didn’t continue to will Creation into existence, it would cease to be.

We can mistakenly relate to the universe as static; this is what it is. God said let there be light, and there was light, and ever since then, that’s how it is. But in this teaching, every infinitesimal second is a renewal of Creation at the speed of light.

A movie reel is twenty-four to sixty frames per second; children draw flip books that show motion as you flick it. It looks seamless, but if you hit pause or get to the end, everything stops; our lives are like that. God didn’t simply create everything long ago; everything is continually developed and recreated by God every moment of every day – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל.

From our perspective, everything can seem hopeless, and there is no way out. A terminal diagnosis, a dead relationship, irredeemable sin, innocence lost, fortune ruined, foundations rotten.

These constraints are genuine within the parameters of our universe; they bind us, but just us. If you draw a building, you can draw the ceiling before the floor; it won’t fall. To the Creator, there are no constraints, no limits. The family components can change, the sickness can vanish, and the market can turn. Everything is created anew, without due regard to order or structure; the ceiling can float before the floor, because they have a separate existence – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל.

That means we can pray for anything, anything at all! Anything is just as possible as anything else. Praying for a dollar is the same as praying for a billion, and a billion is the same as one – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל

Reasonableness isn’t a relevant consideration; it is axiomatic that God can do anything without breaking a sweat. But there is a practical difference between making a forest grow and praying to grow two feet overnight; that’s not how the world works, so don’t count on it. It’s a waste of breath, the kind of empty prayer our sages warn against – tefilas shav CITE.

(!ed Shlomo – so should people pray for realistic things or wildest dreams)

We don’t live in a magical world or even in a linear world. If good things happen to good people and bad things happen to bad people, free will would be functionally destroyed because everybody would always be good. Who would do wrong if you knew every time you steal, you’d get cancer? If the world worked that way, any challenge and difficulty in life would vanish instantly, and the whole exercise of Creation would fall apart.

To promote the facade of nature and life, God actively interferes with the natural order of the universe only in a limited and regulated manner. There is a cost-benefit analysis to meddling with the system; when we count on the illogical or impossible, the cost is too high, and we will be disappointed if we remain unrealistic. But on the flip side, it’s perfectly fair and reasonable to pray and perhaps even expect God to do the logical and reasonable; probability and statistics are fundamental building blocks of the natural order of the universe’s design specifications.

On the way out of Egypt, the Jewish People are hungry, and out of necessity, food falls out of the sky. They’re thirsty, and water bursts out of a rock. They live in an artificial shelter of clouds with clothes that grow and are clean. They knew they could count on God; they doubted themselves, and at the first sign of having to put in some effort, the Jewish People panicked at the spy’s report.

God can do anything and doesn’t need much to work with; it’s just that God regulates when to upend the natural order. As the author and administrator of those rules, God can suspend and reconfigure them at will – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל.

(!ed Shlomo job interview story)

What this means, then, is that God isn’t just saturated in the greater cosmos but in every aspect of your life, on both sides of the equation: the problem and the solution. Whatever force or severity is animating the problem, an equal and opposite corresponds to the solution if you can access it. There comes a stage in life where the mind fails, and we can no longer remember; we forget things. The inverse of that is that the ability exists to retain far more information than we think possible – if we only put in the effort. The same force that governs forgetfulness governs remembering; there is one force of memory – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל.

There is a fantastic quote:

“I asked for strength, and God gave me difficulties to make me strong.

I asked for wisdom, and God gave me problems to solve.

I asked for courage, and God gave me dangers to overcome.

I asked for love, and God gave me troubled people to help.

My prayers were answered.”

(!ed Shlomo, what about those who don’t rise to the challenge and stumble?)

Make it personal

BIG IDEA

(!ed this may belong in 00 intro)

Once upon a time, prayer wasn’t a duty or obligation; the thinking was that a relationship is meant to be unique, not fungible, spontaneous, or routine. People used to freestyle their spirituality until they lost touch with that ability, which is the point at which the Men of the Great Assembly formalized the Amida prayers.

But although the language is fixed, the feelings are not; we talk about releasing the bound, the people who walk out of Egypt, but most people haven’t been to jail and lack personal experience – matir assurim CITE. The solution is to broaden and expand the definition to all forms of stuckness, any sense of being bound or tied down, whether to definitions, identities, limitations, narratives, or other paradigms.

The work of prayer is to put ] heart into prayer; the battleground of prayer is the heart, not the head – avoda shebalev. Think of interpretations that are relevant and meaningful

put yourself into the prayer – vaani tefilasi es ratzon i am my prayer

Whatever is happening in your life, whatever is relevant, whatever happened today.

Debt

One of the Ten Commandments is honoring our parents. They brought us into the world, fed, clothed, raised, and loved us; parents do so much, and they are owed a debt of respect as a consequence. Foster parents don’t bring the child into the world, but they are also owed the debt of respect a parent is due; the logic it is based on holds true. In some tragic circumstances, parents can bring a child into the world, and it stops there, but even that is not trivial and is still deserving of a modicum of respect.

The Creator, our third parent, made everything and brought everything into existence and also brought us into the world; the Creator is due everything as a result – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל.

Nest

In a more profound interpretation, the word in this phrase is linked to the word for nest – shiluach haken. Nests are an archetype and symbol of nurturing, a place to secure the future. It’s an environment where eggs and chicks can be warm and safe at a time when they cannot survive outside the boundaries of the nest.

Our world is a nest; God has nested us in this world – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל.

We must value the world and not waste things or opportunities, not squander our skills and abilities. Imagine a mother paying for her son’s violin lessons for ten years, at which point he throws the violin in the trash and says he wants to play video games. It hurts God when we waste our potential and fall short of the greatness that might have been ours.

Everything is nested – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל. You are nesting, and every single challenge, difficulty, issue, problem, and thing about the universe is your nest.

Growing up, there was a young man in the community with acute substance use disorders for many years. Eventually, he hit rock bottom, pulled himself together, and went to yeshiva. He went on to become a leader, a pillar in the community who saved many kids with substance-related issues. His substance use disorder had been nesting.

our issues nest us – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל

BIG IDEA

A problematic relationship, health issue, finance issue, or whatever the case may be, is the nest in which we can become our truest selves. Perhaps a way to neutralize a little bit of bitterness or sting is to recognize it in the moment. Knowing there is a surprise before the reveal, knowing that our journey is leading somewhere, building towards something, makes it matter. This isn’t necessarily true of all things in particular; a cup may be a cup without any cosmic significance to your life, but your life story as a whole has a direction.

Everything is a nest; the universe is a nest. The little birds fly away when ready and find the nest’s structure confining. Outside the nest is the great beyond, the World to Come, the place we go when the time comes for our souls to leave the nest.

Renewing, fixing, cleansing

A further profound interpretation of this phrase is that it is associated with fixing – קוֹנֵה / tikkun CITE.

God fixes things, fixes what is broken, and makes them whole – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל.

קוֹנֵה is an anagram of cleansing, one of the 13 Attribute – venakeh CITE

The Exodus is an orienting event for the Jewish People, a founding moment in our history, with a daily duty to recall it. It’s the first thing God has to say to humans at Sinai; God introduces Himself as the God who took us out of Egypt. It is a perpetual mitzvah, and an astounding amount of our daily blessings, mitzvos, and prayers commemorate the Exodus – זֵכֶר לִיצִיאַת מִצְרָיִם.

As the Hagadda recounts, the Jewish People in Egypt were naked and bare, with no faith and merit in their favor – וְאַתְּ עֵרֹם וְעֶרְיָה. The Zohar goes so far as to say that the Jews were on the 49th level of spiritual malaise, just one notch off rock bottom, the point of no return, and imagines the angels arguing whether or not God should save the Jewish People and the argument was that “this lot are just a bunch of idol-worshippers, and so are those!”

The Jewish People weren’t in good shape; we didn’t deserve anything, and God saved us. We were broken beyond fixing, and God fixed us – tikkun. We were a mess, and God cleaned us up – venakeh. With nothing to earn that freedom with, we repay with our lives – וְקוֹנֵה הַכֹּל.

Whose iPod is it

Our sages teach that before Creation, there was Torah, and there was Teshuva, the ability to fix – Tikkun CITE. Through Teshuva, we surrender to the supreme power of Creation, the Creator that acquires, cleanses, creates, fixes, and nests our existence.

Shlomo had an iPod, and one of his kids was playing with it when he asked for it back. The kid got annoyed and angrily yelled, “Fine!” and scowled like she was doing him a favor. But it was Shlomo’s iPod.

If we have correctly understood the extent of God’s power and influence, God owns us anyway, whether we decide to live in service of that knowledge or not. But what we do have is one thing, and one thing only, whether we give ourselves willingly or not.

It follows that if there is a Creator, the Creator has sovereignty and dominion over the entire world, not just the Jewish People; the only difference is whether we graciously welcome the kingdom – כִּי לַה’ הַמְּלוּכָה וּמֹשֵׁל בַּגּוֹיִם

We only have one thing: free will, the ability to choose. The range of choices we have in life is relatively narrow, small, and limited; in actuality, the only thing we get to choose is how we do things.

And whatever you do, if you’re doing it anyway, you might as well choose to do it with a smile.

 וְזוֹכֵר חַסְדֵי אָבוֹת – God remembers the kindness of the Patriarchs

Memory is a faculty of the mind by which information is stored and retrieved; it is the retention of information over time for the purpose of influencing future action. God is timeless; it doesn’t make sense to speak of God’s sense of memory because God cannot remember or forget.

This is another example of anthropomorphization, a way of speaking in human terms about something that is not human. It’s a metaphor, a figure of speech that describes something by saying it’s something else.

Humans can remember something they’ve forgotten; God can’t do that. But when we remember that someone has hurt us, we mean that the memory will influence our actions and behavior toward that person differently as a consequence of that memory. God remembers Noach, Sarah, and the Jewish People in Egypt. He hadn’t forgotten; God remembers in the sense that God takes a different course of action than might otherwise be expected in light of a previous act or behavior.

The great acts of our ancestors influence the Creator to act differently towards us. God can’t daydream, lose focus, or space out; God’s memory is an active, focused consideration, constantly and ever presently focussed on recalling their greatness –  וְזוֹכֵר חַסְדֵי אָבוֹת.

Similar to the law to eradicate the memory of Amalek, memory is inextricably linked to action, demonstrating how remembering past events compels us to act in the present.

In classic Jewish thought, the concept of male and female transcends biological distinctions, symbolizing the interplay of form and matter, initiative and receptivity. In this framework, the male principle introduces form or initiative, while the female principle transforms and sustains it into a lasting presence.

Linking memory to the male principle suggests that memory is proactively creative, not passive; a generative force that not only recalls but also propels forward, highlighting a Divine memory that is not dormant but vibrantly active and generative. It underscores a view of a Creator intimately involved in the world, constantly creating and recreating in response to human actions.

Our sages speculate whether ancestral merit is infinite; does it run out or expire? They conclude with a verse from Isaiah, that even after all the mountains and hills crumbled, the Creator’s love and kindness will never fade – הֶהָרִים יָמוּשׁוּ וְהַגְּבָעוֹת תְּמוּטֶינָה וְחַסְדִּי מֵאִתֵּךְ לֹא־יָמוּשׁ. This passage suggests that even if the ancestors’ merit seems exhausted, God’s kindness remains unwavering. One sage takes a different view; R’ Berachiah inverts the interpretation, reading it not as the kindness humans receive from God towards us but the kindness God receives from humans – וְחַסְדִּי מֵאִתֵּךְ; that if ancestral merit runs out, the remedy lies in our acts of kindness.

What might have led R’ Berachiach to shift the focus from divine to human kindness is that while ancestral merit might not run out, we can act in ways that effectively exclude ourselves from it.

If someone gives you a loan, you will be thankful and repay it honorably. Years later, if his son came to you for a loan, you might feel obligated because his father was there for you. But if the son doesn’t repay the loan, the analysis changes. And if he returns for a second loan, he can no longer say you owe him because his father lent you money once!

God remembers the ancestors – וְזוֹכֵר חַסְדֵי אָבוֹת

They left us with bottomless reserves of merit, but we need at least attempt to resemble them in thought and deed to have a claim to their sphere of merit. The further we stray, the greater the risk of severing that connection; as R’ Berachiah teaches, we can reforge that bond through acts of kindness, reattuning ourselves to their legacy.

Kindness in this context is understood as not merely a benevolent act, but as extending oneself beyond what is required or expected, an act of giving that transcends self-interest and routine generosity. It’s about contributing something of value that you wouldn’t have given otherwise, truly impacting the other’s life. Giving away a sandwich you would’ve thrown out isn’t kind; it’s just an efficient use of resources.

The patriarchs exemplified this through their actions and decisions, prioritizing others and embodying values beyond their immediate self-interest. Avraham’s mode of being, Yitzchak’s acts of self-sacrifice, Yaakov’s fairness towards Lavan despite deception, and the overarching choice of the patriarchs to stand for God in a self-centered world—these are seen as acts of kindness towards God, a devotion that God reciprocates by eternally remembering – וְזוֹכֵר חַסְדֵי אָבוֹת.

Come what may, God swears to remember, never to forget them, and will not abandon them or their legacy, to focus on our good, even though we do some bad stuff, and God anticipates all those bad things.

This eternal remembrance is the covenant, the enduring and unmovable relationship between God and the Jewish People. With reciprocal obligations of both parties, it affirms commitment to a set of values, principles, and beliefs that shape one’s identity and guide one’s actions, symbolized through the acts of the patriarchs and later through us.

It’s not about them

In another interpretation, this phrase might not be about the ancestors Avraham, Yitzchak, and Yaakov; but about the ancestors who trusted God to walk out of Egypt and into the desert, which the prophets call a kindness – zacharti lach chessed neurayich.

Despite the fact God supernaturally exfiltrated them from Egypt and pampered and sustained them throughout, this teaching considered that God identifies and highlights the small things we do and remembers them as kindnesses – וְזוֹכֵר חַסְדֵי אָבוֹת.

(!ed not sure what to do with this, if anything)

hakol bishvil Yisrael – moral superiority, not racial superiority

God wants people to act a certain way

If we are, or more modestly, are trying our best, then the world is for us

וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל לִבְנֵי בְנֵיהֶם

This blessing is about the greatness and kindness of our ancestors; as their descendants, there is an element of them in us, and this phrase ties our redemption to them.

It contemplates a present redemption that is continuous and ongoing, not a far-off redemption one day in a distant future – וּמֵבִיא.

The concept of redemption in Jewish thought offers a fascinating lens through which to view the unfolding of history and the evolution of generations. It posits that every generation holds the potential for redemption, a promise not uniform across time but tailored to each era’s unique challenges and spiritual landscape. This potential, however, is not always fully realized, which might seem like a shortfall but, on a deeper level, reflects the divine attribute of patience and perseverance. The recurring opportunities for redemption are less about repeated failures and more about the generosity of chances, underscoring the belief that the Creator does not give up on humanity but offers more opportunities for growth and improvement.

This adaptability of redemption, making it suitable for its recipients, echoes the Torah’s assertion that a leader’s greatness is measured by their relevance and ability to resonate with their people at their time. God sent Moshe away from Sinai because his people had become unworthy, suggesting that leadership and redemption are profoundly connected to the condition and needs of the people at that moment.

A leader is only as good as he is relevant; one of our greatest praises is our belief that redemption is not a one-size-fits-all solution but is dynamic and matches what people need – וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל.

Judaism originated the idea of Mashiach, the savior or liberator who ushers in a Messianic Age of global universal peace and utopia and the end of history. That era didn’t come in the age of our ancestors, and it hasn’t happened in our time, not yet at least, and it’s the big goal on the horizon we work towards.

When we anchor God in the profound and unique relationship with our ancestors, it seems to set an impossibly high bar for future generations. There might be an underlying expectation that since this relationship was established in a state of near perfection, the continuation of this legacy must uphold the same standards.

As this blessing tells us, God redeems their children’s children, too, suggesting recognition of the evolving nature of this relationship across generations, that redemption is promised not just directly but to the next generation and descendants many steps removed, that the spiritual legacy of our ancestors is robust enough to withstand the dilution that time and distance impose – וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל לִבְנֵי בְנֵיהֶם.

God brings it closer

Another interpretation is that God facilitates redemption by constantly bringing it closer. On a superficial level, each day that goes by, we are one step closer, but more profoundly, God brings the concept and goal of redemption closer to our hearts and minds. As the goal becomes more imminent, it becomes more comprehensible and integrated into our collective consciousness. It’s something we think about and talk about today, part of the zeitgeist; that’s not always been the case.

God recognizes our abilities and shortcomings; we are who we are, we are not our ancestors. God moves the goalposts closer to accommodate our capabilities and circumstances, appreciating the small things we do and acknowledging our efforts and contributions, no matter how modest they may seem in comparison to the monumental achievements of our forebears. The incremental progress we make toward a redeemed world, every act of kindness, every moment of learning, and every mitzvah is an essential step on the path to redemption – וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל.

It reassures us that our efforts are not in vain and that every positive action contributes to bringing the concept and reality of Mashiach closer to fruition. In this way, the journey toward redemption is a collective endeavor that honors our ancestors’ legacy while recognizing each generation’s unique contributions and challenges.

We’re not them

In reflecting on our journey towards Mashiach, we must recognize a fundamental difference between the spiritual heroism of our ancestors and the nature of our standing. We are not Avraham, who faced the fiery furnace with absolute faith. We are not Moshe, who faced off with an empire and didn’t flinch. We are not Nachshon, who stepped into the ocean he couldn’t swim in.

What, then, are our great deeds? In our mundane and ordinary lives, what can we hope to contribute to the grand narrative of redemption?

That’s precisely why redemption must evolve to accommodate the principle of the decline of the generations. This notion isn’t a moral judgment but a factual acknowledgment of the spiritual distance that separates us from the soaring heights reached by our forebears. It’s a recognition that holding us to the standards of past generations would not only be unfair but would ignore the context of our struggles and achievements. Therefore, divine kindness does not hold this decline against us. Instead, it reassures us of a steadfast promise made to Avraham – God chose his descendants because Avraham would teach his household to follow in his ways.

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No matter how small our deeds may seem or how modest our contributions are, they are recognized by God as significant steps that contribute towards bringing perfection into the world.

That’s actually what Mashiach represents – the world coming to its perfected state, characterized by peace and the permanent end of all conflict. The greatest expression of kindness, then, is God’s ability to look upon our flawed efforts and see them as integral to the world’s perfection – וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל לִבְנֵי בְנֵיהֶם.

In comparison to the Creator’s infinite greatness, even the Avot were small, and so our own sense of smallness is put into perspective. We can rely on God’s kindness to see the quality in our deeds, recognizing that our efforts, no matter how minor they may seem, contribute to the collective march toward redemption.

Wrinkle

It’s well and good that God’s expectations are proportionate to each generation’s capabilities, but the fact that the great deeds of our ancestors did not bring about Mashiach isn’t a good sign. It suggests that their maximal efforts, grand as they were, were not enough to usher in the era of Mashiach, prompting a reassessment of what is expected from us. If their best wasn’t sufficient, why would ours be good enough?

Perhaps, then, every generation is equidistant from Mashiach, with our small deeds holding as much significance in the divine calculus as the monumental acts of Avraham and his descendants. In this light, our efforts towards kindness, justice, and faithfulness are as vital to the process of redemption as the most heroic deeds of our forefathers. This equivalence underscores a profound hope and responsibility—that in doing our part, no matter how modest it may seem, we actively participate in the collective endeavor to bring the world closer to its ultimate perfection.

But we sort of are them

Avraham binding his son, and Yitzchak willing allowing him to, brought the world closer to perfection. The great acts of our ancestors are not merely historical; they are our legacy, inherent in us, having shaped the moral and spiritual DNA of the Jewish People ever since. This profound connection suggests that each act of righteousness and each moment of sacrifice throughout our history brings the world incrementally closer to perfection and lives on in us. Our task is not to start from scratch but to build upon the extensive foundations laid by generation after generation of our ancestors. The Akeidah, the pinnacle of faith and sacrifice, lives on in us, suggesting that God’s kindness extends to seeing the goodness of our forebears in all our actions and intentions. In us, God sees them – וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל לִבְנֵי בְנֵיהֶם.

Taking this teaching to its furthest conclusion, we can have ultimate redemption, because redeeming us is redeeming the ancestors.

We might not look or act anything like Avraham. Even many steps removed even heavily watered down from what was once great and admirable, we can draw on three and a half thousand years’ worth of spiritual credit reserves that have been accruing interest, a testament to the enduring covenant between God and the Jewish people, a covenant that transcends appearances, time, and the physical realm – וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל לִבְנֵי בְנֵיהֶם.

Imagine holding a check signed by Dad with the family name but without identification; how does the teller know the check is authentic? Your clothes and car don’t help, but your face might; if the branch manager knows your family and says you look just like Dad did, you might be in luck.

The divine teller recognizes us not by our external trappings but by an inherent familial resemblance, a spiritual lineage, and a soul bond that traces back to Avraham. This recognition is not based on physical attributes but on a deeper, soulful connection to our forebears.

We can cash in on that only through God’s kindness, which we must praise – וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל לִבְנֵי בְנֵיהֶם.

It is essential to understand that redemption and Mashiach are not rewards for accumulating a certain number of mitzvah points; they are the culmination of a profound connection and intrinsic bond between Creator and Creation. Kind words and good deeds are what ultimately draw the world closer to its perfected state; Mashiach is merely a consequence of that.

In today’s landscape, many of our people do not embody the ideals of Avraham or even the traditional markers of Jewish identity, yet God’s promise remains unwavering. Every Jew, regardless of their appearance or observance, irrespective of how far they may have strayed from the path of their ancestors, is still considered a descendant of Avraham, the progeny of the person who dedicated his life to sharing God with the world. This is the essence of divine kindness: recognizing and valuing each individual’s connection to a shared spiritual heritage, regardless of their external circumstances – וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל לִבְנֵי בְנֵיהֶם.

This teaching suggests that our most minor acts of kindness, our everyday struggles and achievements, are seen as valuable contributions to the greater narrative of redemption. Standing here with little or nothing, we are invited to see ourselves as part of a royal lineage, heirs to a spiritual kingdom built by giants, in a state of humility and openness to divine grace.

It is a recognition that, in the grand scheme of redemption, our inherent worth and our contributions, no matter how small, are recognized and cherished by God. This is the ultimate kindness, the assurance that each of us has a role in bringing the world closer to its perfected state, guided by the legacy of our ancestors and the boundless chesed of the Creator.

But actually, we want to do it ourselves

But while all that’s true, we might feel a certain frustration. We don’t want to rely on ancestral merit; we want to earn our place in the redemption narrative through our own merits. While we deeply value the foundation laid by our forefathers, we seek to make a meaningful contribution with our actions and deeds. We don’t just want to inherit a spiritual legacy but to proactively participate in its continuation and growth. We want to fight our battles and win victories, not finish someone else’s fights!

This perspective does not diminish the significance of heritage; instead, it highlights our dynamic relationship with it. God allows us to utilize the merit of our ancestors as a support for our challenges, recognizing that while we stand on the shoulders of giants, the battles we face are uniquely ours. We can compete in our own competition in full; the challenges adapted to our generation are tailored for us, affirming that we have the capacity to meet them and victory will be ours. In this way, our victories are genuinely ours, even as they contribute to the broader narrative of Jewish history and destiny.

Avraham does everything to earn God’s commitment and undertaking, and God recognizes Avraham in us. This recognition is not a passive inheritance but an active engagement with our spiritual identity and mission. The fact that our endeavors can be seen as worthy and deserving is a testament to our direct lineage from those who first earned God’s commitment. Our deeds are considered redemptive because our forebears earned the right for their descendants’ efforts to be valued that way. This unique dynamic illustrates a divine kindness that views our contributions as both significant in their own right and as a continuation of the legacy of our ancestors.

In this context, our efforts and contributions are measured not against a universal standard but against our personal capacities and circumstances. Just as an overweight asthmatic may not be expected to perform to the standards of an Olympic runner, we are not expected to replicate the exact deeds of our ancestors. Instead, our objective is to strive towards our version of perfection, to do the utmost within our abilities and circumstances. The divine kindness in this process is the recognition of our efforts as complete and worthy, seeing perfection in our earnest attempts to fulfill our spiritual and moral responsibilities.

Your job is to do 100% of what you can, and everyone is tasked with the same. In every single context, however close or far, and no matter who else is involved, you are always as far as everyone else, whether one step or two miles.

God’s consideration of our deeds as 100% effort towards the ultimate goal of Mashiach — a world of perfection and divine harmony — expresses the deepest divine kindness. It underscores a fundamental belief in the value of every individual’s attempt to contribute to the world’s betterment, regardless of how far we might feel from the ideal. In this view, our every effort, no matter how small, is part of a divine plan that moves us closer to redemption, honoring the legacy of our ancestors while acknowledging our unique contributions to this enduring quest.

The journey towards Mashiach is fundamentally a quest for perfection in the world and within ourselves. For God to see perfection in our efforts towards improvement and betterment in our actions, thoughts, and spiritual practices is an expression of profound kindness, recognizing and valuing our efforts towards this goal, even when we fall short – וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל.

Commitments and resolutions don’t need to be hard to do; they just need to be something you keep. In that regard, it’s actually better to start small. R’ Yisrael Salanter recommends a strategic approach; rather than a complete overhaul in a given undertaking, surgically target the smallest element consistently. For example, instead of hoping never to gossip again, set a goal of two specific hours a day that are gossip-free.

That being said, there are stories of great people who underwent an instant transformation, in particular quitting smoking in the twentieth century when smoking was considered fashionable and not yet understood to be harmful.

stories

r Elchanan Wasserman – vnishmartem meod

r Aron Belzer – cigar in the waiting room, the doctor said bad, didn’t pick up, and said he quit

r Ezriel Hildesheimer – shabbos police intervention, offered smoke, said he quit, kept his word

Farhi, Yehuda Geberer

The concept of bringing redemption is integral to understanding the cyclical nature of exile and redemption. Exile is characterized by alienation and disconnection from home, whereas redemption signifies a return to a state of belonging, comfort, and natural alignment with our true selves and our Creator.

Coming home is not just about the physical return but also about the personal and spiritual return to a state of grace and alignment with divine will. God is constantly bringing us home, guiding us toward redemption from the exile of our mistakes and missteps. Every moment of guilt or remorse for wrongdoing you’ve ever felt is a chance for God to bring us closer to our spiritual home, an expression of God bringing the world and its people back to where they should be, one step at a time, a reminder that we can always make our way back, step by step, regardless of how far we might have strayed.

The divine reminders that guide us back—through messages, inspirations, and coincidences—are tailored to our level of awareness, respecting our autonomy while gently nudging us toward growth. They are loud enough for us to hear but quiet enough that we can miss them, respecting our autonomy.

In this way, the journey towards Mashiach and the pursuit of spiritual perfection becomes a deeply personal and communal endeavor, one that honors our efforts and celebrates every step we take towards coming back home.

לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ בְּאַהֲבָה – for the sake of His name, with love

God brings redemption as a fulfillment of a covenantal relationship established with our ancestors, who stood up for God in a world often indifferent or hostile to divine ideals and forged a legacy of faith and commitment.

As their descendants, we are tasked with carrying on this legacy; even if the connection may seem diluted or distant due to the passage of time and spiritual decline, God ensures that the covenant remains active and relevant and promises ultimate redemption – לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ בְּאַהֲבָה.

As the gap between ancestors and descendants grows, we might not be inherently worthy of redemption due to our spiritual shortcomings; ancestral merit might be inaccessible or insufficient. All the same, God promises redemption, transcending individual or collective merit, because that is something the ancestors permanently established through their great acts – לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ בְּאַהֲבָה.

What’s in a name

A name is not the same as the thing itself; a name is functional. If you were the only thing in existence, without any other being to communicate with or differentiate from, there would be no practical need for a name because you know who you are, and there is no one to call you. There is simply no purpose for external identification.

God does not need a name, but God’s name is not the same as God’s essence, which is absolute and self-sufficient, requiring no external recognition or identification to affirm its reality. The names of God are a profound kindness towards humanity that offers us a means to bridge the infinite and the finite, allowing us a limited ability to know and relate to the Creator in some respect in a humanly understandable manner – לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ בְּאַהֲבָה.

Reputation management

Certain actions and entities in the world challenge the completeness of God’s name. For instance, the existence of Amalek and the perpetuation of doubt are perceived as diminishing the wholeness of God’s name. These forces introduce chaos, fragmentation, and a departure from divine ideals, directly opposing the unity and perfection associated with God’s presence in the world.

It is in response to these forces that the Jewish People pray and quest daily towards redemption and perfection; our prayers encapsulate the longing for a time when the world reflects the unbroken and harmonious nature of God’s will – וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל, teka bshoifar, vleyerusrashaltyim, retzeh

Our sages teach that the presence of exile and antisemitism in the world can be understood as a microcosm of the state of the Jewish People, a manifestation of spiritual fragmentation within the Jewish community itself. If we live in a time where Jews are threatened or driven from Israel with division and war, we can be sure division and war lives among ourselves. This perspective posits that antisemitism acts like an immune response to disharmony and divisions within the Jewish People, reflecting a broader spiritual and ethical imbalance in the world.

Redemption, in its ideal form, represents an idealized state of perfected existence where Creation is whole, without any broken parts—a world that aligns perfectly with God’s vision. In this redeemed world, the Jewish people are united and free from fragmentation or division, and the relationship between the world and the Jewish people is characterized by understanding and respect, marked by the absence of antisemitism. This vision of redemption is not just for the benefit of the Jewish people but serves to manifest God’s glory and sanctity in the world, thereby making His name complete – לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ בְּאַהֲבָה.

Our experience of the name changes

Our engagement and perception of God’s name are deeply influenced by the historical and personal contexts in which we find ourselves. Before our sages fixed the text of the Amida, Jeremiah, witnessing the destruction of the First Beis HaMikdash and watching pagans messing around in God’s sanctuary, found himself struggling with the notion of divine awesomeness and refused to invoke that title – nora

Similarly, Daniel, enduring the trials of life as a prisoner in Babylon under Nebuchadnezzar and in the face of the Babylonian dominance, struggled to recognize divine might and would not praise it – גִּבּוֹר.

These historical reflections highlight the obvious and intuitive reality that our perception of God is not static but evolves in response to our subjective lived realities. The omission of specific divine attributes by Jeremiah and Daniel does not suggest a limitation of the Divine but is a human response to the incongruence between their experiences of suffering and the traditional expressions of God’s omnipotence and majesty. God was still those things, but it didn’t ring true in the moment, and it felt hollow and empty.

The name lives in us

Our ancestors established the name of God, deeply intertwining with their legacy with it, embodying their struggles, victories, and enduring faith. The Jewish People were named for Yisrael, who struggled with God and with men and prevailed; the struggle reflects the ongoing endeavor of the Jewish people to uphold and fight for divine ideals, even in the face of seemingly insurmountable challenges, and, more profoundly, even if we fail. R’ Tzvi Meir Silberberg highlights that herald the dust that was kicked up and went to Heaven; the dust, not the victory. The dust, the energy expended on the struggle, is what matters. Our victories are personal, and although we don’t always get to choose whether we win, we always control whether we go down without a fight.

As Moshe successfully argued after the Golden Calf, when we fail, it looks a lot like God has failed, too. Even if we don’t achieve ultimate victory, even if they couldn’t, our lot is tied with God’s, and God’s is tied with us; God promises redemption to us because, in the divine narrative, the fate of God and the fate of our ancestors are collectively intertwined with our own – וּמֵבִיא גוֹאֵל לִבְנֵי בְנֵיהֶם לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ בְּאַהֲבָה.

(I don’t understand this)

our limited version of God isn’t real

god isn’t limited

Arizal, Chaim Vital

why didn’t they use all the descriptions back in the day

they would use the language that felt right in the moment

Love is real

Reward and punishment aren’t results of our actions that have an independent reality; they are something like karma, measure for measure, the consequences of how those actions unfold and manifest in the world – midda knegged midda cite. When you repeat your patterns of flaws and virtues on a long enough time scale, what you get is usually a pretty good reflection of what you deserve. Good deeds and loving kindness bring healing and redemption to the world, while anger and hatred bring destruction.

When a Jew harbors hatred towards another Jew, it’s not just a breach of human connection but a rift in the divine fabric itself, contradicting the essence of the image of God, the divine spark in every person; it is imperative to distinguish between hating the sin, not the sinner. True love and harmony among Jews unify God’s name, reflecting the divine presence in the world.

If the name of God is how humans relate to the eternal in this world, then the Jewish people coming together unites the divine sparks and brings completeness to God’s Name. It follows that the single time the Jewish People did this perfectly resulted in the revelation of the Torah at Mount Sinai.

The Patriarchs are identified as Avraham, Yitzchak, and Yaakov, along with their spouses; the generation of the tribes is not included in this category, the point at which they introduced internal division. The name of God is the ability to know God, and the Torah is the way to know God’s will, the way to call out and connect to the other; this teaching underscores the power of communal unity in opening the pathways to revelation and connection. Coming together opens the door to heaven.

In this light, God brings redemption not just for the sake of God’s name but for the sake of love itself; God shares names with us out of kindness and then also allows us to reunite the name when we fracture it – לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ בְּאַהֲבָה.

If you are in charge of arranging the royal banquet, you don’t need to pull out your wallet and count your change; you have a royal credit card. God shares His name with us, a piece of eternity, and offers us the promise of redemption with it – לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ בְּאַהֲבָה.

God made it possible to love every single Jew, even the wicked. The irreducible spark, the pintele yid, is a fragment of divinity divided among Jewish People to share with each other and unite.

There was a family that was a band of robbers. One brother lacked the strength and skill t for their nightly exploits. Recognizing his limitations, the group assigned him the role of cook, allowing him to contribute in his own way. However, his efforts went unappreciated, and his culinary contributions went unnoticed and unthanked by the rest of the band.

Feeling overlooked and undervalued, he decided to cook only for himself one night, leaving his comrades to fend for themselves. Seeing what had happened, the father of the group intervened and threw out all the existing kitchenware, replacing it exclusively with industrial-sized pots and pans, far too large to prepare a meal for just one person. The next day, in the kitchen, due to the sheer size of the new equipment, the cook found himself unable to cook for one without also feeding the entire band.

The Creator designed humans to need each other; it is a design specification. We can’t make it alone, and we’re not supposed to – לֹא־טוֹב הֱיוֹת הָאָדָם לְבַדּוֹ. Going it alone can never work; righteous people need help, and even the best depends on the most ordinary folks. The only way to truly take care of oneself is by caring for others. When we work together, redemption follows – לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ בְּאַהֲבָה.

R’ Shlomo Karliner wished to love the greatest saint as much as God loves the greatest sinner.

There can be no greater showing of divine love for humanity than bringing redemption. Our sages note a discrepancy in the prophets on whether Mashiach comes early or in its time, and it’s not clear which is good or bad. The Exodus was early because it was an emergency; it wasn’t on time. But perhaps Mashiach could come early because we deserve it.

But in actuality, whichever it is will be the best one. If Mashiach is the process by which the world opens its eyes and finds redemption, whatever form that takes is the right one, and we can discard any preconceived notions – לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ בְּאַהֲבָה.

If the world is a bad and ugly place, and humanity has utterly failed, wouldn’t that mean we defeated the purpose of Creation and ruined it, much like the generation of the Flood? As this blessing teaches, God reveals Himself in many ways, and if God sends redemption to a world that doesn’t deserve it, could there ever exist any greater praise or revelation than that?

מֶלֶךְ עוֹזֵר וּמוֹשִׁיעַ וּמָגֵן – King who helps, saves, and shields

This phrase captures the complex and multifaceted nature of divine intervention and protection. While similar, each term carries subtle distinctions that reflect nuanced dimensions of God’s engagement with us and the world.

Helper

Helper signifies a partnership between the divine and the human; it is only helping when people are at least trying to help themselves; otherwise, that’s called enabling, not helping. When God helps us, it implies our active participation in overcoming challenges. This is similar to the Torah’s principle of helping someone who has fallen down, and its variants; the law implies they are also making an effort. This level of divine assistance celebrates human agency and effort, recognizing that we are called to be active participants in our own lives.

Savior

Savior represents a more passive form of divine intervention. Here, the individual does not contribute to their salvation but is entirely dependent on God’s grace. This reflects situations where our own efforts are insufficient, and we rely wholly on divine deliverance.

Shield

Shielding extends beyond passivity to preemption, where dangers are averted even before we are aware of them. This form of divine protection acts without our knowledge, safeguarding us from threats we might never encounter or recognize.

(I don’t understand this)

Elyashiv

Gmalani Kol tov – but you could been saved from being in the dangerous situation?

We don’t hold that way

The best includes the rest

Considering that there is clearly an ascending order to the hierarchy of these praises, why wouldn’t we simply praise God for shielding us, the highest form of protection? The answer lies in our orientation to the nature of challenges and the role they play in our development.

If a child gets into a school fight and the parents permanently pull the child out of school, the child will be safe but will also not learn to fend for himself and may never learn resilience or self-reliance. While there are rarely universal rules, it tends to be true that escapism and running away are developmentally unhealthy; a life devoid of challenges would prevent us from achieving our full potential – those specific problems and challenges to help us become who we need to be. In the Exodus story, for example, the Jewish People are passive recipients of God’s salvation – they do not deserve it, and their spiritual immaturity plays out for the rest of their lives. We praise God for the adversity and challenges at certain times in life and pray that when those times come, God will be there to help and save us from danger – מֶלֶךְ עוֹזֵר וּמוֹשִׁיעַ.

This underscores a deeper principle. We seek ease and comfort in life, a nice livelihood, good health, a happy marriage, great kids, or what have you, but God tailors our challenges to influence our spiritual and personal growth. Some things will be easy; some won’t. Some things won’t come at all. In what quantities, at what times? What’s the recipe? We praise God for the varying aspects and degrees of divine intervention and influence, helping, saving, and shielding, which is how this plays out in our lives – מֶלֶךְ עוֹזֵר וּמוֹשִׁיעַ וּמָגֵן.

Don’t get spoiled

Healthy parents find joy in giving to their children; it can be challenging for parents to not give their children what they want, in understanding that not giving can sometimes be the greatest gift of all. But if you give everything always, if you don’t establish any boundaries or rules, the child becomes spoiled. What this reveal then, is that restraint can be an act of kindness; it’s not actually good to let the kid eat sweets before bed or snacks til they throw up.

This principle is mirrored in the way we conclude this blessing, recognizing and praising the times God holds back blessings and does not grant every wish.

Not the main character

Although the concept of shielding represents the highest form of protection, it presents an interesting dilemma, like the example of the Exodus. If God always shields us from challenges, the world would stagnate, devoid of growth and achievement. In fact, the paradigm of helping represents the world in its ideal form, where humans act as partners in Creation. If saving is for people who stumble and falter, shielding is for the helpless people who can’t do anything for themselves, who gain and learn nothing because they are not engaged participants in the ordeal.

(I don’t understand this)

And yet, shielding is still the highest form of protection because although the subject has been protected in a way they cannot learn from, it is now possible for others to learn the lesson.

In the episode where Moshe hits the rock instead of speaking to it to generate water in the desert, God punishes Moshe and bars him from ever stepping foot in the Land of Israel. The punishment seems exceptionally harsh, but if the lesson isn’t for Moshe but to all audiences for posterity that leaders in public service are held to the highest standards, it makes more sense; there is no better example than Moshe to use that nobody is above the law, nothing is overlooked.

This exchange was not just about Moshe or the immediate context but was an enduring lesson for all time: things can happen to us and to other people.

(BIG IDEA) not the main character

In our lives

In the fullness of time, we experience the spectrum of divine intervention in our lives.

Every time we have grappled with a challenge and eventually broken through, that’s what divine help looks like – עוֹזֵר.

Every time we were overwhelmed with a problem but somehow managed, that was God’s salvation – וּמוֹשִׁיעַ.

For all the devastating things we hear about that could never possibly happen to us… we have been shielded from unthinkable dangers – מָגֵן.

In modern times, we are mostly shielded from the daily threat of physical violence that our ancestors lived with. Today, the nature of threats has evolved into a cultural and spiritual battle, and the role of shielding takes on a whole new shape and significance.

We do not face the pogroms of Crusades or Cossacks; we do not have an Inquisition or a Holocaust, but the digital age challenges and confronts our faith and identity in a formidable way that has swallowed generations like our greatest enemies could only dream of. We need to be shielded from its harmful influence – מָגֵן.

And yet, the most excellent tool for defending and propagating our beliefs is in the same technology. The media that threatens to dilute us can be the most powerful ally, resource, and weapon in spreading Torah knowledge, connecting communities, and reinforcing our spiritual defenses.

In the contemporary landscape of challenges and threats, it may seem as though we are ill-equipped. In a deeply cryptic narrative, Moshe asked for greater understanding, but God answered that humans can only see God in hindsight. Full comprehension eludes us in the moment, revealing itself only as we look back.

The modern era has been marked by a shift in the nature of the challenges we face. Apart from the occasional war or skirmish in Israel, the battleground for Judaism has shifted from physical confrontations with oppressors like Pharaoh, Haman, and the Nazis to a far more subtle fight for the soul of Judaism. The threats are no longer just physical but ideological, infiltrating through screens, cereal boxes, and school curriculums. The assault on Jewish identity and values is relentless, calling for a defense that adapts to the changing nature of warfare.

The essence of divine protection, God as the Shield, remains unchanged. God’s shielding adapts to the context of each era’s unique battles. In our time, this protection extends into the digital realm, where the very technology that poses risks also offers unprecedented opportunities for learning, connection, and spiritual growth. The internet has become a double-edged sword, capable of both endangering and enriching our spiritual lives.

We are using technology to learn Torah right now. This ephemeral message can be accessed by anyone on the planet for as long as they have an internet connection and access this site. Instant torah classes from anyone. Tehilim and refua shleima’s. Someone can read this a century from now. We can harness the technology to fight back in the same way it endangers us.

Start Small

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The episode of The Golden Calf stands out as a particularly low moment in Jewish history.

Following such miraculous events as the Ten Plagues, the Exodus, and the parting of the Red Sea, among other supernatural phenomena, the Jewish People panicked because their leader was running late. They somehow concluded that an idol was the solution to their troubles.

In the aftermath, the Jewish People grappled with the consequences of their misjudgment and sought to make amends. One form that took was the half-shekel tax, a mandatory contribution from every individual that went towards building the Mishkan. This act of collective responsibility and atonement symbolized the beginning of their journey back towards redemption.

R’ Meilech Biderman highlights how, among other things, the half shekel itself is a symbol that teaches a crucial lesson about human nature and the path of improvement that leads to lasting change.

A half isn’t a whole, only a part. But it’s a start, and that’s what matters.

The half-shekel, being just a fraction of a whole, symbolizes that even partial efforts can be valuable starting points. It is a modest contribution that highlights the power of small beginnings; gradual, consistent progress is usually better than grand but fleeting efforts. Inertia is powerful; just the act of getting started gets you off zero, off the couch, and in the game with some momentum.

The conventional wisdom is to set large goals and then take big leaps to accomplish the goal in as little time as possible, but enormous strides can often lead to burnout and disappointment. Baby steps are all it takes to overcome the daunting prospect of starting over and the fear of failure. Embracing gradual change and appreciating the compound effect of small commitments to minor improvement can be more sustainable and effective.

Small things count; they add up, stack, and compound quickly. You just have to get started.

Commitments and resolutions don’t need to be hard to do; they just need to be something you keep. In that regard, it’s actually better to start small. R’ Yisrael Salanter recommends a strategic approach; rather than a complete overhaul in a given undertaking, surgically target the smallest element consistently. For example, instead of hoping to pray better in general, set a goal of praying one particular blessing more thoughtfully. Rather than resolve to never gossip again, set a goal of one specific hour a day that is gossip-free.

It is easy to dismiss the value of making slightly better choices and decisions on a daily basis; small things are, by definition, not impressive. They are boring and don’t make headlines. But the thing about small commitments is that they work.

Keeping small commitments is what forms new behaviors, habits, patterns, and routines. Small commitments work because they are easy to stick to; it’s something worth being intentional about when change is on your mind.

R’ Leib Chasman’s students would ask him to recommend New Year’s resolutions, and the sage would reply that they could decide for themselves but to make sure to pick something they could keep to. After thinking, they would share their choices with their teacher, and he would interrogate them. “Are you sure you can keep your resolution?” “I’m certain.” “Great! I want you to cut it in half.”

R’ Chatzkel Levenstein intuitively suggests that a human can only be obligated to achieve what is possible within a calendar year, comparing personal growth to a loan paid off in installments. You don’t pay the whole mortgage off in one month; that’s not how mortgages work.

Maintaining basic, consistent efforts is often more fruitful than seeking dramatic transformations. Improving by just one percent is barely noticeable. In the beginning, there is hardly any difference between making a choice that is one percent better or one percent worse; it won’t impact you much today. But as time goes on, these small differences compound, and you soon find a huge gap between people who make slightly better choices daily and those who don’t. One percent better each day for a year is thirty-seven times better by the end.

The journey back from the brink of one of the Torah’s most significant crises began with a simple half-shekel.

It wasn’t much, but it reminds us of the impact of small actions and choices that didn’t seem to make much of a difference at the time; the small things we stick with are what ultimately shape our long-term trajectory and path forward.

The heaviest weight in the gym is the front door.

People will sit up late at night and wonder what they’re doing with their lives, if they’ll ever achieve their goals, if they’ll ever get to the places they want to go. Choose one thing you can do tomorrow that will get you closer, one thing to take action on. Then do it.

Reduce the scope but stick to the schedule; incremental progress drives exponential gains.

Elokai Netzor – Concluding Passage

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יִהְיוּ לְרָצוֹן אִמְרֵי פִי וְהֶגְיוֹן לִבִּי לְפָנֶיךָ ה’ צוּרִי וְגוֹאֲלִי

אֱלֹהַי נְצוֹר לְשׁוֹנִי מֵרָע וּשְׂפָתַי מִדַּבֵּר מִרְמָה וְלִמְקַלְלַי נַפְשִׁי תִדּוֹם וְנַפְשִׁי כֶּעָפָר לַכֹּל תִּהְיֶה פְּתַח לִבִּי

בְּתוֹרָתֶךָ וְאַחֲרֵי מִצְוֹתֶיךָ תִּרְדּוֹף נַפְשִׁי וְכָל הַקָמִים וְהַחוֹשְׁבִים עָלַי רָעָה מְהֵרָה הָפֵר עֲצָתָם וְקַלְקֵל מַחֲשַׁבְתָּם

עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן שְׁמֶךָ, עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן יְמִינֶךָ, עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן תּוֹרָתֶךָ, עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן קְדֻשָּׁתֶךָ. לְמַעַן יֵחָלְצוּן יְדִידֶיךָ הוֹשִׁיעָה יְמִינְךָ וַעֲנֵנִי: יִהְיוּ לְרָצוֹן אִמְרֵי פִי וְהֶגְיוֹן לִבִּי לְפָנֶיךָ ה’ צוּרִי וְגוֹאֲלִי

עֹשֶׂה שָׁלוֹם בִּמְרוֹמָיו  הוּא יַעֲשֶׂה שָׁלוֹם עָלֵינוּ וְעַל כָּל־יִשְׂרָאֵל וְאִמְרוּ אָמֵן

May they be acceptable the words of my mouth and the thoughts of my heart, before You Hashem, my Rock and my Redeemer.

My God, guard my tongue from evil and my lips from speaking deceitfully. To those who curse me, may my soul be still; and let my soul be like dust to all. Open my heart to Your Torah and let my soul pursue Your commandments. And all who plan evil against me, quickly annul their counsel and frustrate their intention.

Act for the sake of Your Name. Act for the sake of Your right hand. Act for the sake of Your Torah. Act for the sake of Your holiness. In order that Your loved ones be released, deliver with Your right hand and answer me. May they be acceptable the words of my mouth and the thoughts of my heart before You Hashem, my Rock and my Redeemer.

He Who makes peace in His high heavens – may He make peace upon us and upon all Israel and say – Amen!

History

When the Men of the Great Assembly drafted the Amida, there were several proposed submissions for the concluding prayer. This version was authored by Mar Bar Rav Ashi and was ultimately selected for inclusion.

The other sages had written prayers upon finishing the Amida, but this was chosen as a natural continuation of the last prayer. My lips have been engaged in prayer; please protect me from doing the things that will foul or harm their suitability for prayer.

More than words

We have said what there is to say other than some short closing remarks, but we ask God to see past our words and voice; sometimes, our deepest desires are things we’re not even consciously aware of, things we cannot express or understand.

If I am unworthy of having my prayers answered, that’s on me; at the end of my prayers, I acknowledge that which is why the concluding prayer is personal. Hopefully, at this point in our prayers, there is something more than words to our prayers, and something has stirred in our hearts – וְהֶגְיוֹן לִבִּי.

We ask God to accept our prayer holistically, from our outer words to the innermost thoughts of the heart – אִמְרֵי פִי וְהֶגְיוֹן לִבִּי

Guard my tongue

In a sense, this closing prayer mirrors the opening prayer for God to open our lips for prayer – אֲדֹנָי שְׂפָתַי תִּפְתָּח וּפִי יַגִּיד תְּהִלָּתֶֽךָ.

It also complements the previous prayer for our words to be desirable – יִהְיוּ לְרָצוֹן אִמְרֵי פִי.

On Yom Kippur and Tisha b’Av, we recall the Ten Martyrs, legendary sages executed by the Roman Empire. One of them, Rabbi Hutzpit, was dismembered and dragged through the streets after his murder. Another sage, Elisha ben Avuya, witnessed Rabbi Hutzpit’s tongue rolling on the floor and was horrified; the experience radically undermined his belief that dedication to the Torah would, by definition, be rewarded, exclaiming in shock, “Should a mouth which produced such pearls of Torah, now lick the dust? In a tragic turn, he sadly became a heretic. But his point stands; it is unbecoming to profane our mouths.

R’ Shimon Bar Yochai suggested that since God wanted to give the Torah to humans, God might have created humans with two mouths: one for words of Torah and holiness and one for talking and eating. The implied premise of the question is that perhaps dualism is the correct view, and we ought to protect good from being tainted by evil. Yet we know we only have one mouth for all the good and evil because dualism is the wrong way to look at the world; that’s just not how things work.

Like the boy who cries wolf, when a person erodes and undermines their credibility and integrity, no one believes them even when it’s true. This prayer is a commitment to using your mouth, tongue, and speech for truth and honesty.

All we can do is be careful to guard our tongues and pray for assistance

Unlike every other prayer in the Amida, this prayer takes personal responsibility. The rest of the Amida is in the plural, in the community’s name; there is no hiding in the crowd here. This is about my speech, my tongue, my responsibility – נְצוֹר לְשׁוֹנִי.

There is evil and trickery; evil things are usually true, and trickery is usually not. But I also want to avoid trickery, even if it’s not evil! Fun and jokes can still be problematic when the pranks and tricks are mean or nasty.

I don’t want to lie or say anything deceitful or hurtful – נְצוֹר לְשׁוֹנִי מֵרָע וּשְׂפָתַי מִדַּבֵּר מִרְמָה

וְלִמְקַלְלַי נַפְשִׁי תִדּוֹם

The word in the prayer has two roots: curse and lightness – KAL / MEKALEL. More than a reference to people who openly curse you, it includes those who make you feel light and small, whether it’s others or even things you say to yourself: don’t listen, let my soul be still – וְלִמְקַלְלַי נַפְשִׁי תִדּוֹם

This is a prayer to overcome the feelings of self-doubt and personal incompetence that baselessly hold you back from doing things that could transform your life because you’re not ready to face the reality of your own potential greatness; help me not be moved by my own thoughts – וְלִמְקַלְלַי נַפְשִׁי תִדּוֹם.

The Mishkan’s inauguration was accompanied by a seven-day festival. Right in the middle of the celebrations, Nadav and Avihu, Ahron’s oldest sons, great men who might have been leaders to the next generation, behaved inappropriately and died instantly in mysterious circumstances. When Ahron was informed, he was silent – vayidom ahron CITE.

In the face of disturbance, when people try to rock you, and the world shakes around you, may my soul remain still, silent, unmoved, and unphased – וְלִמְקַלְלַי נַפְשִׁי תִדּוֹם

You’d never entertain the thought that you should never have murdered puppies and pushed over the elderly. Those are easy thoughts to reject because they have no basis in reality. It’s when we’re not sure if they’re true, or worse, when we’re sure they’re true, that we get thrown off balance.

We pray to resist the forces of instability; even if we have done things wrong – here and now, we’re trying to move forward and do better, and we ask for help – וְלִמְקַלְלַי נַפְשִׁי תִדּוֹם

In a world that’s constantly moving, help me maintain balance and equilibrium – וְלִמְקַלְלַי נַפְשִׁי תִדּוֹם.

Obsessive thoughts can plague us, wishing that we’d done something different, hoping that we were different, or worse, that we weren’t here at all.

In the face of unrest, with a mind that’s constantly swirling, we pray for stillness, for breath – וְלִמְקַלְלַי נַפְשִׁי תִדּוֹם.

   וְנַפְשִׁי כֶּעָפָר לַכֹּל תִּהְיֶה

Haters rarely hate you; far more often, they hate themselves because you’re showing them a reflection of what they wish they could be, and they don’t like feeling inadequate.

When people belittle or put you down, it’s because they think they gain social status by doing so. Far better for them to not be jealous, to think little or nothing of you, or not think of you at all; let them think of you as dirt – וְנַפְשִׁי כֶּעָפָר לַכֹּל תִּהְיֶה.

The Ramban recommends that we take the view that you’re not better than anyone, and anyone can be better than you; get off your high horse and don’t think so highly of yourself, be humble and think of the battles everyone else is fighting – וְנַפְשִׁי כֶּעָפָר לַכֹּל תִּהְיֶה.

Beyond that, dirt isn’t just something low that you step on; it is the source of life that all things grow from, where creatures find their food and is of central importance.

There are times you help people, and they are thankful; other times, they are ungrateful, and others still are angry and resentful. The Shabbos prayers include a blessing for the people who serve the public with faith – chol mi sheoskim btzarchei tzibbur bemunah CITE. Most people who bother wading into communal issues do it on faith and out of a desire to make things better rather than for recognition or honor; there is usually little to be had.

Perhaps this prayer is to be the kind of dirt that things grow from; even if people are ungrateful and tread on me, I want to produce for them – וְנַפְשִׁי כֶּעָפָר לַכֹּל תִּהְיֶה.

This is a natural continuation of the Amida: to keep my tongue clean,  let my heart express my innermost desire, let my heart be still, and answer even if I’m unworthy, to help me be helpful to others even when I am unworthy – וְנַפְשִׁי כֶּעָפָר לַכֹּל תִּהְיֶה.

psach libi btorasecha ubmitzvosech tirdof nafshi

The Sfas Emes teaches that the heart is naturally locked; if the heart is the seat of emotion, people are born selfish – the only thing in a locked heart is yourself, incapable of understanding truth. Torah unlocks the heart, opening the full range of feeling and proper sensitivity toward others.

Our sages teach that if the evil inclination is poison, the Torah is the antidote. In the absence of the Torah, chaos has free rein, but as our sages teach, stuck in the grips of the evil inclination, drag yourself to the study hall, and all will be well.

Before wisdom, a person is self-centered, but with wisdom, the heart can be consumed with a love and desire for mitzvos can see past itself – psach libi btorasecha ubmitzvosech tirdof nafshi

One of the things that happens when people visit the the concentration camps of Poland is that it puts problems into perspective, and you learn to see something differently. We pray for the clarity that comes from opening up our hearts – psach libi btorasecha ubmitzvosech tirdof nafshi

toarasecha

We want God’s Torah; there’s a Torah that isn’t. There’s a way of studying that is hollow and empty, a mirror of what you want it to say, finding what you want to believe.

(Shlomo)

Torah is designed to unlock our hearts; most people have experienced learning something that moved them, something real. Our sages encourage us to seek out the kind of learning that speaks to us – libi chefetz CITE

But as ever, prayer must paired with action and effort. You can pray a lifetime for God to open your heart to the Torah; do you have a regular learning schedule? You can wish all you want for your soul to pursue mitzvos; are you pursuing opportunities to help people?

The letters that precede the root of the Hebrew word for effort spell out the word for desire, which is emotive; what comes before effort is desire – SHTADL / RIGSHCA CITE. The letters that follow the word for effort spell out the word for truth – HAEMES.

(this is a big idea and deserves more treatment)

The heart starts locked in untruth, seeing only itself. The desire to see past oneself leads to an attempt for more, a push to do the right thing that, even if unsuccessful, leads to the truth. Desire and effort in the world of the spirit are always successful.

In the journey of our spirit, it is impossible that someone has tried and gotten nowhere because trying is all we can do. In spiritual terms, what sense would it make for God to put someone in a place they cannot understand, try as they might?

Our sages warn against believing someone who says they have searched for answers but found nothing. As the Kotzker put it, the searching is the finding.

We ask God for a little boost,  a headstart to give us some momentum and we will try harder from there  – psach libi btorasecha ubmitzvosech tirdof nafshi

עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן שְׁמֶךָ, עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן יְמִינֶךָ, עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן תּוֹרָתֶךָ, עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן קְדֻשָּׁתֶךָ. לְמַעַן יֵחָלְצוּן יְדִידֶיךָ

The Tur suggests that whoever recites this formulation merits to perceive the Divine Presence. (consider cutting, this adds nothing)

were not instructing god to act

were advocating a good reason

עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן שְׁמֶךָ

As we’ve frequently seen, God has many names, each being a different characterization of how God relates to us through varying modes of interaction. Here, we ask God to answer us for the sake of God’s name; not any individual name in particular, but all of them, the very notion of what God’s name represents, God’s reputation, for the sake of people who know there is a name. As the people who know there is a Creator and that there are expectations humanity must rise to meet, give us the things we need and help us do what needs to be done so that people recognize there is a Creator – עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן שְׁמֶךָ

There are many ways not to know God

Since the Enlightenment, there has been a long trend of secularisation, which, although bringing many advancements in the scientific, cultural, and intellectual arenas, has also caused some serious harm to the world, with the focus on rationality and empiricism sometimes leading to a dismissal of other ways of knowing and understanding the world, marginalizing the role of faith, morality, and spirituality ought to play in the healthy discourse of public life – עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן שְׁמֶךָ

A byproduct of enlightenment thinking is the colonialism and imperialism that has mostly died out, but also the inequality and exclusion that is still prominent in the world today. In a hypercapitalist world, the rich get richer, and society descends into a cutthroat competition of survival of the fittest to get ahead, a vile manifestation of social Darwinism.

In the Exodus story, the Pharoah of Ancient Egypt doesn’t know the God of Moses; he has never heard of Him before. Pharoah doesn’t recognize God’s authority to criticize his tyranny and oppression. He has the power and crown, so he gets to enslave and murder.

Centuries later, Titus, the Roman general who tore down Jerusalem, acknowledged God and openly challenged the Creator.

(Consider Yonah’s story – sailors know God but don’t practice til they are in mortal danger)

There are sadly some major public disgraces and scandals from time to time by people who look and appear to act extremely religious and observant – apart from and until the disgraceful and scandalous thing. That’s true, and it’s always been true. While Jewish organizations are working admirably to put safeguards in place against the kind of patterns that lead to scandals, you can’t fix human nature, and some people are going to drag God’s name through the mud.

So we pray for help balancing that out – עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן שְׁמֶךָ

We want so many things; hopefully, we want most of them for the right reasons! But for the ones we don’t, and especially those we do, isn’t it the most incredible sanctification when our prayers are answered? When that child is healed, when the woman gets married when that man gets back on his feet. When you pray for that, and it happens, doesn’t that make God look good? Doesn’t that make everyone feel good?

We want more of that – עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן שְׁמֶךָ

When things happen, we have all sorts of different attribution mechanisms. How did he make his money? Real Estate. Where? Office building in Manhattan. How? Interest rates, the lease terms, whatever it is. Substitute the event and the cause, and it’s the same; how did he lose the money? Market crashed. What’s wrong? A breakup, a test, finances, health.

These are all correct but are also misattributions. If there is a Creator with whom we are at the end of a lengthy interaction, it follows that the Creator is in control.

Tie everything back to God; the proximate cause may be whatever you say, but the ultimate cause is the Creator!

Smarts don’t equate to outcomes; confidence doesn’t equate to outcomes. Two hypothetical equal people with equal inputs would still have different outcomes; no given inputs can lead to any given outcomes, which is precisely the point. This is not a religious claim; it’s a statistical fact of mathematics. The difference between an atheist and a religious person is whether they label the deciding factor as chance, luck, and probability, or providence, mazel, and siyata dismaya; these are just different ways of saying the same thing.

We ask for God’s help seeing through all the labels; luck, charisma, charm, brains, confidence – עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן שְׁמֶךָ

עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן יְמִינֶךָ

As we’ve frequently encountered, we talk about parts of God in ways the human imagination can relate to, so God’s right arm is a way of speaking about God’s strength and power. Our sages teach that Jewish People left Egypt with God’s power, almost with a swagger, as if to say, somebody try and stop us!

There are times when God’s characteristics are more manifest or perhaps muted; more kindness or more judgment, other times less.

But there are times when God’s power is suppressed, pulled back, and diminished; this is a prayer to unshackle the right hand, to mute judgment, and for kindness to dominate with power – עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן יְמִינֶךָ.

עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן קְדֻשָּׁתֶךָ

We ask God to answer us for the sake of what is holy, separate, and distinct. In a world where the well-beaten path, the norm, and what is natural are not aligned with God’s vision for the world, answer our prayer.

Help us bring distinction to this world –  עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן קְדֻשָּׁתֶךָ

(shlomo)

עֲשֵׂה לְמַעַן תּוֹרָתֶךָ

(shlomo)

When Yakov was on his deathbed, he blessed his sons, and he gave Yosef the land of Shechem, which he says he acquired with his sword and bow, the plain reading of the Genesis story – בְּחַרְבִּי וּבְקַשְׁתִּי. Onkelos translates this as prayers and requests; Yakov’s weapons are his prayers – BAKASHOS. Fascinatingly, the initial letters of the four things for whose sake we ask God to act form the same word – קַשְׁתִּי / קְדֻשָּׁתֶךָ שְׁמֶךָ תּוֹרָתֶךָ יְמִינֶךָ

lmaan yecholatzun yediach hosia yemimncha vaneini

When righteous people die, it atones the sins of a generation. The Yaavetz notes that it is intuitive that righteous people bear the sins of their time because they are in charge, so it’s on them; it’s their fault if people don’t mend their ways.

This line is an acknowledgment of personal responsibility. For the part that’s on me, don’t blame anyone else; release anyone else from fault.

vaaneini

With one of the most important and powerful words, we close the Amida.

And answer me too – vaaneini.

The righteous deserve it, but what about me? What about my voice, my prayer, me with my sins, my mistakes, my flaws?

Please answer my prayer, too – vaaneini

However inadequate, I said my prayers with the Jewish People; this is me on my own, the very last word. Answer me too – vaaneini

Verse with names

Some have a custom of saying verses containing the letters of your name. As Rokeach teaches, praying three times a day parallels three meals daily: soul food and nourishment. The repetition of these verses carves your name into your soul in some way that lingers hereafter and reflects your efforts positively.

יִהְיוּ לְרָצוֹן אִמְרֵי פִי וְהֶגְיוֹן לִבִּי לְפָנֶיךָ ה’ צוּרִי וְגוֹאֲלִי

This verse contains ten words; the tenth letter appears ten times – י x י.

(Shlomo)

something about 10 to the power of 10 I didn’t follow

secret name

42 letters in the verse

many permutations

Three steps back

Our sages teach that early in Nebuchadnezzar’s career, he served as secretary and scribe to the Babylonian emperor. Nebuchadnezzar was out of the office one day, and another of the royal scribes dispatched a letter to Hizkiyahu, the Jewish king. Returning to work and reviewing correspondence, Nebuchadnezzar read the letter: “Greetings to King Hizkiyahu! Greetings to the city of Jerusalem! Greetings to the great God!”

Nebuchadnezzar objected, saying it was insulting to say the great God yet mention Him last and insisted the letter be redrafted. The only trouble was that the letter had been sealed and the messenger had already been dispatched to Jerusalem, so Nebuchadnezzar ran out to call the messenger back and redo the letter, running three steps to catch the messenger before he was restrained by the angel Gabriel because one step further would have granted his merit and ability to inflict harm immeasurably. Our sages credit those three steps for his rise to power.

Taking three steps back at the conclusion of the Amida can be seen as a form of rectification, neutralizing the negative impact of Nebuchadnezzar’s merit, a gesture of undoing or correcting potential spiritual harm, and adapting his method for ourselves.

We open the Amida taking three steps backward in recognition that the momentum in our lives isn’t truly ours; we surrender to the faith that God will lead us where we need to go and that, ultimately, our successes, failures, and outcomes are dictated by external forces.

Having concluded our prayers, we take three steps forward, back into the the profane domain of the real world, coming full circle, right back to where you started, only things are different now. Having stepped back to reflect on our place in the divine scheme, we can now step back into our lives, hopefully with newfound perspective and insight.

Returning to daily life with a new perspective, with new clarity and consciousness, you can face up to your challenges in a new way, and maybe something different will happen this time. Or perhaps next time!

(this is same as hashem sefasai)

By returning to where we were before, perhaps we are acting out what we hope to get from our prayer, seeing that God was right where I was, only I wasn’t where He was. I had to step away for a bit to see God was always there. The Mona Lisa is heralded as the greatest artwork a human has produced; if you stuck your nose to the canvas, you wouldn’t really be able to see the masterpiece for what it is. It’s cordoned off to the optimal vantage point, twenty or so feet away. Sometimes, you need to step back for a moment to gain perspective on where we were.

Prayer Isn’t Enough

The crescendo of the Exodus came with the decisive miracle at the Red Sea. The ocean parted, giving the desperate Jewish People safe passage while simultaneously obliterating their great tormentors in one fell swoop. The Splitting of the Red Sea is one of the most captivating and magical moments in the entire Torah, and prayer plays a prominent role in the build-up:

וּפַרְעֹה הִקְרִיב וַיִּשְׂאוּ בְנֵי־יִשְׂרָאֵל אֶת־עֵינֵיהֶם וְהִנֵּה מִצְרַיִם  נֹסֵעַ אַחֲרֵיהֶם וַיִּירְאוּ מְאֹד וַיִּצְעֲקוּ בְנֵי־יִשְׂרָאֵל אֶל־ה – As Pharaoh drew near, the Jewish People caught sight of the Egyptians advancing upon them. Greatly frightened, the Jewish People cried out to the Lord. (14:10)

But surprisingly, and quite unlike how we might expect, this prayer is not well received:

וַיֹּאמֶר ה’ אֶל־מֹשֶׁה מַה־תִּצְעַק אֵלָי דַּבֵּר אֶל־בְּנֵי־יִשְׂרָאֵל וְיִסָּעוּ – Then the Lord said to Moshe, “Why are you crying out to Me!? Tell the Jewish People to get going!!” (14:15)

With righteous outrage, we might wonder why God gets annoyed that the people cry out. The Jewish People have made it to the beaches with their children and everything they own. They have no boats and cannot swim to safety; just over the horizon, there is a hostile force in hot pursuit. By any reasonable standards, they are out of time and out of options. They are desperate, so they cry out to God for help; we cannot doubt that their fears and tears are genuine.

If crying to God for help is what you are supposed to do, why did God get annoyed at their prayer?

At the Red Sea, God urges Moshe to have his people quickly get a move on. The Midrash expands this discussion; God rebuked Moshe that it was an inappropriate moment for lengthy prayers – there was danger close, and it was time for decisive action.

They cried out to God as the last resort of their ancestors, a weak effort that betrayed deep fear and insecurity and the cynical despair of helplessness that all was lost. It was an inferior, or at least suboptimal, immature prayer that betrayed a lack of belief, both in God and in themselves, that there was nothing they could do! Only they were wrong to think there was nothing else they could do, and we’d be equally wrong for thinking prayer could ever work in a vacuum.

They should have believed enough in their prayer to stop praying and get moving, but they were frozen and paralyzed.

Maybe that’s what our efforts have to look like to give our prayers a hook to latch on to – even when God promises.

God didn’t want their prayers at the Red Sea because it wasn’t time to pray; it was time to act! But they couldn’t because they had given up and were consumed with fear. Perhaps that lends enduring power to the legacy of Nachson ben Aminadav, whom our sages herald for clambering into the water when he could not yet know what would happen because just maybe there was one last thing to try before giving up, finding room for a ray of hope amid the clouds of despair – a hope that drove action.

The biggest challenge to our faith and belief is time; that we give up prematurely.

By wading into the water, Nachshon showed people who thought they had reached the outer limit of what they could do and revealed that the boundary was just a little further than they’d thought. They’d stopped at the shore, but he boldly and bravely stepped into the impossible and waded up to his neck without waiting for instructions, leading by example in the face of uncertainty, the quality of his tribe, Yehuda. And when he did that, he sparked salvation, upending the natural order, and the ocean split for all.

Perhaps that underpins God’s irritation at why they cry out – they are parked on the beach, crying, but what exactly do they expect God to do with that?! We can almost hear God begging for something to work with – tell them to get up and get going!

Don’t just hope, don’t just pray. Alongside your hopes and prayers, you must live and act with faith.

You won’t get the dream job you don’t apply to. You won’t get healthy if you don’t diet and exercise. You won’t pass the test if you don’t study the material. You won’t get rich if you don’t invest. Your relationship won’t be meaningful if you don’t give your partner attention. That’s the way the world works; if you expect your prayer to change that fundamental reality, you will likely continue to be disappointed.

עֹשֶׂה שָׁלוֹם בִּמְרוֹמָיו הוּא יַעֲשֶׂה שָׁלוֹם עָלֵינוּ וְעַל כָּל־יִשְׂרָאֵל וְאִמְרוּ אָמֵן – He Who makes peace in His high heavens – may He make peace upon us and upon all Israel and say – Amen!

The yearning for ultimate and final peace is the last word of Jewish prayers and has been since antiquity; it is a core Jewish value reflecting the profound dreams of the prophets. Love and the pursuit of peace is one of Judaism’s fundamental ideals and is a near-universal characteristic in our pantheon of heroes – בקש שלום ורדפהו.

Avos d’Rabbi Nosson suggests that the mightiest heroism lies not in defeating your foes but in turning enemies into friends. The Midrash says that the world can only persist with peace, and the Gemara teaches that all of Torah exists to further peace – דְּרָכֶיהָ דַרְכֵי-נֹעַם; וְכָל-נְתִיבוֹתֶיהָ שָׁלוֹם. Peace features prominently in the Priestly Blessing, and the visions of peace and prosperity in the Land of Israel – וְנָתַתִּי שָׁלוֹם בָּאָרֶץ / יִשָּׂא ה פָּנָיו אֵלֶיךָ, וְיָשֵׂם לְךָ שָׁלוֹם.

Ralph Waldo Emerson quipped that nobody can bring you peace but yourself. When you feel secure, you’ll have security. It takes benevolence, confidence, and unshakeable strength and power; those come from within. If you do not have peace, you are not yet at peace.

There is an excellent reason that envy figures as one of the most important things God has to say to humans – וְלֹא תַחְמֹד. As our Sages guided us, who is wealthy? One who celebrates and takes joy in what he has – אֵיזֶהוּ עָשִׁיר, הַשָּׂמֵחַ בְּחֶלְקוֹ. One interpretation even inverts the plain reading, from celebrating what you have to celebrate what he has – בְּחֶלְקוֹ. Someone else’s prosperity and success don’t make your own any less likely, so be happy when someone else gets a win because yours is no further away. The Ksav Sofer highlights that this is the Torah’s blessing of peace, an internal peace of being satisfied and living with security, happy for both yourself and for others – וַאֲכַלְתֶּם לַחְמְכֶם לָשֹׂבַע וִישַׁבְתֶּם לָבֶטַח.

If we value and desire peace, we must first regulate and then free ourselves from looking at others with grudges, grievances, and jealousy. As one comedian said, the only time you look in your neighbor’s bowl is to make sure they have enough. When other people’s achievements and success no longer threaten us, we can develop lasting and peaceful co-existence and harmony. The differences are still there, but it’s not the other person that changes at all; it’s how you look at them. Your dream of peace starts with you, and it’s an important step that bridges the world we live in with the ideal world of tomorrow. If you cannot accept others, it’s because you haven’t yet accepted yourself.

What better blessing could there be than to live in balanced harmony with yourself, to be completely secure and at peace? To wholly embrace your differences with your spouse, parents, siblings, relatives, neighbors, community, colleagues, and ultimately, everyone you meet? And if we infused our notion of peace with any momentum, maybe the whole world could experience it, too.

God can make peace between abstract opposites, bringing all the different forces of nature into harmony: light and dark, chaos and order, justice and mercy, life and death. They coexist in their roles as complementary parts of reciprocal interactions.

Peace is possible, and we can achieve it; it is something humans can say Amen to, that what is said is true.

May we live to see the day that it is true, where we can say yes, that happened, that was answered. That sickness is no more, sanctity and purpose are everywhere, and hunger and poverty have been eradicated. That there is abundance for all, that war is a thing of the past, that Mashiach has come, and God will lovingly hold up thousands of years worth of billions of people’s tears and prayers that were answered, and we will all say, Amen!